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I Don't Believe In "destinies", But Apparently She Is Against Me

By skimaskstella August 04, 2020 3 answers Last updated August 04, 2020

Hello! I never believed that fate gave you signs and that if something didn't have to happen, it wouldn't happen. I've been drowning in a boy for about a year. We know each other vaguely and our companies do not have much in common. We only have social networks, but nothing more. We are from the same city, but we are both students in Sofia. I noticed the following trend. When I return to my city, he stays in Sofia and back. When I decided to miss one of my homecoming, he came home just then. I spent almost the whole summer in my city, I went somewhere else for 2 days and it turned out that he had just returned home. When, by some great miracle, we are in our city at the same time, he uploads a story on Instagram that he is in a certain place, half an hour after I was there. And I can't detect it at all. Only once did it turn out that we were in the same restaurant, and I had my back to the other end of the room. Please tell me what you think, is it just in my head, but I'm already starting to get angry and I can't prevent it

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redandpurple_ answered · August 04, 2020

   If you just wait for something to happen without trying to cause it to happen, there is a long wait. I know it's taboo for most women to take the first step, but in this situation, what else do you hope for? Fate has nothing to do with the fact that you live passively in the world of fantasies and wait for something to come to you. Fate must rule 7 billion human beings simultaneously, and each of them wants something different. There is no solution that satisfies everyone at the same time. So one has to endure disappointment in order for another to achieve his own. If fate can help someone, it will be the one who is actively looking for and trying to change something.

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felin00 answered · August 04, 2020

   Why don't you write to him on Facebook? If you wait for fate to decide your life, you will find yourself homeless under some bridge. One has to fight to achieve one's goals, not to stand passively and wait for things to go wrong on their own. When you are hungry, do you open your mouth and wait for fate to fall into it? No. You go to the store and buy food. So it is with everything else in life.

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diversex1x answered · August 04, 2020

   If you have an Instagram, write to the person ... It's been a year, dear, make sure it's in a cafe ... tighten up. Write to him, start a conversation and then he will either want to see you or not. Brother.