I repeated my story .... which I had published some time ago ... and I expect someone with a detailed answer .... I think the answer I received is enough .... But I want to know how I can change everything that surrounds me ... Let me tell you exactly .... I have been living and studying in Spain for 2 years 5 months and 18 days, my problem is that I have no friends .... The place where I am also has a lot of Bulgarians .... and as Bulgarians we show one of the worst traits of our mentality. When I lived in Bulgaria ... I had friends everywhere ... but since I've been in Spain I feel antisocial ... or in simpler language ... I don't even have anyone to walk with for at least half an hour ... or let alone to trust someone .... I am not proud of what I have done ... it may be reflected in the relationship I had with a Bulgarian while I was in Spain, but ....
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Well, you know that when a person loses something, he appreciates it! In your case, I can only regret that you don't think you are a robot, you are a person who thinks about himself and how to prosper over time. I was in Italy on a trip for 2 months, I came back after that, how do you think it happened? !!? All those who grew up with them until yesterday pretended not to know, they passed me like road signs, and I, as if they were their friend, had bought them presents, but there were no ones to give them to ....... I can tell you I'm sure there are no friends, no matter how hard it is for us to accept it. There are many acquaintances who surround us in their daily lives. And as far as Bulgarians abroad, they forget exactly where they came from, they pretend to be many, but in fact they are nothing ... and so on. I wish you success and know that one day and your life will change over the years comes all we have to do. If you want you can write to me by e-mail [email protected] and I will be glad to meet you on the net at least for now. Bye.
Write in more detail about the reason you are there, can you come back, what are your options to change this problem so that we know exactly what to advise you.
To the 1st comment; don't talk nonsense "no friends", what do you want to discourage her. True, I'm a boy and it's different with friends, but as a girl nothing prevents. I lived 3 years abroad, again in a southern European country, I was more friends with Bulgarians, for which I am a little sorry now. Can't you catch some cool Spanish boyfriend, introduce you to other new people?
"I can tell you for sure that there are no friends, no matter how difficult it is for us to accept it. There are many acquaintances who surround us in their daily lives. " How selfish. Just because you only have people around you doesn't mean you don't have real friends. (rolf) As for your problem. It is normal after everyone has lived in one place for a long time and moved, after your return everyone looks down on you. Show them that you are the same girl they can count on. Or find new friends who will really hold on to you, as I did, for example :). Success!
My opinion is that it is much easier for us to communicate when we are online, express our moods, share our thoughts with strangers. And what happens in real life? Loneliness - conscious or unconscious, lack of understanding, daily life and obligations, banal problems - sometimes leading us to madness. We fight, we try to be strong and hide our weaknesses. If we accidentally give an outburst of our emotion and negative mood, we are diagnosed that our mental health is not in order, that we have a problem with our nerves, and so on. I think something very serious is happening to us humans. It doesn't matter if we are in another country or in our homeland. I think the key is not to despair. Life is as it is. Let's try to be better and recharge with the necessary strength and energy when we do things we love, when we try to be as useful as we can and not to harm others. Apparently nowadays friendship is a big deficit. You can't count on friends.
Don't despair, friends aren't available. Everything comes by itself. And our life in Bulgaria goes with such a tight schedule that at times I'm scared. If you want to write to [email protected], I will be glad to meet you.