Hello ... I don't know where to start in general, but I can't stand it anymore. I can't love anyone. At the moment I think there is no worse person than me. I mislead people all the time ... I've happened to fall for a boy and the moment he admits to me how he feels about me, the attraction disappears ... and when this person pulls away from me in order to forget me, I want him again. He pays attention to me and I still don't want him. I know the problem is with me, but I don't know what it is. When I decide that I finally liked someone, I start wanting him, and he makes me push myself away .. whether in this case I'm guilty again .. I wonder .. So far I haven't had friend, but I'm not isolated from male attention at all .. the problem is that I'm very capricious and I can't just can't love anyone .. It's a terrible feeling I think that I will never fall in love, but I want him so much, I want to love ... When I see a handsome boy I like him and then it passes me does not last long. There is a boy at the moment who does everything for me, behaves nicely and closes his eyes to many things, the problem is that I don't like him and I don't want to be with him just because of his good attitude towards me, I can't manipulate him on this way .. I have a conscience. I like one of his friends visually and in character, but I can't do that to him either ... In general, I'm really confused and I don't know what it's due to ....
No matter how selfish it sounds, no one can impress me, and even if someone does it, he withdraws himself ... I turn in a circle There is a boy at the moment who does everything for me, behaves nicely and closes his eyes to many things, the problem is that I don't like him and I don't want to be with him just because of his good attitude towards me, I can't manipulate him on this way .. I have a conscience. I like one of his friends visually and in character, but I can't do that to him either ... In general, I'm really confused and I don't know what it's due to .... No matter how selfish it sounds, no one can impress me, and even if someone does it, he withdraws himself ... I turn in a circle There is a boy at the moment who does everything for me, behaves nicely and closes his eyes to many things, the problem is that I don't like him and I don't want to be with him just because of his good attitude towards me, I can't manipulate him on this way .. I have a conscience. I like one of his friends visually and in character, but I can't do that to him either ... In general, I'm really confused and I don't know what it's due to .... No matter how selfish it sounds, no one can impress me, and even if someone does it, he withdraws himself ... I turn in a circle
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Why I think I know you and that I'm this boy I can't understand.
Explain this to a psychologist and it will help you :) until you get better, stay a little further away from the boys, so as not to hurt them with this nonsense, these people are not to blame. Otherwise, the fact that you realize the problem and want help is great! Success!
What a psychologist she was, number 2, didn't scare the woman. The other extreme would be far more disturbing if he threw himself at everyone he met. You start with "I'm misleading people all the time," and then you say, "I can't manipulate him, I have a conscience." You see, then you're not that bad: D Look now, not a single person of all can attract us and when we look at it, it's so bright and there are arrows pointing at it and shouting "Hey, hey, hey that ". It's normal to be drawn to more than one boy, just as it's normal to cut those you don't like. It's normal because hormones shake you ... and it's all about sex. So ... don't cut for nonsense, you have no problems, but in life in general there will always be a moment when you have to make a choice - whether it will be for boys, work, which dress to buy for the prom ... you have to choose when the time comes; respectively, you will have to make a choice anyway - it's good to know what you want :) People who do not make their choices blindly feel really successful.
It's like I wrote it. It so happened to me that I went with a boy who liked me. At first we just went out, I liked him visually and in the evening he called me and told me that he liked me a lot, that he didn't want things to fuck up, etc. He became more insistent and just somehow it seemed to me that this was too much. just for one outing. Shortly afterwards, I abandoned him. And I was fine alone for about 1 month. After that, however, I somehow started to miss him, I wanted to see him again. And he wrote to me after about 2 months. We supposedly got together, but it became very confused. I liked him, then I was disappointed, it didn't work, I stopped liking him and it was over. Now I KNOW he wasn't right for me. That's why it happened. I guess that's the problem with you too. And I'm very capricious and that's where our problem is. : D Don't worry so much. We'll find someone soon, which we will really fall in love with! :)
Author: To number 1-I do not think that the mentioned boy is you, there is hardly a job in such sites. You are obviously in the same situation.
I'm the same. In fact, many people are like that. When we receive something, we stop wanting it. I was like that before I went with a boy. I was very busy, I couldn't complain, but I didn't like anyone as something more and I didn't give anyone a chance, so I wanted to fall in love. In the end, I liked a boy a little more, he captivated me with his character and I decided to give him a chance and at first I was a little indifferent, but gradually I fell in love with him. Time works wonders. We are still together, but the truth is that I want to be alone again, and he is so in love and my heart does not allow me to leave him. And I'm tired of it ... and I feel terrible about it. I just want something more exciting, more ardent ... I advise you when you like someone to try, but if you do not start to feel strong feelings, leave him before he falls in love a lot and hurts.