Hello. I am a 19-year-old boy from Ruse. I have a problem that I can't clarify and I will be very happy for someone who has had one to help me cope. So I don't have a problem with girls, it's always been around me, I'm not complaining at all. I've been with 13 so far, and I'm in a serious relationship right now. My problem is this. When I was with my first 2-3 girls, I finished in 2-3 minutes and saw the disappointment in their eyes as we finished so quickly. And so every time, even if we did it again in 15 minutes, the movie ended in exactly 5. And then I don't know what happened to me, but then I was very depressed that I ended up like that and I said to myself once "no, this time will not be so ". Maybe I gained a little more experience, I don't know, but I actually started to give pleasure to the girl than she gave me, and I end up sitting stiff as a horse, and it's over 2-3 times (at least as far as I can tell or if he says so). I do absolutely everything they want and don't say and I see how much fun I create for them, I like to do most things in sex, but it literally takes an hour and a half or two, we're both exhausted and that's exactly what we end up with, and I don't even I'm done. And they always ask me why it's like that and I can never explain it to them and they think that they don't excite me enough and it's not like that I even put a lot of passion and it's all 6, just when I don't reach the end and then I go crazy and think about it constantly. It really happens very rarely that I get aroused to the limit to finish. I don't take this for granted, and I don't know what to do in general to be ready in 30-40 minutes in general. Even with my current one, with whom we have been together for about 7 months, the same thing is happening, and it was the same before. This is very strange and I'm really starting to worry, but I'm sure I don't have any problems, because when I'm done it seems that I haven't drained the boiler for a long time .... Has anyone had such a problem and how did he cope? with him? Thank you in advance for reading my nonsense and I really hope to come across someone who has had the same problem and coped, because then I neither feel relaxed, nor have self-confidence, nor anything ... Only the woman is happy. :( that you read my nonsense and I really hope to come across someone who had the same problem and coped, because then I neither feel relaxed, nor have self-confidence, nor anything .. Only the woman is happy. :( that you read my nonsense and I really hope to come across someone who had the same problem and coped, because then I neither feel relaxed, nor have self-confidence, nor anything .. Only the woman is happy. :(
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Satiety is called. It's like eating your favorite food every time. At some point you start to like it and you don't like it anymore, you even feel sick. Calm down. Stay without sex for 2-3 months and you're crazy;)
Well, it's not much of a problem. And I've learned to control myself - when I have to I pause for a while, etc. The problem comes from the fact that if you really do it for a very long time (for example over an hour), the member somehow suffers and loses sensitivity, then it is necessary a brutal effort to empty yourself, and it's not even pleasant anymore ... The question is in the balance. Keep in mind that a sexual intercourse, no matter how "masterful", should not last more than 15-20 minutes, come on - half an hour. During this time, the girl can easily finish 10 times, if you try, and in most cases 1-2-3 are enough. Then you can repeat, if you still have enthusiasm (I don't have it anymore, because I'm in my 40s :)) Balance, balance and balance again! No one should be the only one to have fun or be fucked ...
13? I wonder if you keep a list? Hahahaha.
Dude, you're very well, why are you complaining? I am a 27 year old man and things are catastrophic for me. I'm still a virgin and I don't have a single relationship. I went for 2 companions without being able to get aroused, and when I beat my check and I finished in 1 minute. Yours is no problem.
Have your problems. If I could, I would do sextile for 4-5 hours, because it's super cool.
To number 4, the reason why you don't get aroused by a companion and you end up in a minute at the checkpoint is anxiety, when I was 18 I had the same problem. A virgin at 18, I go to a prostitute with the thought that I will finally see what sex and boom are. He doesn't want to get up. And so it happened several times. However, once I ordered one for 4 hours and the first two hours we just lay down and talked about the complete nonsense while cuddling and giving yourself time to get used to it and not just hello hello and get it done will work. And then you will have no more problems.
I didn't see any meaningful comment except the first one: D
You pay too much attention to satisfy the girl that you do not even realize that you should be satisfied but obviously the girl does not pay attention to your satisfaction and needs, sex is a two-way contact and as you are not in sync and one is fast and does not pay attention to the other is your case. you have deviated from one extreme to the other. synchronize your needs and foreplay
I'm just sorry that I wasn't born in a big city: D I would have more sex ..