Hi I'm 13 and maybe there are a lot of girls like my problem! I don't get along with my father. From the age of 1, he started picking on the smallest things with me and insulting me with a duck, a lot of bed, etc. And even when he sees that I'm right, he changes the subject so that he can come out right again. He always gets annoyed with my mess that I'm messy and starts yelling at me from the door and telling me that I don't owe anything from my room and I don't deserve it. For the past month, I've been avoiding talking to him. Even when he had a birthday 2 days ago, I didn't say a word to him. When I get home from work, I make sure I'm not there, and when I get home I just say hello and I go home and lock myself in my room. You can't talk to him. That's why I would like someone to tell me what to do !!! Thanks in advance!
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Look, he may have told you many things, but he loves you :). However, on his birthday you should have at least congratulated him. Sit down and talk, I do the same with ours and at the moment we are first friends :))). Good luck :)
Don't worry, when I was 13 I had the same problem with us, it was even worse, he chased me away from home, he always compared me to others my age ... I can't explain it because I won't have 2 hours! So it can always be worse. For some things you are definitely right and worried about you, no matter how annoying and annoying it may seem to you, do not take things so inward and this period will pass! Rejoice that you are scolded because you would feel much worse if he didn't pay attention to you and let you do everything ... because in time you would feel as if he didn't care about you! SUCCESS!
Don't work hard. Do not respond to aggression with aggression so as not to provoke it, and when something like this happens, act as if nothing is happening. don't challenge him again, let him talk alone, don't pay attention and you will see that after a while he will stop. If you succumb to his challenges, he perceives it, probably subconsciously, as a "victory" and this will stimulate him to continue. And if you don't pay attention, he will feel "that he has lost the battle", and again subconsciously he will gradually stop.
I'm 12 and I sometimes have the same problem, but thankfully it's from time to time. Yes it really sucks.
I'm also 13 and I have the same problem, I'm tired, he doesn't see what I've done, he sees what I'm not! He very rarely praised me, I got tired of calling me about everything, and when I answered him, it became a kind of hell! That's why I keep quiet and hardly talk to him. And when he shouts, I just listen to him and don't say anything, if I say something, he shouts even more! I just stopped caring and I believe that in time everything will pass.
I'm 17 what can I tell you. For my father, I am 10 years old and I only become a sweeper.
And for me, I study, I get high grades, I help by watching my sister, I don't smoke or drink, nor have teachers called him to argue with him or anything, and he still gets annoyed. I have nothing to think about and he says that I went out a lot and I had a lot of fun, and I go out once a week and break away from studying !!!