Hello! For me the situation is very complicated and I have a lot of problems, it is difficult for me to cope alone, and my parents are psychopaths and disgusting people who I do not want to see, and they never really cared about me, but they play it in front of people , and my life and past are a complete nightmare and I have no friends or acquaintances. No support from anywhere. I know you won't understand me. It's just that if I start explaining to you, it will take a very long time. Everything is very complicated and difficult. I am not a teenager, I am 22 years old, and our years have been mentally harassing me because they know that I have no one. My father has not had a conversation with me for years, apart from the attempts I made to talk and the absurd insults I listened to, my mother is such a manipulator that I cannot describe what it is about. They keep me with them because of people's opinion, they hold only on him and their false image, and I am stopped by the fear in which they keep me and the guilt that is always instilled in me, of course, with their money. I can't eat normally, I lost a lot of weight and neglected my appearance. I have been isolated from the world for years. People don't know what's going on, and they both make things up just to hide. They ruined me mentally and I can't move anywhere. My little mother pretends to commit suicide when my father is gone and fills my head with nonsense. Until I scrolled completely. What's worse is that he, too, for years I lived in the delusion that she loves me, but she proved to me in all sorts of ways the exact opposite, but she doesn't stop with her lies and she will never stop. I don't see how I will ever recover. I've been thinking about suicide for years, because I see no way out. No matter how hard I fight, they always feel comfortable and look at how to take advantage of the situation. I have wanted to get rid of them for years, but I have no relatives or acquaintances, no one cares. And they won't leave me, under the pretext of worrying, I know that. I want to go to another city for accommodation, but I don't know where, and I can't share with another roommate, because I have a disability and this is the other problem because of which I closed myself, people have made fun of me and always will. they do, because of this disability I can't even have social contacts, I'm doomed to loneliness. I know it has become very tangled, I myself am confused and I cannot connect two sentences crosswise. I want to find a job, and so far I have not been hired anywhere. I want the nightmare to end once and for all, but I don't see how I will cope ... I don't know what to do and this isolation alone caused me a lot of problems. How to save myself, the fear they have imposed on me prevents me from taking many steps and the guilt imposed on me by them that I am ungrateful and since they are my parents I have to resign myself. I beg you to publish my story, I am at a dead end and I do not know what to do. This is not life, and I do not want to end it.
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You wrote very confusedly, clarified some things, so that we could try to give an opinion. As far as I understand, on the one hand you hate them and both quite frankly, on the other you claim that you have a strong sense of guilt and gratitude ... one option excludes the other. What is your disability? It's not unhealthy curiosity, but I don't think it would prevent you from sharing an apartment, in the end you will have a roommate, not a caregiver. If you are looking for a job, then you are mobile and you take care of yourself. From what I have read so far, I am left with the impression that your emotional and financial dependence prevents you from living independently. But emotional ... not in the sense you indicated. Therefore, give more information!
Keep your head up! Find a way to save money and get away with it at the first convenient way! Don't let your parents dictate your life anymore, you have been an adult for a long time and you can decide for yourself. I don't know what your disability is, but I'm sure you're not doomed to be alone forever because of him, and there are people who can still be your friends. When you have decided that you cannot have others around you, you interfere with yourself. stop thinking like that, insist positive, it may seem very difficult, but stop listening to your parents, start smiling more, go out to places where there are more young people like you and I'm sure that despite your disability, you will make friends !! Good luck and I hope I helped! :)
Look, darling, I'll tell you one thing. Whatever our parents do, they think they are doing it for our good. So forgive and move on. If they support better, if not - even more :)
You proudly raise your head and move forward, crush and gasp, don't care, this is the formula for success. Don't complain, but upgrade yourself.
Be brave, the change is not as terrible as it seems, and you will be amazed at how many amazing people there are in the world! And besides, you don't say what your disability is, but know that there are enough good people in the world to find a roommate who won't take it for granted - but you have to try. In addition, you can always stay with a landlady and not have to share the room, but it will be more expensive.
Hello Girl. I was very upset when I read your article. I don't know if you're strong enough to do this easy thing, but it works 100% for me, as it does for most people. And that's ... not paying attention to them - BUT NOTHING. I mean, don't talk to them. When they tell you to pretend that there is no one, to pass them, to hurry to your room. When they come to you to go to the other and so you will make them crazy. But ask for it yourself ... stop paying any attention to them, and stop trying to compromise between you. I guarantee you that with this method, even if things don't get better, even if things get worse for you, it will be easier for you and you won't take everything to heart. She told you you couldn't leave. Therefore, if you do not pay attention to them, they cannot threaten to expel you. Go, take your food from the fridge or the table and don't care. Whatever they do and tell you, look away and pretend they are gone. And even if they don't flinch, you don't care, because things have gotten very bad a long time ago. There is no way they can get worse. You show too much understanding and have imagined that you will be their obedient child, BUT IT WILL NOT BE! I have nothing to comment on the money. If you don't have friends, acquaintances or some relatives ... and if you are in such a situation with your parents, you don't care that they will stop them. You have much more important problems to fix. Money is not your criteria for anything at the moment :). Good luck and say how your relationship went :). And even if they don't flinch, you don't care, because things have gotten very bad a long time ago. There is no way they can get worse. You show too much understanding and they imagined that you would be their obedient child, BUT IT WILL NOT BE! I have nothing to comment on the money. If you don't have friends, acquaintances or some relatives ... and if you are in such a situation with your parents, you don't care that they will stop them. You have much more important problems to fix. Money is not your criteria for anything at the moment :). Good luck and say how your relationship went :). And even if they don't flinch, you don't care, because things have gotten very bad a long time ago. There is no way they can get worse. You show too much understanding and have imagined that you will be their obedient child, BUT IT WILL NOT BE! I have nothing to comment on the money. If you don't have friends, acquaintances or some relatives ... and if you are in such a situation with your parents, you don't care that they will stop them. You have much more important problems to fix. Money is not your criteria for anything at the moment :). Good luck and say how your relationship went :). and if you are in such a situation with your parents, you don't care that they will stop them. You have much more important problems to fix. Money is not your criteria for anything at the moment :). Good luck and say how your relationship went :). and if you are in such a situation with your parents, you don't care that they will stop them. You have much more important problems to fix. Money is not your criteria for anything at the moment :). Good luck and say how your relationship went :).
For the job I will recommend you to start learning some language and do translations :). There are people and companies that pay very good money for this thing. I tell you because he said you have a disability and they don't take you. Do not worry. Everything will be fine. I know it sounds cliché, but there is a lot of work you can do from home :). There is nothing to comment on the suicide - don't even think about such a thing !!!
Number 8, how easily do you give this advice with translations, so if it happened ... It takes years of learning and experience, can you be so naive?