Hello. As you can see from the title, I don't get along with my mother and I never got along. I get along much better with my father. Our relationship with him is great, he accepts me as a great person, we agree, but things are not going well with my mother. I do not know why. I'm a 15-year-old girl and I'm in puberty, maybe that's why my mother can't get into my situation. But she didn't even try. She never came to talk to me just like that. He doesn't care about me. When she asks me how I am, how the school is going, if there are any things I want to tell her, she doesn't tell me about herself. It sounds weird, I know, but she's unknown to me, it's a mystery. Not only do I not know her well, but I feel intrusive. Whenever I say something, it's the other way around, it's not right, I don't have to say my opinion, it starts shouting, get nervous and I leave the room quickly because I don't hear the same things. She blames me, she doesn't listen to me, she shouts at me, she doesn't accept me as a great person, I try to understand her, to talk and to behave normally with her, but it doesn't work. He always finds something to shout about and is like a time bomb. Am I annoying her? Doesn't he want me? Does he hate me I'm her only child after all, she can't help but love me ...
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It was as if I had read my story. I think it's best to talk to the three of you (you, your mother and your father) and clarify your problems, at least we did.
If she doesn't sit down to talk to you, you do it. Tell her .. :) And she may just be afraid that you will grow up! And that's why she's so nervous ... and she can't accept how things are ... if she has to talk to her father as soon as you understand each other and take some action. Good luck darling! ; *** ~ Кати ~
If that calms you down, I don't get along with mine. I'm already 32 and whoever left will leave. And I am an only child. At 18 I went to study and then did not return home. And I still can't understand her. It's as if we are from different worlds. I decided it wouldn't change. And you suffer so much. In a year you will leave and other things will excite you.
From the author: Thanks for the answers. My mother is a little grumpy in general, but she just doesn't try to understand me. I know I'm not the center of the world, that I may have problems, but I feel a little neglected and hurt when it erupts and yells at me for no reason. I want to be accepted as great. To trust me, to share with me, to tell me, to talk to me a little more and without nerves ...