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I Do Not Like Me-monika___

By monika___ August 28, 2020 8 answers Last updated August 28, 2020

I don't like myself at all. I know looks aren't everything, but I'm disgusted! My hair - what can I do to let it run longer, but I can't. Also, my oil is getting oily * as well as my skin *. I have small scars (moles and freckles too) on my body. My eyes - well, I'm short-sighted. I am 1. 69 * I am 15 years old * .. I wish I was short! Also, my nose has a small bump. My body is awful - I weigh 51 kg. and I'm a little bony. We always find flaws. I can go on ... my teeth are a little crooked and my hair is a problem too. It's awful. I want to look in the mirror and like myself! Tips please! :(

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kmichellemusic answered · August 28, 2020

   Go to a hairdresser and ask him what care is best for your hair, go to a dermatologist, the eye problem can be corrected with glasses or lenses. In time you will see that it is not bad to be tall (I am 14 and I am 1. 75) :) Look in the mirror and see that maybe without the hump of your nose you would look worse: ) and 51 kg - this is the dream weight of thousands of girls, you can start going to the gym to shape your body. The problem with the teeth can also be corrected with braces or braces, and hair is a problem for all girls and women: D

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zoomtv answered · August 28, 2020

   Dear girl, I am 16 and shorter than you. I want to tell you that if you don't like yourself first, there is no way others can like you. Being tall 169 doesn't make you tall at all. She is over 175. You are short. I'm 164 and I want to be at least 169, I like tall women and even 5 centimeters more would be perfect for me. And my hair gets oily quickly, I bathe every other day, my skin too, don't think you're the only one. Bathe regularly, and for your skin there are cleansing gels and sprays, they helped me a lot, consult a dermatologist. You need to be 59 pounds tall, so 51 is fine. Everything in your appearance can change. For the hump after a while do surgery if it is so unpleasant. For hair just shave at every bath, I do so, at first it's annoying, but then you get used to it. My advice is to change your hairstyle, it may not be long, but shape it on floors, put on a new color or ombre, buy new clothes in which you feel comfortable, put on eyeliner, a little powder, there are so many beauty tips in Internet. Be thankful that you are not sick, that you do not have cancer or any other disease, that you do not have a third hand like some people, and that you have something to eat and not die. Everything changes, as long as you make an effort :)

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freckledapril answered · August 28, 2020

   I think you're the only one who pays so much attention to these things. But let's see ... I'm 17 and I'm about 1. 65 and for those 4 centimes I would give anything. Tall girls are sexy. If you're so skinny, it's easy to fix - just eat more. I'm also short-sighted, but what of that, he wears lenses or some cool hipster glasses and you're a bomb, and this "hump" of yours will overlap. Regarding hair, you can depilate or lighten thinner hairs with a little oxygenated water. Remember that no girl is beautiful, and this is how it is perceived. Proper care that we take daily for ourselves makes us attractive and desirable (I'm talking about women in general). How many times I wanted to be a boy with them is much easier - You get dressed and go out. It is important to have more self-confidence.

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philanthropygal answered · August 28, 2020

   After so much pessimistic history, I want to write something to encourage you, but I'm just shocked by your negativity and I can't gather my thoughts. You may need to understand that, contrary to your teenage logic, how a person looks and radiates depends on how he or she perceives himself or herself. If you do not like yourself, it will be difficult for others to like you. I don't believe that you look so bad, and even if you look, that's not the most important thing. Try to play sports or do hobbies to become more positive and with a little more self-confidence, you will see how people's attitude towards you will change.

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tvsenado answered · August 28, 2020

   Wow ... the truth is that you look very good ... I look like you to some extent except for some things .... you are very good, I can't figure out where the problem is ??? .. I think you just have to start liking yourself, not fixing your "flaws" ... MJ

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joe117 answered · August 28, 2020

   Why do you want to be short? I am 17 years old. 160 cm and not nice at all. Not to mention that everyone thinks I'm 14 because of that. -_-

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hiheyhowryou answered · August 29, 2020

   Hello. In my opinion, everyone should accept their shortcomings and like themselves as they are. If you really want to change something in yourself, ask a friend for advice or best talk to your mother. Do not worry. Think about the good qualities you possess. We all have pros and cons! :)

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daisynickole answered · August 29, 2020

   Well, there is a way to like having sex, the problem is that after you feel wanted or when you break up with the boy who wanted you, the emotions will remain, you will love each other. But your problem in this case is the complete opposite, you want to look like a specific boy - I'm absolutely sure you're surrounded by guys who want you but you don't want to pay attention to them - you lose. Anyway, my advice is as you want it - judging by the fact that when you get depressed you want to compete with him - so just jump on him - appearance if you are not fat is irrelevant and no matter how ugly a person is when he puts on foundation - according to social norms it is perceived - the shape of the face and body is of absolutely no importance to women. So I am absolute for you to take it because it is yours and you deserve it and we give it to you.