I had a cycle, but I don't know how to put a bandage on (I know it sounds absurd), I'm 14 years old. I don't want to share my personal problems, but you will say, why don't you ask your mother? !! The problem is that I don't have a mother from the age of 7; (((((She died in a catastrophe on her return from work. It's been 7 years, but I can't stop thinking about her: X. BUT let's get back to the issue! I don't have an aunt, an aunt or a best friend or a person to turn to for the problem at all, my father !!! My father can't help me with this! I'm writing here in the hope that you will help me! :( PLEASE TELL ME HOW EMERGENCY IT IS: ((((
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1. Buy a bandage with wings. On the package (regardless of the brand!) There are drops - the more drops, the more the bandage absorbs, but it is also thicker and longer. Get at least two types of bandages - with 4-5 drops (night) and with 3 drops (normal). Maybe some very cheap with 2 drops (daily) for the last days of menstruation. For heavier days I recommend "Always", "Libresse". For lighter days, you can also use non-branded bandages. Brands are more expensive, but they absorb more and in the end the same thing happens. The dressing is changed every 2-3 hours. On lighter days it can be at 4 o'clock ... The bandage is changed often (even if it is not full), because it starts to smell! 2. There is a ribbon on the underside of each bandage. Remove it. The bandage can be glued to the underwear - necessarily bikinis (NOT THRESHOLDS) made of white or black cotton - you can whiten the white with bleach when staining, there are no stains on the black. Over time, you will notice for yourself exactly where to position the bandage. Sometimes it is too far forward or too far back - if you do not feel comfortable, you can remove the bandage and reattach it back and forth - up to one time you can easily move the bandage. READ THE PACKAGING. Otherwise, the mother did not go to the toilet with any of us to put bandages on us. It's just that every woman has to try some things on her own. Read the packaging. It is much more important to educate yourself on the subject of sexuality and anatomy. You confuse the concepts of menstruation and cycle! Menstruation is the bleeding itself. It lasts from 3 to 8 days on average (there are differences in each woman). The cycle is the time between two consecutive menstrual periods - it is from 25 to 35 days or so and is intermittent in young girls. So the "cycle" did not come to you, but the MENSTRUATION came to you. It is very important to understand this difference in order to understand both the literature and the explanations of the packaging of medicines and women's products ... and most of all not to expose yourself another time. In many girls and women, menstruation is painful. There are many reasons for this, but there is generally no cure. Most women recover after the age of 18, some only after giving birth. I recommend that you have a supply of Spazmalgon at home - take the pill BEFORE the pain breaks out completely. If you feel uncomfortable, stomach ache - take the pill. The first and second days are painful. And above all - read, read, read.
Listen to the advice of number 1, she gave you very good advice!
MY SINCERITY CONDOLENCES TO YOUR MOTHER. I don't know what else to tell you ... except to fight. And on the topic - it has already been explained, and I am a man, :)))) Are and success M, 36
my first word is sorry for your mother without a mother I left her but I do not know your pain as you lost her in a very cruel way and second nothing more I can not say number 1 did not advise well really read and do not believe the Internet can you glue them and if the underwear is colored, change them every 1 hour or 2 hours, I advise you otherwise I can't tell you luck I'll do it
I understand your problem. For the one with your mother and my mother died when I was nine and now you and I and all the orphans have to support each other.
I'm adding something to number 1. Since the bandage has wings, they tell you where to stick it. Bikini, when you stretch them a little, they have the shape of a hiccup (x). In the narrow, around the extra piece of cotton on the panties is the place for the wings. They wrap the fabric of the underwear and thus fasten the bandage. First you remove the tape from the back and stick the bandage so that the folded wings are still in the middle. Then you remove the small strips from the wings and turn the wings down. That is, they are visible from the underside of the pants. After the first three bandages you will change them in your sleep. And you will see that your worries were unfounded. Tampons? DO NOT put on while you are a virgin. There are no seas, pools and nonsense. You just do NOT put. There are tampons for virgin girls, but it is better to use a bandage. 15 years since it first came to me and to this day I use tampons only if I have to stay on my feet longer (that's my job) It is preferable to avoid them. They are far more reliable and invisible, but ... they can have a number of negative consequences, incl. tampon shock in which deaths have been reported. (for reference, leaflets on tampons and the Internet)