We have been together for 2 and a half years, and this problem is from the very beginning, I am not a nymphomaniac or anything like that, I want a normal sex life, still alone at 27, and he at 36, to have difficulties (domestic), but already I can't stand it, I don't want to and I don't want to cheat on him, but ... I don't know what to do, I showed him that I care about him, he says I talk to him a lot, and that was the explanation. True, but to some extent, and how to keep quiet, this costs me mentally, I became insecure and timid, at times evil, I who always managed to be over things. Now I don't know how to act, I don't want to part with him, I'm at a dead end, according to him, this only makes things worse. Give me peace, nothing is done to me
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My advice is to stop talking to him a lot and suddenly become much more indifferent. He will feel it and, hopefully, change his attitude. The other possibility, I hope not, is that he likes someone else, or that he has sex with someone else ... Yes, it sucks, but it's also possible if he doesn't want you to have sex. Restore your self-confidence, show him that you can do without him, become the same confident and smiling woman again, and I hope he realizes what he can miss. :))
Only where you did not write what the problem is :) Does he not want sex?
and I'm in the same situation in the same years, I'm 27, he's 36, I'm probably their age and I don't have anything to think about. Well, we're going to go to someone else's house
In my opinion, you should doubt him, ie whether he is cheating on you. Maybe an open conversation, of course not naive, would solve the problem. Maybe he's gay or he would.
You'll hear a lot of comments like "he's gay or lewd," but I think that connection is just over. You better talk to him and end it, unless you want to waste your time waiting for nothing. Let's not rule out the possibility that he is depressed, but hardly. Keep living your life, don't waste it on someone who doesn't love life.