Hello! I need advice ... three years ago I had to change schools and go to high school. I came across a class in which I could not "show" myself, ie I used to have friends with whom I could share almost everything, and in my current environment my opinion remains disregarded and my classmates are more prone to ridicule. I try to be helpful and not offend anyone, and in return I receive the daily frivolous attitude and ridicule of my classmates. When I do something, whatever it is, the mockery starts - about how I do it, how I look, how I talk, etc., which affects my self-esteem ... I look in the mirror and I say to myself: "what they don't like" and self-torture. When I get together with my old friends, it's like I'm in another world ... they laugh at my jokes, they respect me and enjoy talking to me as well as me to them. At first I told myself that I would get used to my new class, but I see that this does not work. I feel that I have no more strength for ridicule and gossip. The energy that my friends and family give me is no longer enough and I am looking for other ways out, but I can't find them. It may sound crazy, but sometimes I think about suicide because I don't find what I used to find the meaning of my life.
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I understand you very well, because I am in almost the same situation. When I'm with my people, I feel great. But it just doesn't work with classmates. In time, however, I decided not to pay attention. As a piece of advice, I could just give you not to care. You say what you want without thinking about the consequences. Sooner or later you will be accepted as one of them, but during this time you must be yourself. People feel who is pretending and shy away from this type of people. What class are you in? If you are about to apply or have already decided what you are going to study, just do it. Personally, I am in the 11th grade and I have the desire to study law after the 12th grade. I use the time when I get bored at school to study topics or other subjects. Just set a goal and you will see how nothing will matter. Focus on the lessons, and in the meantime go out with your old friends. Nobody said you had to go to school at any cost. Good luck.
That he, life, has no meaning. So - who can not find it, invent one and go ahead! :)
Don't bother! If the majority is vulgar, what do you expect? There is a type of people who enjoy their simplicity, and when someone with a different mindset appears and a person who has outgrown his age and is wise enough not to laugh at their nonsense and do their tricks, he remains misunderstood. and rejected. I think this happened to you. You don't think the reason is in you. Show them where they belong, such people do not deserve to be silent.
Do you want to kill yourself for something like that? !! You can't be serious!
I fully support comment number 2 :) Listen to your heart, bro! Live your life your way and don't care at all. They are bad, not you. ;) They are just a fucking illusion. Ignore them. Think about it, why do you want to die? Because of a group of idiots? You are master of yourself, not you above you. Don't let them shatter YOUR self-esteem.
I am in such a situation too. I don't think you need to change anything in yourself to please others. Honestly, they make fun of me too, just because I'm clumsy, shorter, with a small number of shoes .. Some make fun of me for one thing, others for another ... Think about how your loved ones will feel. if you take your life ?? You hurt them a lot if you do ... and remember that there will always be someone who envies you (because I'm sure you're doing something better than others), laughing at you and burning inside envy (and let that make you happy :)). You yourself say that when you get together with your friends from the other school you feel better ... believe me and I have fallen into your situation, my life has lost its meaning ... and I still fall ... I should not you surrender, hold on !! There are some people who understand and understand,
Unfortunately, friends do not move with you wherever you go to study, but you respect them because they are your true friends. Those who mocked and all who knew them let them get together and like themselves with those like them. Sometimes we don't like the class, other times we don't like the job, but if you could choose ....
Thank you for your understanding and attitude! You know ... I like to think about the world around me and the people in it and I came to the conclusion that people's attitude towards me (and not only towards me, because I see how stupid they talk to each other) is a result of their characters. , attitudes and thinking. I said to myself, "why should they be like that" and the answer was that the world is turning them a little less into what they are now because they have not found the understanding they were looking for. And as No. 7 said, a man deserves to live for the people he loves. One deserves to live for people like you, who are sometimes a ray of light in poverty. THANK YOU once again for your understanding and good advice! -from the author, 16 years