I don't know what to call my story. I don't even know exactly what's wrong with my life, and I feel so confused. I just need to share it to make it easier for me. I got married at the age of 18, of which the only good thing is my daughters. We struggled for a while and I broke up. And then HE appeared. Everything I have sought and wanted in this life. And so for two years now, happiness has settled comfortably into my life. Everything is like a fairy tale, with one exception, our relationship must remain a secret for his parents. So far this was not a problem, but we decided to have a child, and my pregnancy is already a fact. Accordingly, it is difficult to keep it a secret for a long time and sooner or later they will understand. Maybe then hell will come into our lives as he puts it. And I don't know what to do because my opinion is that a man can have thousands of wives but only one mother in this life, I will be the apple of discord in their relationship. I wonder a thousand times if our relationship is not a mistake. But can something so good be wrong. What should a person choose happiness or reason I do not know
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What is the reason for your relationship to remain secret?
Unfortunately, in Bulgaria people still live overwhelmed by prejudices and complexes and no mother wants to bring her daughter-in-law two daughters with a dowry. Maybe that. Or maybe he himself is ashamed of this relationship, I don't know what exactly is the reason for our relationship to remain a secret. And the more I think, the more I feel like running away from it all
Apparently the reason is that he is a bachelor, he has no children by another woman - and she has two and maybe she is still married or not .... But it is clear why they will react like that - they have to accept other people's children - they are hers - but not from their son .... His wife has a past that will always be with her!
The most important thing for him should be you and the child. There may be a mother, but she will have to agree to his choice. Everyone has the right to love and be loved, and if someone doesn't like it, it's their problem. We do not choose our parents, but we choose the person next to us. And don't keep your relationship a secret. There is nothing shameful in love. I wish you success and happiness!
If you don't have a problem with your daughters because of him ... there's nothing to worry about. A man has one mother, but also one life. (don't forget it too) At one point he breaks up with her. In addition, in many cases, the mother inadvertently harms her child (and has grown up) by forcing him to do something that she thinks is wrong. If he is a man he will tell them just not to get confused where they do not care, that he himself wants to be with you and this topic for them to end. If he is not married and you do not have a problem with your daughters, what could be wrong? Even reason tells you to come together. Both before and after divorce, parents have no right to interfere anywhere.
This man is a coward. When he loves you, why will he hide you from his parents? What about having children? He received you with them. I also have two children, but my friend introduced me to all his friends and relatives a long time ago.