There will probably be people who will reproach me for what is written, but despite everything, I want to tell you that I love my mother! I love her, even though she doesn't deserve it! It ruined my whole life. My parents are separated, my mother left my father when I was one year old and we have been living with my grandparents ever since. Even when I was 6, she dumped me. He left for France and did not return for 6 years. And for all 6 years she hasn't sent me a penny, she hasn't cared how her child is. She only called once a week ... she left me just when I needed her the most. Grandma and Grandpa raised me well, Dad helped me as much as he could (financially) and took me on vacation. If it weren't for them, I probably would be in an orphanage today. It was as if the pain of not having a family was so severe until my grandfather died. The man who felt more like a father than my biological one left me ... since then my world has stopped being the same. Our financial problems started, I started to feel the lack of a father ... a mother ..., but no one could understand it. Nobody knew I wasn't happy. And so, a few years later, my mother returned - without a penny lying on the back of my old grandmother, who had to support both her and me.
Then, for the first time, I seemed to feel like I had a mother by my side until he started beating me. She knocked me to the ground and kicked me, hit me with all sorts of objects, scratched my face ... but that can't be compared to the pain I felt in my heart... And today this one of mine " wonderful "MOTHER expects me to take care of her... Even my grandmother changed, she started asking only for money from me - they know nothing but money ... I often go to my father, he has not deprived me of anything, he gives me everything I need, but when I come back here I am attacked from the door for money ... I have been driven from home since I was 15 because I do not import enough ... I'm 18 now, I'm graduating in a few months. I have been an excellent student at school all year, and my friends know me as a strong and "happy" person. Nobody guesses what I've been through and what I've been subjected to ...
I'm obviously a pretty good actress. I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much! After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions! which I need, but when I come back here they attack me from the door for money ... I've been chased away from home since I was 15, because I don't pay enough ... Now I'm 18, I'm finishing in a few months. I have been an excellent student at school all year, and my friends know me as a strong and "happy" person. Nobody guesses what I've been through and what I've been subjected to ... I'm obviously a pretty good actress. I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much! After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions! which I need, but when I come back here they attack me from the door for money ... I've been chased away from home since I was 15 because I don't pay enough ... Now I'm 18, I'm finishing in a few months. I have been an excellent student at school all year, and my friends know me as a strong and "happy" person. Nobody guesses what I've been through and what I've been subjected to ...
I'm obviously a pretty good actress. I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much! After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions! I'm 18 now, graduating in a few months. I have been an excellent student at school all year, and my friends know me as a strong and "happy" person. Nobody guesses what I've been through and what I've been subjected to ... I'm obviously a pretty good actress. I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much! After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions!
I'm 18 now, graduating in a few months. I have been an excellent student at school all year, and my friends know me as a strong and "happy" person. Nobody guesses what I've been through and what I've been subjected to ... I'm obviously a pretty good actress. I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much! After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions! I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much!
After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions! I can't wait to finish and get out of here ... to hide somewhere from everything and everyone ... And my mother - I just wish she wasn't there. Sometimes I just wish she was dead - it wouldn't hurt so much! After all, children suffer because of their parents' actions!
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Well, really get away when you graduate, you obviously work now, if they want money, it will be difficult for you, but you will get away from the hell you live in! If you can't afford it now, work for a few months and move out then! Not that it will be easier for you, but at least you will build your life on your own! I don't want to comment on your mother, I don't think you owe her anything, and not because she dumped you as a child, everyone makes mistakes, but because after she came back she treats you like a rag. And for your grandmother, I don't know, maybe when you get on your feet, you can help her according to your abilities, she raised you after all! Don't feel sorry for anything, it's hard for you, I haven't experienced it, but I'm trying to understand you and to some extent I can, because my best friend has been living with her mother for years, who didn't work and waited for my friend to support her, it only harassed her and almost brought her to a nervous breakdown. A year ago, my girlfriend just got angry and went abroad, sending some money to her mother, but only when she had it. I tell you this to protect you from her mistake - your mother will probably not change, and when you graduate it will get worse because they will want more and more from you, just get out of there and even better don't tell them where you went, where you work, because if your mother is really as you describe her, she will pursue you everywhere for money! Good luck and write how things have turned out for you, I hope everything is fine! because they will want more from you, just get out of there and you better not even tell them where you went, where you work, because if your mother really is as you describe her, she will chase you for money everywhere! Good luck and write how things have turned out for you, I hope everything is fine! because they will want more from you, just get out of there and you better not even tell them where you went, where you work, because if your mother really is as you describe her, she will chase you for money everywhere! Good luck and write how things have turned out for you, I hope everything is fine!
Can't you go to your father? Otherwise, I'm sorry for your pain. Do not give up.
You don't say why you continue to live with them / your mother and grandmother /, when your father lives separately and wants to take care of you and help you? But you made the right decision, you don't have to go out to anyone as soon as possible, working for yourself, since there is no one to think about you, think for yourself. And don't let the past drag your future. I mean, don't get angry, don't think about the past, think only about yourself, about your future.
I understand your pain. When I turned 16, I left us, although I was 3 years old then, until I graduated, I am now almost 20, but besides, I temporarily come to the "Boring Home" to leave them some money, and my sister did not allow me to chased, but unfortunately she was kicked out, now she is next to me in the new home where we are now.
Here the latter is true. Children suffer from the mistakes of their parents.
I am 16 years old and my mother still beats me. She keeps telling me that I'm not good for anything, she dropped out and said I was wrong, she mentioned several times that I was ugly. In front of friends she behaves like a perfect mother - she makes jokes, gives advice, etc. I am looking forward to leaving, but will it be better or will it get worse? !!
And mine so. :( Does yours have a problem with alcohol like mine? Today I got up and went down to the basement to turn on the heating then made fried slices. She got up at 12 and asked me what I was cooking. Hit me on the back. Even if you're ugly you shouldn't he says it. I'm beautiful and mine tells me I'm ugly. My father died. Why don't you go to yours? Better to your father than to a mother like yours. I'm 14 and I have nowhere to go. who ran away from home got worse.
Are you looking for advice or complaining? Everyone "carries the cross" in this life and everyone suffers in their own way. If you want to help your mother (because you love her), say that Christ teaches us people to love and help each other, not to use violence against themselves. Ask her why she does it, what the motive is. Ask for change for the better. If he repents and stops doing this, forgive and continue to live together in the name of Christ. If she does not repent and continue in the old way, just get away, but do not sin by doing the same as her - to hate. This is a sin. If you truly love someone, you can't hate - even your worst enemy. Just get out of there, don't pretend to be a hero in your own eyes by being patient and complaining to other people. If you want to be a hero, be patient and silent, and pray in faith - God sees and will reward you when the time comes. If she does not respect Christ, get out of this environment. Find people you will really be useful to and who need someone to love them. There are abandoned adults or children or sick people who will be grateful for every little gesture you make for them. If you do, don't do it out of gratitude, but because Christ wants us to do so. The answer to every challenge and trial in life is Christ. Learn from him, do as he did. If your parents accept it too, you will regain your family, if their own pride prevails, leave them again in the name of Christ. Know that our every action has redemption and punishment in the future - sooner or later. Misfortunes come one after another because of people's sins and because they do not repent of them (they do not stop committing sins). But if any of those who have harassed you ever ask for any help, do not turn away your face, because that is where wisdom is, to help a person when he is in need, and for him to understand what he has done before and to repent. - to ask for forgiveness. There is nothing better than that. Man to turn from his bad path and find Christ - the Way, the Truth and the Life. Try to change your value system, as well as your home ones - with you, money is obviously a source of misunderstandings and quarrels. When they ask you for money, give it to them according to your abilities, because God gives it to us as well. We are all guests on this earth, which belongs to God, and we do not bring anything to the grave. Everything material remains on earth again until the day of God's wrath, when it will be destroyed anyway. When people forgot the living God and made money and pleasures their god, There are situations like in your family in which you turn around like in a vicious circle and wonder how to get out. There were times when people were happier but lived in fear of God and obeyed God's laws. This is not the case now, but this time will come again, because the time of wickedness and sin is coming to an end. The kingdom of God will come to power - the kingdom of peace, love and joy. This kingdom comes first in people's hearts, but not everyone accepts it, ie they do not allow God to live in them and teach them. But whoever accepts it will live in prosperity and happiness forever with God himself = love. That is why our struggle should not be against "flesh and blood", that is, people, but against the evil and sinful deeds that people do by allowing evil spirits to conquer them. The heart is where the spirits hide - the good or the evil that man himself allows to possess. By setting an example with your behavior, you can entice other people to turn away from the sinful life and live in the name of Christ. The reward for such is even greater (not a material reward), but eternal life in God's paradise. Read the Bible, enlighten yourself, this may be the key to solving your problems. I am thankful to God for everything He has done for me and my loved ones after fervent prayers, and indeed God hears and helps ... those who seek Him. enlighten yourself, this may be the key to solving your problems. I am thankful to God for everything He has done for me and my loved ones after fervent prayers, and indeed God hears and helps ... those who seek Him. enlighten yourself, this may be the key to solving your problems. I am thankful to God for everything He has done for me and my loved ones after fervent prayers, and indeed God hears and helps ... those who seek Him.
To number 8: WHAT NONSENSE?
And I am of the opinion of intentionally 9. Sektaaaa
In a true family of Christ you will find mercy, you will find understanding and love, you will find Christ, even in imperfect people, because there are no perfect people, but at least you will not be killed. Be careful. The law of freedom. 13 verses. God explains. God's judgment will be merciless to the one who was not merciful. But the one who showed mercy can stand before the judge without fear. This is the law of freedom to give forgiveness and mercy to one's neighbor. This is freedom. To release a binding - not to tie it. He has sinned against you a lot - set him free, give him mercy. If we do not know this, we have known nothing and we cannot claim to be children of God. This is a key verse. If you do not know the law of freedom, ie the heart of Christ. You can't release the oppressed - you can't. You are not able to give them mercy and love. This is to love your neighbor. Everything else is a consequence. It starts from the beginning, not from the consequences. Mat. 5: 7 “Blessed are the merciful, for God will have mercy on them. "God will have mercy on him who has given mercy. Whoever is forgiven will be forgiven, ie will be untied, and whoever you hold will remain bound. We are not gods, of course. Mercy unties the circumstances of your life. This closes the door on the devil. If there are many curses in your life - this word is for you. Love your neighbor as yourself, show mercy, and God will save you. If we do the opposite, God will be our adversary. We cannot fight Him. Whoever is forgiven will be forgiven, ie will be untied, and whoever you hold will remain bound. We are not gods, of course. Mercy unties the circumstances of your life. This closes the door on the devil. If there are many curses in your life - this word is for you. Love your neighbor as yourself, show mercy, and God will save you. If we do the opposite, God will be our adversary. We cannot fight Him. Whoever is forgiven will be forgiven, ie will be untied, and whoever you hold will remain bound. We are not gods, of course. Mercy unties the circumstances of your life. This closes the door on the devil. If there are many curses in your life - this word is for you. Love your neighbor as yourself, show mercy, and God will save you. If we do the opposite, God will be our adversary. We cannot fight Him.
Often the people with the widest smiles are the ones who have suffered the most! Why is that? Who knows, maybe, people who have experienced a lot have learned how to enjoy the little things ... Good luck in life, darling!
Number 8 and 11 - abe boil it back in the sect from which you crawled!
At №13 abe don't let her know much. I will tell you that a sect is not America, what sects are chasing you 9, 10. Do you even know what a sect is? Don't say that you are making me nervous with your nonsense. When you don't believe so much, go somewhere and stop annoying me, eh, there are idiots in this world. He's right 11 calm down after a while it won't be like that. You don't owe anything to your mother if she treats you like that.