Hello, I am 18 years old, girl, still a student. Until almost a year ago, I had a relationship with a man 4 years older than me, who I dare call "serious". We loved each other, we spent a lot of time together, I knew his parents as well as he knew mine and, in general, complete harmony. A year ago, he decided that we would not be together again, and I accepted his decision. After two or three months he called me and we had a relationship for a while, then we broke off all contact again and so on several times. A few weeks ago, one Friday night we met at a disco after which he wrote to me and we went home together, I fell asleep still a loved one. In the morning, when I came home, and he went to work, he started posting statuses on Facebook like "Terribly in love", "Terribly happy" and I decided that they were for me, that he wants us to get together and I was in 7th heaven. Later, however, he became engaged to another girl ... All my friends are convinced that he still loves me and that he does everything for me to forget me, etc ... However, I think that night he just uses me and says goodbye to me forever to start from the beginning, but why can't I :( It hurts terribly much for a whole year the pain does not decrease: X HELP !!!!
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And for not forgetting it, how do you expect us to help you? I am also in such a situation but I know that if I did not help myself there is no one else to do it!
And I'm so the pain is unbearable I know but for me it's different I like him and I talked to him and I'm sure he doesn't like me and I can't forget him and I still love him very much I know how you feel and try not to think so much for him i know it's hard but try with me more or less it became more is below but with you you can try
I know what's wrong with you since August, I'm dating a man who is 5 years older than me ... I haven't seen each other in two months, I study in one city, he works in another ... I don't stop thinking about him, sometimes the pain is so strong that I think I will never forget it ... But in front of him I have always behaved like a naughty ... Men are so fond of subduing and hate to see someone happy (if not he is the cause of other people's happiness ) .. So women should be bitches, even if our hearts are broken ... Remember they always remember, just when you think you will be happy without him .. The world is not over he is an ass, so you be twice as big as him ...;)
It happens to everyone. Nasty but reality. I still can't forget my ex, even though we broke up by mutual consent and even though we haven't talked at all since. I think that as nasty as it sounds, in order to forget it, you have to find someone else to make you happy. Good luck!!!