So this will sound very strange to you, but I will tell it .... I am a 15-year-old boy (9th grade) and since I entered high school I have experienced my biggest breakdown in life, I am depressed and even my health has suffered, I do not want to say what exactly it happened but it all started from the fact that I could not overcome the change .. now a year or so after the beginning things are calmer but I have so ruined my psyche that I think I'm nerdy .. I talk to myself, I constantly walk alone and get tics on arms and eyes, my legs hurt and I have general weakness. many people call me crazy because I don't talk to anyone and I've watched as if I want to kill someone .. plus I went crazy for a girl but she also says I'm weird and doesn't care about me which ruins me even more, I feel powerless and I'm afraid of everything - school, fear of someone scolding or insulting me even from the fact that I am growing up and that I will soon be 16, but my mother scares me the most because I experienced something terrible with her in 8th grade.
People wonder how I can be disgusted by things about sex or how I didn't have a girlfriend because I could have everyone ... right now I just want to get out of this cougar and be happy the problem is that I can't do anything I do it because my self-esteem has disappeared, I study for a threesome and I drive the most miserable life, I always try to drive safely ... and most often I go to bed in front of a computer in the evening and get depressed, which is terrible ... what can I do? .. I just want to be normal and happy like the others People wonder how I can be disgusted by things about sex or how I didn't have a girlfriend because I could have everyone ... right now I just want to get out of this cougar and be happy the problem is that I can't do anything I do it because my self-esteem has disappeared, I study for a threesome and I drive the most miserable life, I always try to drive safely ... and most often I go to bed in front of a computer in the evening and get depressed, which is terrible ... what can I do? .. I just want to be normal and happy like the others People wonder how I can be disgusted by things about sex or how I didn't have a girlfriend because I could have everyone ... right now I just want to get out of this cougar and be happy the problem is that I can't do anything I do it because my self-esteem has disappeared, I study for a threesome and I drive the most miserable life, I always try to drive safely ... and most often I go to bed in front of a computer in the evening and get depressed, which is terrible ... what can I do? .. I just want to be normal and happy like the others
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Do something sports!
to n. 1Sports are bad for me, as I explained my health, they were affected, there was a moment when I was moved from my teacher, that's why it was a very old and moldy building and I couldn't stand breathing there. Now, even at the slightest load, I get tired and various parts hurt. Most often my legs and lower back. I even climb the stairs in a zigzag pattern because I can't climb them straight up - my legs hurt and I don't have an established disease, only asthma in November 2012
The most effective way is to start playing something serious. On the PC: D If you like CS / aL or whatever you play there, play 24/7, play loud music (on headphones) and start. Or play sports ... make friends. Just try to distract yourself in some way from everyday life :).
Wow, I'm the same way I went to high school, I did something stupid that turned my life upside down and I had no idea that my past was perfect and I get tics only on my head and I behave strangely at school. already, I'm very worried abe at all and for me the situation is not rosy, but I have two very good friends from class without whom I would not have survived and we are constantly laughing at something and so my day goes by in general. In general, I get depressed at the very least, that is, I put everything on my heart, but I know that I don't have to do it because in this way I spoil my psyche, which is already almost rotten, but I still want to adapt, to get rid of from the damn high school, to go somewhere to follow and the problems to disappear ...
to the author from 1: If you get tired of the slightest load, then something is wrong! Do not smoke cigarettes or use any other intoxicants? What is your diet? What do you eat? Get out of there ...
You say you have asthma if you take medication for it, or for depression, fatigue most likely comes from there. If you don't take any medication and you feel exhausted, it will be from depression. A little vicious circle. Otherwise - since you can't play sports - take a walk, an hour a day exercise is the best fitness
And I guess it's the pain in the lower back and the bones are from the growth. There's nothing wrong with spending time alone, I'm alone - that's what I think best
First sit down and think exactly what he is happy about yourself. There is no way to be happy like the others, because everyone else is happy firstly from a different thing, secondly he knows whether he is happy or that on his face is not just a mask and how much effort this state or a false state costs him. On the other hand, are you normal. You are completely normal, and it is normal at 15 to be a confused young person, and limb pain is normal for your age and athletic condition. Only your success in school is not very normal "I study for a threesome", but it's all up to you. What would I do in your place? First I would stop the computer at 8 every night or if I could I would reduce the computer time to a minimum. If I can't sleep, I would do something by hand: sculptures, carpentry, something technical, making electrical boards, robotics, building a house from matches if you want. Since sport is not your strong point, find a hobby that is not related to physical sport, but manual labor. From there, over time, you will feel a desire to learn about the hobby and the happiness of success. Little by little everything will be fine, and the physical condition and self-esteem, and the boyfriends left for later, first fix their psycho state and they will fly by themselves, they will not run away from you.
To n. 5 I am against cigarettes I do not smoke or drink. How I eat normally, I don't eat chips or anything like that, but I also don't follow a certain diet. and yes many doctors have told me it is from depression. it's just weird for me after they moved me from the old teacher I went to, I recovered immediately and 5-6 months later I still feel bad in a different way - drained mentally and physically, I breathe well at school, I don't leave early , because I can't stand it, I don't go to the hospital every other day, I just feel like an old man (as ridiculous as it sounds) and my mother, my father bother them again, as if everything is turning again and again ...