Hello. I will start directly. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We are young, we love each other (Or at least I love him). I have always sworn to him that he will never cheat on me. He himself has vowed not to do so, that he loves me, that he is faithful to me. Yes, but it happened. And how? With a prostitute! But it's not like everyone goes to pay and do their job, it's connected to her. Friends, lovers, they are all one. And most of all he does it for MONEY. She gives him money to have a relationship, even though she is a prostitute. How did I find out .. Secret text messages, late night calls. I pressed him and he told me "are you crazy, even if I had sex with her, will I sit down and tell you" But I'm sure he did it every next time I ask him just keep quiet and answer me with " I love you". And the most shocking thing is that he introduced me to her, to explain to me that she would not steal my husband, it's just all about money .... Can you believe it? It sounds like a fabrication, but it's true and it hurts so much. It's not ugly and ragged, on the contrary, it's quite beautiful and good-looking. I asked him how he could do it, if he didn't think about me, if he wasn't disgusted, if it was all about money. I received only one silence, nothing else. It happened that we quarreled, he immediately ran away and stayed with her all night. In the morning he comes home to me as if there is nothing. He tries to kiss me, tries to have sex with me, but I flatly refuse and he gets mad at me. We have no children, I know nothing connects me to this man. I want to go ... But I don't have the strength. I keep wondering how I will live without him. He tells me that if he leaves he will suffer but I don't believe him. I want to punish him, I want to separate, but something just stops me, I love him terribly much. But I don't know if I will stay, how our life will go on because he told me that he will continue to see her, but it won't be long. Millions of questions run through my head. I'm afraid to touch him to kiss him even though he's been abroad for years and I miss him so much. In fact, they met there. I'm just on a dead end.
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Well very clear. The prostitute fell in love with him and paid him to receive sex and attention from him. I very much doubt that if she hadn't taken out her wallet, he would have hung out with her. He's short on money and he's dating her because it's kind of a job for him. Whether you will forgive him or not, only you know and you will decide. For me, infidelity is a slightly different thing. For example, to date a prostitute because she wants sex. Or to be with a woman at all because he wants her. And as you describe things, I doubt your husband wants anything more than the babe's money.
If you do not leave this person, then his assessment is very correct - that you are a stupid author! Think about whether people include prostitutes in their lives when they talk about happiness. It's just that this person is not for you, he just lies to you, cheats, sleeps with this one, takes money that who knows where he spends it ..
Your relationship is already poisoned and you will never be able to trust this man completely again in this life. This infidelity will eat you like a worm, day after day. This is no longer your husband, he's just not yours. I think you lose absolutely nothing, be strong and brave.
Stop that. Now is the time! F31
Nothing keeps you with this man anymore, he betrayed you in a very disgusting way! If you want a family and children, it is not suitable in my opinion. Success!
Read about male daffodils, I think you're dealing with one!
I read the topic and honestly I was puzzled. What a stallion / handsome man this "friend" of yours has to be, that even a prostitute can pay him to be with her. If that's how women threw themselves at my feet, I had to adorn them with gold. And now on the topic - your man cheats systematically, in my opinion, like others, you should leave him.
Dear girl, pack your bags and leave, leave, there is life after that, listen to me, you can handle it! This is a mockery, you have no children, you have time, you will continue your life without it! Please take matters into your own hands and leave it! Tomorrow he will make you a child, he will make fun of you, and you will not leave because of the child! He will apologize to you, he will tell you that it will not happen again, DON'T BELIEVE HIM .... Believe me, I have seen both sides of the coin and the decision to leave a toxic relationship (on a family basis) was the best I have ever made in my life. Then I met my husband, who is a unique person, respects me and loves me with my shortcomings and qualities! If love is difficult - This is not love! No sex, nothing is MORE IMPORTANT than mutual respect, isn't there respect? RUN .... !!! Success F33
Hello, she is the author. Thank you to everyone who got involved. I realize you're right. In the evening at 30 against 31 he was also not at home and I was waiting for him when he was sick, he came home the next day. On New Year's Eve, he called her first to congratulate her. I pretended not to notice. In the morning after we got up on January 1, he entered the bathroom. And guess what I saw on his phone? Naked hugged in bed after sex, quite smiling. It was the drop that overflowed the glass. I left. We are not together at the moment. When I left crying, he admitted his guilt, not letting me go. Eventually I left. Now I watch him my way and see that he continues to meet and hear from her even though he told me he was "sorry". I don't know if I should give him a chance or if this is the real end. It is very difficult for me, I am confused. He expects me to sit 2,
To number 6 - Yes, that's right. Number 7 - Yes, he's handsome, he's intelligent, he drives a Mercedes and he thinks everything is at his feet
What happened next, then? Please share!
Hello number 13. Unfortunately, I returned to him. I know I made a terrible mistake, but my heart can't stand it. We were separated for 2 weeks, after which he came and took me home. Now ... Now he's abroad, so is she. They did not stop seeing each other. Maybe they're even there together, who knows ... We don't have any problems, it's actually behaving as well as before. But the bad thing is that I sometimes remember and get annoyed. Yes, yes. Only God knows how far we will go
I'm number 13! Thank you for sharing! I want to tell you that sometimes love is stronger than anything, I hope he appreciates it one day! I hope everything goes well with you and everything goes as you want! I will not tell you to listen to your heart, because sometimes the mind was more important, at least for me it was! But I listened to the heart, but in the end I was abandoned! I hope everything goes well with you, I strongly believe that it will be so, God knows his job! Today may be dark, but tomorrow may be brighter than ever! <3
Thank you very much ❤️! Be healthy and happy! :)