People, you may have read a million such stories here, but ... I'm 30 and I'm not doing well with women ... I've had long relationships, two almost 4 years, one 2 years, others short, etc ... but also a lot of frustration. I'm not saying that I would like to go with everyone, but I'm tired of hearing only "Well, I'd better be friends, I don't feel like my man, I have no feelings for you, etc." I often think that I will just be left alone, and I can't accept that, because love is important to me! I prefer not to be in this world, not to be alive ... the world will not end with me anyway, but I think more and more that except for my parents, no one needs me ... I'm tired of any relationship failure ... friends, classmates, colleagues got married, they already have children, and I have nothing ... I stand and think and that's it ... I don't even want to go out with a woman anymore,
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I'll just tell you that my story is exactly the same, that even for years I can't find a way out. Calm down and the old bachelors are people :)
I will follow this topic, I am in the same situation, only where they swore in my eyes every time that they loved me, and in the end they got pregnant by someone else, irony, right? I'm about to be extremely disappointed in women and love and just fuck them only while I can. I long for a family and a person next to me, but obviously this happiness will never shine on me.
It's hard for me to give you advice. I will only tell you that if you are good, accurate and careful, these things will not help you. Everyone is looking for such a person, but in the end they are bored. You don't have the thrill of cheating on your best friend or slapping them two or three times. It's bad, I know, we live in such a world.
And what about people who find their halves at a later age than you? Tighten it up! Being alone is a clear sign that there is more to learn about yourself, to accept and love. You can't expect someone else to love you if you don't do it yourself. You still have time, don't despair! Everything will be fine. Darcy
And I will follow the topic, this year I will be 30 years old. I think that people with morals and value system at that time are not cut. And I want to meet a person with whom to start a family, etc., for me the family is the most important thing, but when I look at most of the women around me what they are and I get angry ... I only think about money, for work, how to rise higher, where are those girls who want to create a healthy and close-knit family. We have to go somewhere in the countryside to look for them, the bigger cities, just careerists. If she does not give birth by the age of 38. he can make an in vitro, he will take an artificial member and why is this man ...
To number 5, I think you're judging too harshly. Most women who have not started a family under 30 have a reason similar to mine. I am 29 and I still do not have a family because I have not come across a responsible enough partner all my life. The investigation always has a reason. The desire of women to have a stable career and to think about money is because they take on a typically masculine task from the past, when the woman had the peace to look after and raise children, took care of family comfort, and the man thought about the means. Unfortunately, this order does not exist nowadays. There is no order and no one to lean on and there is no expectation that someone will offer him a shoulder. Don't be so strict, just be kind and kind to a woman and let her know that she can count on you. That's the key, I think. Darcy