Hello! I have been impossible for about 10 days, maybe because I am 9 months pregnant. I constantly hug my husband about his ex-girlfriends and secretly dig into his phone every day to read what was before me. I know it's not right, but please give me advice on what to do .. I trust him, but it seems like I want to hurt myself by reading things from years ago .. He is very nervous, but he tolerates me, he even gives me flowers. I don't want that to be .. advise me.
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Apparently all women do just that! I think you are very interested in who your husbands have kept in touch with or continue to have with other girlfriends! I'm 36, my phone is fingerprinted and locked! Wherever I leave it, no one will be able to open it! I may have a second one, so if I decide to keep in touch with another friend without barking at the dogs, because the curiosity of you, the hosts, is boundless - just waiting for your husbands to go to bed and your first job is to look at their phones, computers, and why not in the cellars and attics - maybe that's where you'll find something really amazing! It doesn't happen that way! If he decides, he will show and explain to you, but he has decided not to do it because it is in the past! And he forgot to protect his phone, which is a big mistake, but I would not allow it! After all, everyone has secrets and no one else likes to know them! And don't tell him what you did, because he may turn away from you! Burn your mind and look after your household! This is from me!
My beauty did the same and in the end she cheated on me because I didn't pay attention to her and she thought I was cheating on her !!!
What kind of man will keep his correspondence with his ex ?! Chats, phones, everything is deleted and blocked. So that he doesn't get angry later. Nowadays you give one block, you delete everything and that's it. But whatever it is, it doesn't matter unless he keeps in touch with them or looks at their profiles. Then there may be an occasion. Where there was fire, it will burn again. But if he doesn't remember these women, doesn't write to them, you have no reason. And if he wants to cheat, he can with anyone, not only with his ex.
Well, delete everything from his phone and there will be nothing to dig. When you give birth you will forget all his old stories. You will not have time to sleep, let alone do such things.
And I dig, I have no problem with that, I let them dig my phone, if he gets angry >> we'll talk, I don't want unnecessary dramas.
And I do not know how you tolerate, you should not.
So how would she delete things from his phone if it wasn't her phone? !! How will he rub, will he block, he has no right to touch someone else's phone at all! As he wants, he will keep his chats with exes, as number 1 said, we all have secrets, this is a hell of a rough intrusion into personal space and a manifestation of complexes.