How banal does the title sound, right Well, I recently realized that I have no friends. And no, it's not like I'm an antisocial person who doesn't want to talk to others, on the contrary. At school I talk to everyone, I don't sit in the corner of the room, I get involved in the topics they talk about, generally as a completely normal 15-year-old student. I do not consider myself congested or negative about the world, I try to help everyone when they need it. However, the problem is that when I'm not at school no one calls me, no one writes, sometimes if someone writes to me it's to ask about homework and they rarely write to me to go out, or just to ask me how I am. And I'm not just talking about my current class, I'm talking about all my friends. I'm not perfect by nature, but I don't think I'm unbearable either. It is always my initiative to go out, very rarely do they call me to go out. I don't know, people, I start looking for guilt in myself, but I can't explain it. I am not a conflicted person, on the contrary, I even try to be on good terms with everyone. I don't know what to do, it weighs on me, people, no matter how serious a problem it may sound to you. It weighs on me when I watch others have fun, have a great time (teenage). And I want to, but it doesn't work ... I learned to be alone to some extent, but this is not a solution to the problem. I apologize for burdening you with my problems, but I had to pour out my soul somewhere, as they say. have a great time (teenage). And I want to, but it doesn't work ... I learned to be alone to some extent, but this is not a solution to the problem. I apologize for burdening you with my problems, but I had to pour out my soul somewhere, as they say. have a great time (teenage). And I want to, but it doesn't work ... I learned to be alone to some extent, but this is not a solution to the problem. I apologize for burdening you with my problems, but I had to pour out my soul somewhere, as they say.
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These are not your friends. Just as they are not looking for anything other than homework and school related do not help them and that's it. I'm in your position right now, only I'm 19 and I'm filling my time with work. It happens somewhere, but it's not the same. Relax calmly and don't think so much, it may be only 1 fr, but you will find it.
It's as if I wrote it word for word. I am also a 15 year old girl and I try to fill my time with training. Enroll in a sport and there you will probably find friends, if not at least spend your time with something. :)
Теб не те търсят, а ти търсиш ли някого, предлагаш ли някаква идея за някакво прекарване? Не искам да те упреквам, но вероятно причината е в теб.
Glad they want help from you and you help them. It is very easy to go to a disco and get drunk. If you start living this way - parties and alcohol, you will have friends, or rather company, but these people will not be your real friends. Rejoice. I'm 25 years old and I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't like jokes, I've stopped all these things and I have no friends. And the reason is because I don't live the way others live. I just live a normal, peaceful human life - that's it. I would be your friend, I would be interested in you if you were my age. You are such a girl ... I am "looking" In fact, I am not looking, I believe that God will meet me with such a girl. I don't need alcoholics, smokers, pranksters, frivolous attitude, etc. I want to be a boy-man and a girl-man to meet :) Boy-25
My story is the same ... I'm 15. I know it's not good to be alone. I am very sorry that I cannot help but understand, but I have learned to believe that in the future I will meet people who will be truly important. I guess now, in those years. It seems that very few people are ready to have a real friendship, everything else is companies, if you don't have one ... that's the situation. You feel alone. At least I want to reassure you and tell you that you are by no means the only one! Many people feel the same way, just nowadays it is fashionable to pretend to be tough and that everything is fine. I am sure that in time there will be people who will stay in our lives. Until then, let's keep the positive thinking and attitude.
The fact that you're not a muffin and a bloodsucker like more girls your age might make everyone think you're some kind of jerk or boring and dumb thing they don't need. I do not advise you to become like them, just find people like you! Those who will appreciate you more and will not look for you only for homework and school-related things. Go to a place where you will find people with whom you will have common interests and so on.
Enroll in a sport as number 2 says, or go to some such extracurricular activities if you are good at drawing, for example, or some dancing, singing something in which you are good. This way you will meet people like you, with common interests. Try to meet all kinds of people, you have no problem with that, because you mentioned that you have no difficulty communicating. This way you will find not only people to date but also real friends. Good luck!!