I am 25 years old, relatively thin and tall, but I have absolutely no bust. I tried to gain weight, but my chest still did not move. Everything turned into a fat belly, so I had to take it off later. I gave up these attempts, gaining weight obviously will not work for me. It weighs a lot on me that I have absolutely no bust, I constantly look at girls who are even much thinner than me and are size C and I do not have A. I have a boyfriend, he claims that the size did not matter, but again he only watches and his computer is flooded with them. I don't feel like sex anymore, I feel so unfeminine and unattractive. I know surgery is not a solution, and the boyfriend is against it, but I feel terrible. I just wish I had something if I didn't want to feel so ashamed that I'm not a woman. I know I have to solve this problem so that it doesn't cause me problems with the relationship,
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M29. I really like girls with small breasts, and almost no breasts are jewelry. I don't know what to tell you, except for one worn-out phrase, which, however, is absolutely true - there are no perfect people. For starters, stop thinking about them all the time, don't look at others and don't compare yourself to them.
Oh no! How can you want big breasts? !! I'm smaller than you, I don't have breasts either ... I'm flat and what? They also tried to make fun of me for it, but I didn't pay attention to them at all! Like yourself! What are they bigger for? They all have the same function - they feed babies! Haven't you thought that women with big breasts hurt and cross and what not? It still weighs. Not to mention that they hang so high. I had a classmate with a medium bust, she hung so much and it was so ugly that no one liked it, not even the boys. Most people like little tits, but that's the last thing you watch. Rejoice, your bust and after births, diets ... will still be nice and tight. I don't know what else to write to you to realize that small breasts are great. And there are many such "topics", you can just search.
What do you care girl? Most girls do not have breasts, it is rare to find naturally large-breasted ladies. Nowadays, everything is silicone, and I think she is no more attractive woman with a pair of operated tits ... as ugly as it sounds. Fill the eye a big cleavage, but only this .. when he lies down with you at least will look at the size of your breasts :).
Don't care at all. It is absurd to worry about that. I am a man and I also like women with small breasts. Many of my friends also prefer these. And some of my other friends are so fed up with Silicon Valley that they now also prefer small and natural breasts. Large breasts, accompanied by appropriate adjustments, silicones, etc. in practice disgust, yes - disgust a very large part of men. I would recommend you to read about the problems of boys with their size, there are enough such stories here - I think you will immediately see the analogy.
They won't grow you, that's your gene. And for the operation I do not recommend you need money. And if you love each other, what's the problem with your bust being small? Otherwise, it's not just your boyfriend who looks at women with big breasts. Almost everyone looks somehow we men are attracted by the sight of women's breasts.
The operation is not so terrible, a week of pain, but then you ask yourself - why didn't I do it earlier? All men like breasts because it's feminine, these are the feminine forms of breasts, ass, and whoever claims the opposite is a hypocrite. How many porn movies with flat women have you seen .... Like women like big penises, and only a woman who is not she has been with such a man she will say that she doesn't like it. Yes, there are values, of course a man who loves you will love you as you are, but that doesn't mean that it won't be more exciting for him to be in more feminine forms.
How about natural, big and firm breasts, boys? (:
Of course you are normal! Just google Normal Breasts Gallery and look at the first link that appears. And calm down. Girl! You have a friend who wants you and likes you the way you are. Watching photos / porn, etc. with "tits" is super natural in my opinion, considering that this is what has become a stereotype. If femininity depended on some tits .... I just don't know :) Regards, 75A;)
from the author: I don't want big or anything like that, just a little bit for size A, to have something. Men, you say you like small breasts, so why aren't any of you watching photos and porn with women with at least a normal bust size? What's left for an absolute plane ... lies don't help me, I realize what kind of world I live in and that it's not physically attractive at all (if it was somewhere between the billions of photos and wonders on the internet at least one super-flat woman I would find - there is everything on the internet - there is porn with animals, with 90-year-old grandmothers, with cripples, with 300 kg, but not with absolutely flat women! And if there is any even minimal demand for something, then at least a few videos would be found!) I need reasonable arguments supported by realistic evidence. I want to learn to live with this, instead of doing surgery, but I need reasonable arguments. I know there are other topics, but my case is different because I REALLY have absolutely nothing. The other women are size B, C and complain, and I don't even have a size!
Honey, don't you think you're the only one? I am 18 years old, with absolutely no breasts. They are so small that I can't wear even the smallest bra size, and I'm forced to wear bustiers. This complicates me a lot and lowers my self-confidence! My mother wears size C, my grandmother also had very big breasts, and look at me! It is true that no matter what you say, most men like big breasts. I wish there were more men like №1. I myself do not want to have big ones, just to have something like you want. But, alas! I've seen porn actresses who are flat. If you want breasts, you put on silicone - I'm thinking of doing that in time so that I can at least raise my self-esteem a little!
To the author: girl, I know you can't think like a man, but look at a picture of a girl with small breasts and another of the same girl wearing silicone. Which photo will you like more? He had girlfriends alone and with big and small breasts I like the overall look of girls. I hate it when a girl wears a padded bra and thinks she can lie to me. Be who you are and don't change.
One question: do you love animals, little children? Do you like to cuddle, caress your boyfriend, kiss him without necessarily wanting sex? Do you enjoy someone and something in a similar way? When a woman loves in this platonic way and overflows with tenderness, she secretes hormones such as prolactin, oxytocin, which are the hormones of breastfeeding and are directly related to the development of the mammary gland. In addition, nutrition and drinking herbal decoctions are definitely important. But do not make it an end in itself - it is not said to have big breasts, try to reach normal - for example, after birth it always happens :) Exceeding the normal size is dangerous - a risk factor for any diseases, incl. diabetes, asthma, etc.
Don't worry! So am I. I'm 36 years old. They kept telling me, "When you give birth, your bust will stay bigger." Yes but no. I got pregnant at the age of 22, I gained 33 kg. during pregnancy and after a year of breastfeeding everything melted. I am also tall and thin. During my school years I was an active athlete. I have been playing sports again for two years now and I want to tell you that despite the lack of a bust, I look better than girls and women ten or fifteen years younger than me. The lack of a bust has not complicated me for a long time. Years ago, I was ashamed to undress in front of my husband. But after my divorce from him, other men showed me that I was complex in vain. What matters more is what you are like as a person, not what you have in your bra. As for gaining weight - yes, you could lift and accumulate fat in the chest, but it finally happens. When losing weight is the opposite: first you take it off your chest :) I know this from personal experience and from the experience of friends. I am definitely against silicone. I don't understand why you compare yourself to porn actresses. This is more than absurd. They are paid for it. Look at reality. What you could emphasize is not porn, but clothing. There are clothes that illusory fill the bust. There are clothes that are for women with large busts. And here is a very thin thread. You should not think, “I am not for such clothes.” The correct thought is, “These clothes are not for me.” Many such tricks exist. You just have to find them. And one more thing: no matter how much the weak are placed, believe me, men don't like weak women. Which man wants to sleep with a radiator? :) What did the men look at the big tits? Well, we also look at cooler artists, men from magazines, etc. But what of it? Do we choose our boyfriends and partners according to a catalog? No, right? You have other claims: to be one way or another, to respect you, to love you, etc. At least their criteria include tits, at least as far as men looking for a serious relationship with a woman. So, head up and with confidence that you are what you are! You are unique and unrepeatable. Worries will only poison your life.
There are so many brainwashed people here that it's not true. First about silicone - Recently, a lot has been written, talked about silicone and its effects, and in general, many people have falsely turned against it. You forget that silicone, like almost every other invention, is designed for the good purpose of helping women like the author. The fact that someone took it and used it for other purposes and society did not like it is completely irrelevant to the silicone itself. In my opinion, you should put on, make a breast, say a b or c cup, because emotional depression, low self-esteem and the things you miss are nothing for that money and the naughty look as you get older. As you get older, only your husband will look after you, and if he is your husband, I think he will accept it. He obviously doesn't realize what the lack of a bust does to you mentally. Then about comment number 2, it is really hypocritical to say that you are better with small tits and almost big ones were a bad thing. It's such a complex that there's nowhere to go ... Only if you know how harmful this thinking is "I'm the way I am, like me who will, I'm even better that way" ... It makes you neglect, makes you cocky without coverage, degenerates your function as women, to be gentle, beautiful, if not on the outside, then at least on the inside ... It's just sad! Author, put on your tits, improve your life. You just have to explain to your boy how important it is to you, he should understand if he is aware. USA
Just find a boy who is not a tsitsoman and you will not pay so much attention to your defect.
I understand the author very well. I'm in the same situation and I'm pretty desperate ... but I have a question about silicone. I will deviate a little from the topic for which I apologize. I want to ask women who have silicone is it true that implants need to be replaced every 10 years? I searched for information on the issue, but never found it, so I hope for an answer at least here. :)
I've heard that some birth control pills make them grow. I don't know how true it is, I don't drink it myself, but you can try it, although it is quite controversial whether they are harmful or not. :)
Try Dacolen, and I was flat, but now I'm B 75, and what of that, I liked it more with the little ones. It's a matter of taste, but as you said you are weak, and these girls with C weigh on me, B weighs on me, not to mention C.
And I like women with small breasts. The big ones ruin sex, at least that's what I think
Indeed, most people have a very wrong opinion about silicone - Massive porn movies actresses' breasts are unnatural and grotesque like balls, because they are too big with the cubes and when the woman at first has no bust and put huge breasts, of course they stand stretched and artificial. But in Bulgaria there are a lot of girls who have completely normal breasts. Including me, I increased my breasts by only one size, just as much as I need to have self-confidence and at the same time they are natural, I chose drop-shaped implants that are slightly sagging just like beautiful heavy female breasts, in the summer I bake in monokini and I also wear blouses without a bra, men look at me a lot, but no one assumed they were made. Today's implants are the latest generation and do not change every 10 years, but are for life, I'm talking about Makgan. This is one of the best things I've done for myself. And when I remember how I had blown up before because of this bust, on the streets instead of looking at men, I kept looking at the women in their cleavages ... I didn't feel like going out, I didn't like the way my clothes looked, not to mention the beach ... sad story .. with a good ending, however, at least for me