Hello. I have been in a relationship for 1 year with a boy who is 4 years older than me. I'm 14, I'm about to do 15. After we went for 4 months, he started asking me for sex. One night he told me that he could no longer do without sex and that his body wanted it. I hadn't felt ready for sex yet, but worried about losing it because I loved it so much I told him well. The first time I did not clean pleasure, many people told me it was normal. But the second I did not feel pleasure as every other time after that. I didn't tell him that I don't like him because I love him very much and I don't want to hurt him for 1 year, I lie to him that I like him. I've only had sex with him and I don't know if it's the problem in me or in him, but I'm already sick because I don't feel pleasure, please give me advice.
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I don't think you're ready for sex yet. You said you did it just because he wanted to. It's too early for you and he doesn't know how to predispose you.
Well, what pleasure will you feel at the age of 14, huh ?! If she had waited at least until 16 ... To let me know that it's not very good not to be able to refuse so early
Ahh this naughty organism ..
He looks ONLY at his own pleasure - for that. If you want to be nice, find another one.
Even if you can't cum, if you love your partner, you will enjoy just the thought of him feeling good. Apparently there is something else missing in your relationship or you just really haven't grown up for these things.
This happens because your body is already mature, but your head is not. Listening to how easily you bond with the boy because his body needed him, I wonder what else you would do for him, telling you that he loves you and you are afraid of losing him if you say what's wrong with you. You are naive, you are small and you have to be more careful. In relationships, you should not be afraid, but trust. This is your partner. If he doesn't understand you, he has nothing to do with you. I understand that you are guided by feelings and have no experience. For the pleasure of not experiencing it or you don't like it, maybe because your body doesn't need to do it and you don't want it yet, or it's bare water in sex. Tell him you want more attention and predispose you. Maybe more foreplay. F 28
He just doesn't know how to do it.