My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, he claims that he loves me, but things have changed a lot, he does not want to spend time alone with me and go home early, he prefers to hang out with his friend and play on computers, and he is already quite large. He doesn't want to think about the future, he doesn't want to have any responsibilities, he doesn't work, and when I want to talk about it, he tells me if I don't like leaving and that he wonders what to do tomorrow, not after years. On the other hand, I study in 2 places and I want to work now and it seems that I already want something new and different, but I can't turn my back on 3 years of my life, I'm afraid and I don't know ... what to do
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If you haven't talked about it, do it. This clarifies all misunderstandings. But for me personally, he is not old enough for family responsibilities. And a person is ready for them when he feels stability in his feelings. I don't think you want anything more from him. Let him indulge in idleness. He will feel it himself. If he didn't just don't deserve you ...
This is your job, darling, if you want to live with a loser and encourage for things he doesn't understand and you fail with him.
Drop it and don't care at all! Don't you want to carry it on your back for the rest of your life? If you feel sorry for him - think of him lightly telling you to leave if you don't like him. This man is selfish and irresponsible. You don't need ... Good luck
The previous statements are completely correct and I support them. You don't need such an irresponsible man as much as you want. This is someone who will carry him on his back for the rest of his life, a man without any goals. You will find better than him.
Hey! I can't find a partner from people like you and your "husband"! Every time I hear only "You are very intelligent - you can be with anyone!". I want one, but every time I like one, it goes to a guy like yours! Women are just the "top"!
Don't think about it at all, this person is not for you. If he doesn't want me to take care of him and tell him that in years to come he may become worthy of you.
HELLO! I THINK YOU ARE NOT EACH OTHER. IF I WERE IN YOUR PLACE, I WOULD LEAVE HIM AND CONTINUE MY LIFE. IT WILL BE EASIER FOR BOTH. PLUS WHERE ARE YOU SURE THAT HE IS GOING TO A FRIEND, AND EVEN IF HE IS WALKING, YOU CAN'T BE SURE HOW LONG HE STAYS THERE AND IF HE'S REALLY `PLAYING ', I HAVE HAMA KHYAU KHYATU KYAPYU KHYAU KHYUTYA COMPYU. DIVISIONS. OBVIOUSLY, HE DOESN'T STAY TO YOU AS MUCH TO YOU. IF YOU STAY TOGETHER, OTHER PROBLEMS MAY OCCUR AND IT CAN PREVENT YOUR FURTHER DEVELOPMENT. YOU STILL HAVE TO DECIDE. GOOD LUCK!!!