Hi, my name is Didi and I have a problem with inclusion. Wherever I go to work, I incur the resentment and hatred of others. You will say that I may be aggressive, but I have never been. I can't be impudent and impudent. I think I'm doing a good job and not bothering anyone, but obviously not. I don't know what's wrong with me and what's wrong with me, but obviously I have a big problem because I can't talk anymore, I can't sleep, and I don't let anyone near me. But that's not how you live. I can not any more. I just want to ...... die.
Answers 12
Come on! How can you talk like that! Life is one and you have to live it and appreciate that you are a part of it, and the fact that there are many sad moments you just have to learn to accept them! In order to deal with your problem, you must first of all believe in yourself and that others (colleagues, friends) are nothing more than you, "they also go to the toilet"! Just don't care about anyone or anything, but always boldly forward and everything will be ok! :) success
But why is this story in HEALTH?
It is clear that you are shy and have very low self-esteem. Everyone will crush you until you start to feel equal to them! Even you are much more if you ask me. So only this will help you in your relationships with men and at work! Well-being! (Not too much, of course). Success!
This is always the case with novices. Accept things as they are. I advise you to be principled, to clarify exactly what your obligations are, what tasks you are assigned and in what time frame you must complete. Don't expect friendships in the workplace. Beware of "benefactors", gossip and intrigue. After some time and showing your qualities - things will fall into place. Success!
Thank you.
Hey, Dide, just because you're not aggressive, that's why they take you for granted. Without being rude and rude, show all your colleagues that you are no less than them and do not allow them to behave rudely. Yes, the good will want to die, so that only the simpletons remain? Tighten up and show these rude people that you are not a piece! And don't forget to brag to us! Success!
I know that remarks like "upside down" won't work for you, so I'll tell you something. I have a similar moment, you don't fit into the company, somehow everything you don't care about, you're still sad, etc. Well, do you know why you're better than them, that's why they behave in this abnormal way. You just have to get a throne and everything will be ok. (This is a metaphor forging nothing). Come on, try it or let the little idiocies beat you.
Hello, grandpa. He writes you one of your namesakes with a problem similar to yours. Even as I read your letter, I wondered if I had written it in a moment of insanity. What I lack is, in my opinion, to be firm and to stand up for yourself. Unfortunately, in life, the good want to draw their knife and the bad succeed on their backs. Understand what your best qualities are and show them, there are certainly many of them and I think that in time life will just beat us. You have no choice darling you have to be strong. Think of yourself not of others!
Thank you one more time. Shortly after I left, the management of the hospital changed! I can go back now.
Never wish for your death. I'm sure you love your loved ones (who doesn't love them, but sometimes selfishness prevails) and you wouldn't want to hurt them. And such a wound is terrible, believe me, because I have experienced it. It seems to me that you lack confidence and that's where your other problems come from. If necessary, talk to a psychologist, try to change something in yourself - both externally and in self-esteem, but for the latter I think you will need the help of a professional - his gaze is a side view and will help you see your problem. Success!
How old are you?
Don't worry and it happens to me because I'm very conscientious in my work and the bosses like me, it always provokes the malice of the people I work with. I learned not to pay attention to them. Real people will understand what kind of person you are. And do you want such vicious and small people to be your friends? D.