The story is as follows: I am from Plovdiv and I work here in a company, last week a colleague from Sofia was sent here during the fair. She had to go through some formal training with me. So for about an hour I was explaining things to her, and she asked me what I was going to do tonight. I was shocked :) .. And yet I told her that we could go out, etc. In the evening I took her, a lot of walking around and I picked her up late ... I sank without wanting to, but when I took her to the hotel I didn't know how to react, I just didn't know why she finally wanted us out, out of boredom or just de to know. The next day we had a meeting of the sales department and we were there again. She wanted to go home because she was tired and the next day she returned to Sofia. I didn't expect it, but I miss her because I fell in love with her a lot. Now we have some communication on Skype, we have our phones, but that's it. I don't know how to approach her, but I want a connection, no matter how far away, I can travel constantly. I didn't even ask her if she had a boyfriend, but she never mentioned it if she did. I mentioned my ex a few times, but she didn't ... we talked about various parties, villas, but a prom, but she always said ... with my friends ... Now I wonder if I finally missed my chance, or she just got carried away but realized that she was from Sofia ... I don't know what the interest was due to that night as well. My question to you is to give me advice on how to approach it, I try to keep in touch on Skype but it is not very successful, if I tell her directly I risk because we are from the same company .. I mentioned my ex a few times, but she didn't ... we talked about various parties, villas, but a prom, but she always said ... with my friends ... Now I wonder if I finally missed my chance, or she just got carried away but realized that she was from Sofia ... I don't know what the interest was due to that night as well. My question to you is to give me advice on how to approach it, I try to keep in touch on Skype but it is not very successful, if I tell her directly I risk because we are from the same company .. I mentioned my ex a few times, but she didn't ... we talked about various parties, villas, but a prom, but she always said ... with my friends ... Now I wonder if I finally missed my chance, or she just got carried away but realized that she was from Sofia ... I don't know what the interest was due to that night as well. My question to you is to give me advice on how to approach it, I try to keep in touch on Skype but it is not very successful, if I tell her directly I risk because we are from the same company ..
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Don't take offense, friend, but this sounds like a joke to me, where a babe, itching a lot, found a nice guy and went to visit him. She was also so beautiful that when she undressed naked because of the "heat", he could not speak and move, fascinated by her beauty and grace. The baby waited for something to happen and finally, she fucked her in the mind, got dressed and left. When asked by his friend - what happened in the evening, the guy replied: - Eee .., wait - tonight I took her off ... but the next time she came ... I'll just tear her off the fuck ...
This is only the beginning. That's how it starts. He also goes to visit. Behave like a man, a serious man, not like an ankle fucker. It is clear that he has friends. You need to know that there are men who do not sleep. Even if you have a friend, you don't care at all. And let nothing happen, big deal. Without asking, there is no way to know what will happen. And slowly with this falling in love from the first subglacial. GS1
Forget her ... You had a chance to spend a night with her ... This could have remained as a sweet memory, but you missed it ... If she is beautiful, nice and intelligent, even more so than Sofia, there is no way she doesn't have a boyfriend or at least someone to satisfy her sexual needs from time to time ... It's just that women are like that, they don't talk about other men in the presence of a man, unless they want to irritate him on purpose :))) and to be able to start a relationship with her, the distance is not small, you will not be able to withstand financially :))) And if you go to Sofia often enough, you will probably not be the only one ... I will just wave my flag in your absence. .. And you will only be tormented ... You don't know her well, you don't know her environment ... Maybe one of her so-called friends to fuck her from time to time ... You are in Plovdiv and she tells you that she goes out with friends in Sofia,
You were lonely, my friend, and she was looking for something she didn't find in you. Life goes on. You will meet another woman for whom you will be the most ... charming, funny and kind man. Greetings and good luck: R
Thanks for your feedback people. The point is that I woke up after the initial stress and came to the conclusion that I am a very dumb piece :)) Now I am very angry that I did not have it then. My question is .. is there a way to fix things, by the way it seems to me that she is withdrawing already .. does not go very much in skype, how to arouse interest again, possibly and not only him :)) I wonder if yes I tell her directly, but it's risky because she's a colleague ...
I don't think the girl had any intention of intimacy. Serious people do not enter into such contacts with colleagues from time to time. She was on duty in Plovdiv and had a great time. Try to keep these collegial and friendly relations. Don't blame yourself for missing the moment. It is unlikely that a girl who cares about her dignity will have fun in a similar way with colleagues. Be patient and try to get to know her. Call from time to time. And not only on Skype - there are mobile phones, there are landlines. Send her greeting cards on various occasions by e-mail and you will see that it will have an effect. When you go to Sofia - look for her. Even for a while - drink a coffee and talk casually. Show her that you enjoy her company. Good luck.
I'm number 2. Number 6 complemented me. This is how it's done. But you seem to want some middleman to fix your job. You will learn step by step. Don't wait. GS1
She stopped working, showing no signs of interest. I stop too. I did not call or write on Skype. End of topic ....
Call me today :) We talked a bit and said he would be coming to Plovdiv soon. And now what to do :)) I swallowed my tongue again today .. how can I tell her how I feel about her?
Don't be in a hurry to reveal yourself to her. We women love to be courted. Find out more about her, about a potential friend, about her interests, her dreams, caress her. And I guarantee you that you will find out very quickly whether he likes you only as a colleague and interlocutor or there is something more. Just keep the good and collegial tone as a start. Nobody likes to be pressured. And yet you only spent one day together. You are hardly in love. Enthusiastic and intrigued - yes, but only that much. Play your cards well and you can win. Good luck!!!
Okay, but if something happens between you - what do you plan to do ?? To go to her or she to you? Think in this aspect - it is not easy to be from two different cities. In the event of relocation, one may be temporarily unemployed and this usually complicates the situation. Unless you are looking for fleeting experiences.