Hi, I'm a 13 year old boy and I feel like I'm not doing well. I play the piano, I also have a hobby of collecting old school things and slides, and I study relatively. But, one of my best friends, a boy, is developing much more than me and is one year younger. And it's not just him. When I start comparing myself to him, I feel like I'm some kind of drummer. He has a thousand times better body than me, he does not train but has muscles, he is up to date, listens to modern music, and develops much more than me. The girls like him a lot, and he said his father said that 8th grade already had sex. However, when he thinks about me, he cries. I'm starting 8th grade and I'm short, I'm not developing and I'm very crazy ... I'm ugly and no girl likes me, I even like TWO, not one gay ... I don't know what's happening to me? !! ? My acquaintances and other boys and girls sometimes insult me, there was a company of a good friend of mine who used to go around abandoned places, and they called me mekitsa because I was like mekitsa ... Well, my friend in question / not the front one / I had shared that I like one of the girls. He said she wasn't bad, and that he didn't like her, and she cut me off and rejected me. And a month later they told me that they had left, I'm still dumb ... I would be flooded with hydrochloric acid ... I have the feeling that I will be left alone, so short and crazy ... Share your opinion on my story. .. He said she wasn't bad, and that he didn't like her, and she cut me off and rejected me. And a month later they told me that they were gone, I'm still dumb ... I would be flooded with hydrochloric acid ... I have the feeling that I will be left alone, so short and crazy ... Share your opinion on my story. .. He said she wasn't bad, and that he didn't like her, and she cut me off and rejected me. And a month later they told me that they had left, I'm still dumb ... I would be flooded with hydrochloric acid ... I have the feeling that I will be left alone, so short and crazy ... Share your opinion on my story. ..
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People are evolving at different speeds. Just because you're short and skinny at 13 doesn't mean you won't look perfect at 23. Only at the beginning of puberty do you have enough time to grow up. In addition, you can sign up to train something and this will have an additional good effect on your body. However, do not be fooled! There was a girl in my class, she was super tall at 12, but it was as if at 13-14 she stopped growing and remained almost the same height, and at the same time we had a girl who was very short, but then pulled. and now both are almost the same height. That's why it doesn't make sense to compare yourself with anyone, just try not to gain weight and become fat and relaxed, and for the height - as much as you are set - you will grow.
Oh, God ... Yes, you know times are hard. You, the children, are developing faster physically now ... I want you to stand up for your own understandings, or at least as much as you can! The values people in this life often do not feel in place, everything in life is a test for a person that he must try to take successfully. It really hurts me how children talk about sex, gays, and it's almost something normal, and it's not. To like a girl at this age means to hold hands, to play together ... and after 5 years to kiss a girl for the first time is not too late, it is not even too late. There will be time for the rest, when you turn 17 it is normal, whatever your peers say and do. And at the age of 20 it is good to have sex for the first time. I did it for the first time at the age of 17. But I was thinking about other things then, I was playing sports .. And life is in front of you, what hydrochloric acids .. Take care of your hobbies and pray to God to send you a pleasant environment of friends. From a very beautiful chick, but born in the 90's;).