I'm 20 years old, boy. I have been studying in a western country for a year and a half, but during that time I have never had a girlfriend and this is starting to weigh on me. I am not the most social person, although there has been a slight improvement lately, but there is still much to be desired. My appearance in the fall was quite neglected, but I changed a few weeks ago, I even started going to the gym regularly and there are already results, but the problem is that this will not be enough for me. One of my main problems is lack of self-confidence due to various reasons. One of them is that I have the attitude that foreigners look down on Bulgarian boys. I would like to get advice from people who have been in my situation and have found a solution to the problem and have found a girlfriend abroad or in Bulgaria.
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So go out and find a girlfriend, what are you waiting for?
And what is a foreigner to you? 80% that more than Bulgarians abroad make connections and family with Bulgarians. Look for a nice and smart Bulgarian girl who knows best where and how we grew up, and what grass we grazed, what our problems are and how to solve them. And if you are aiming for a foreigner - first know that it will not be so easy and fast, second - just start studying the local culture, traditions and customs. See what they value and what impress the local pussies, etc. I have whatever you do, 5-10 years of purposeful efforts do not move you ... You have a better chance even if you are a Chinese or a Ukrainian - the same like you coming to an unharvested vineyard ...
Number 2 where can I find this Bulgarian woman? Where I am, there is not much, and I am not enslaved to clichés like ours
Forget about a foreigner (westerner), she won't tie you up. Aren't there any Bulgarian women there?
Rather, it depends on whether you come across racists and those with stereotypes if it is a partner. I also studied abroad, and I was lonely too, but that didn't stop me. In fact, I slept with many men, getting to know myself and accepting the opposite.
Get a Bulgarian woman to fight constantly because you have no money.
You sound like a person with low self-esteem. For example, can't the fat, the ugly or the pimple find a mate? You need to be more confident and you will find a girl. All you lack is courage. And one more thing - do not limit yourself to the circle in which you live - colleagues, roommates and people who are in your daily life. If you see a beautiful girl on the street, stop her and talk to her. Come on, be bolder and if there is any result, write again.
Are you a young man, why do you think so closed. It is full of all sorts of connections, only you and the mass of Bulgarians watch from space. Unlike Bulgarians, normal young people are much more open and do not care where you are from. And I'm abroad, mass relationships, marriages are mixed. Are the refugees more than you and have they settled with women and children and women are running after them. It's a fact, think about it. Think about what you can attend, such as sports, events where you can find your soul mate.
Try to communicate more, there is no other way. Enroll in a course on something - language, hobbies, mountaineering, whatever you enjoy or go to dance lessons, just find a way to meet more people. Otherwise, if you stay at home, the super cute will ring the doorbell and say - I'm coming for you. For example, I met my wife on an Italian language course in Canada. I like the Italian language and I signed up for sports like that and I didn't even expect to find the love of my life. This is the other thing I can advise you, don't look desperate, just be active, do what you like and you will find the right girl for you. As for the commentators who only sprinkle pearls of the foreign variety, you don't need or won't tie them to others like that, safe from stereotypes and prejudices! Aren't you tired of spinning the same clichés? If someone behaves like a complete salesman and Bai Ganyo, talks to the ma girls and wants to be served brandy and salad on a schedule, there is no way a Western European or North American can like him, but if you are cultured, educated and polite, why not do you even find a foreigner to marry her? !! I am not the only one in this situation. There are thousands of Bulgarians married to foreigners and even more Bulgarian women married to foreigners. Well, there are also cultured and educated Bulgarians who, however, move only between Bulgarians abroad and watch only Bulgarian television, go to Bulgarian restaurants and grocery stores and quite naturally marry Bulgarian women, but let's not be such horses with caps. Just imagine there are people who do not want to eat pies and kebabs and drink brandy with Shopska salad from morning to night, nor do they want to have a satellite dish with Bulgarian television and speak only and only thousands of kilometers from Bulgaria. This does not mean that they hate Bulgaria or that they do not visit their relatives and friends there, but it simply means that they want to integrate better, they like life in the new country, they want to improve their other language and even though they love their native language. place do not necessarily hold to be permanently among Bulgarians and do not wear T-shirts Bulgaria on three seas.