I was married and lived with my husband for 13 years. Things weren't going well from the beginning, but we already had a child and it seemed to me that it wouldn't be right to separate. And so time passed, the years went by and we became more and more alienated from each other. When our daughter turned 5, he asked me to have another child, so things could go well, and I agreed. Another beautiful girl was born to us, but the relationship between us remained the same, even worse. We didn't talk, there was nothing to talk about, he just asked me what to eat and lay down in front of the TV. This tormented me and I decided to share my sorrows on the net and so I found the love of my life. A person who loves me and supports me in every way. I mustered up the courage to tell my husband everything and put an end to my suffering, before the beginning of my new life. Now I am happy, my children are happy, and we are even happier, we are expecting a baby that makes us much, much happier. I don't know if this is infidelity for you, but I don't understand it that way because I interrupted everything before I started all over again.
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You did well. I couldn't bring myself to tell my friend that I loved someone else, I just waited until he caught me. Infidelity was only spiritual, even worse than physical. I feel sorry for him, he loved me very much, we lived together. But I love the other and I will be with him, I hope my soul calms down, because I have never been as good and calm as with him. We were before boyfriends before I lived with this one and I dumped him. And I put up with my husband for 15 years, after the second child it got worse. He dumped me in the end, I am a weak person, very weak.
And I think you did well, I don't think it's infidelity. You're done. Everyone has the right to seek their happiness even after so many years of marriage. Success!
Congratulations on your courage.