I am a man of 34 years. For almost 4 years. I live on a family basis with a 22-year-old woman. I had a long-term family relationship with another woman before that, which I ended because of this woman. It all started with a lot of passion and emotion. I quickly fell in love with this attractive woman. She told me that she loved me and that she wanted a family and children, and so quickly our child was born. We have a gorgeous 2.5 year old son. Over time, I began to get to know the person next to me. I guess everyone has been through this stage and knows it takes time. So I began to realize that I had a very frivolous person next to me. Because during this period my affairs were going great and I was indulging in almost everything. I know I can be blamed for just that, but I've never been selfish and I've always given literally everything in a relationship. I have always been honest and unfortunately I have always expected the same. I realize that a 34-year-old man. he can't know everything about family life. My close people and friends literally do not know what to advise me to do. Maybe because they are biased, too delicate, or because they are well aware that they have a small child who ultimately needs both parents. I can say for myself that I am a good looking man. I even found it funny when yesterday after the meeting with the lawyer, going to my car, two teenage girls whistled at me with the remark "hey cutie". I admit that I also have dark sides in my character. In general, I am a broad-minded person and I am quite patient, but I am too straightforward and when I explode it is better not to have anyone nearby. I know people put up with lies, but I haven't learned yet. For this reason, I have terminated potentially promising partnerships, and I have also stopped contacts with people from whom I know very well that I would be of great benefit. I literally start to tremble with nerves when they lie to me and I get horrified. I know that life will force me to learn to communicate, work, and even live with such people, but at the moment I can't handle it and if I can just stop seeing others, I don't know what to do. in my own family to avoid this. I gave a lot of freedom to my partner. She bought things she would never have afforded before. I also bought a diploma because I didn't see how she would end up with this little child. I also bought a driver's license and at the beginning I gave her a cheap car to learn to drive, and then there was an excellent car from a prestigious German brand. You will say it should not have. I did it for practical reasons as I crashed and I know what it's like to get out of a safe car unscathed and how it saves your life and health. After all, she drives my child in the back seat, not just her. She always had enough money during her motherhood. I let her go out alone without taking her into account. It was enough not to lie to me. But not. She can't live without those little insignificant lies. I really loved her and kept quiet a lot. She thought maybe some things were passing, but they weren't. I have an inexplicable ordeal for me to always learn unpleasant things and even in extremely surprising ways they find their way to me. Sometimes I envy my acquaintances who watch from the side how they live happily in blissful unseenness. As I observed the families of my friends and acquaintances and tried to analyze everything, I came to the conclusion that women in general are either polygamous or rather monogamous. I say rather because I think that often only their upbringing and the imposition of a small worldview suppress their desire for polygamy. Anyway, I realized that my partner is polygamous by nature and the dumbest thing I can do is force her to be something she isn't. I'm rather monogamous but I'm smart enough to know that in the end people have different sexualities. I started trying to talk to her about it because I knew that sooner or later it would be a catalyst for serious drama at home knowing myself. At first she didn't want to talk about it and just said yes, I trust her more. She could not or did not want to understand that this was not a matter of trust, but of an attempt at understanding on my part, as she did not justify the trust she demanded. Accordingly, this was garnished with lies, and only I know what I want to do when they lie to me. I admit that I am horrified at such moments. Here I want to insert that these are not lies only from this nature, but lies about literally prosaic things. I guess she felt like she was in a vicious circle. She was so entangled in lies that she kept lying about almost everything, knowing how I would react when I found out. You'll think I've beaten her regularly, but I don't. Most of the time I kept quiet, piling everything up, but when the glass overflowed, I really misbehaved with it, insulting it and pouring out everything I had poured. Then she always disappeared for days, leaving only the child and blocking me from working completely. He doesn't pick up his phone for anyone and only after a few days we start contacting via SMS because he doesn't even have eyes to talk to me on the phone. With a lot of tact and love, sometimes behaving like a small child, I took her home. And so many times. I realized that she had been accustomed to doing so since she was a child, and even for that reason she had entered the schemes of prostituted underage girls, who quite understandably easily found themselves there on the street without money. OK I understand, we do not live in an ideal society. Only a fool can say this can't happen to me or my daughter or ........ etc. I understand that she grew up without her father and without justifying her I tried to understand her. I've lost so much psychic energy after each of her disappearances, that I was becoming less and less able to work. After every time I took her back to the family and we kept talking about the same thing. About how it is necessary to have trust between us and not to lie. The same promises followed, and the same thing happened every time. She lied to me many times for money and that was also the reason she ran away. As if this is not our money to look after our child. When she finished motherhood and wanted to work, but since she could do nothing but quality sex, I did everything in my power to guide her and help her. I know that many men do the exact opposite so that their wives can be obedient and dependent, but I have a different opinion. I see every day what happens to many people and I do not live with the illusion that I am insured against everything. I want her to be able to take care of our child if something happens to me. A life insurance solves absolutely nothing in the medium and long term. Money is easily and quickly spent, and she did not know how to earn it. I watched her and figured out what she could do. She is a very beautiful woman, but a little phlegmatic, although she is just the opposite in bed. That's why I suggested the idea of working in a beauty salon. I decided that for a woman her age, this is a good option to start building work habits and at the same time look perfect working there. After all, it is not a matter of so much money over time to have your own modest business when you gain skills in this area. I was far from thinking about something big because I saw that at least at this stage there are no qualities for it. She accepted the idea very enthusiastically and turned to nail art because this work is really for phlegmatic people like her. I do not make any bad sense in this word because even Freud and Jung distinguished people into different types and natural natures. This is where the next odyssey began. I pay an expensive rate in the most elite chain of salons. She walks for a few days and then lies again. Of course, I learn again and react emotionally. She runs away ..... Again everything turns in the same circle but she has already closed the door there and the exceptional opportunity to gain experience in the best place. I grit my teeth once again and pay for another course in an unpretentious place. This time he makes it. Work begins. He worked for two weeks and continued as he knew how. Disappeared for days, again the same circle. He started working elsewhere. She spent almost two months there because her colleague was infinitely tolerant and often endured her absence and returning clients. At the same time, I thought it worked. When I inevitably learned the truth again the same. Disappearance and then I take her home just so the child can have a mother. Literally the next day, after she came home and went to work, she staged a play with two alcoholics to whom she had told what a terrible person I was and how I had harassed and beaten her. I would really beat her once, but a lot, but the reason is that after another homecoming in the evening we had sex and at that time she started telling me how she had sex with someone while she was gone. Then I just scrolled, and given that hours before that we talked at length once again about what is included in the concept of truth and she had told me where and what she did. Not because it mattered, but to learn to at least tell the truth. What happened happened, at least to tell the truth and move on. After each return and tell me tell me everything. He forgets me and we move on. Unfortunately, they have usually always been half-truths. You say, well, she told you the truth, but it wasn't right at the time. So I had started to say what happened the day after the next return home. Instead of working, she drew a roar from two alcoholics who often stood at a nearby supermarket to pour. What a disgusting person I am. And just then I had decided to go with the child to meet her from work to show her that we love her. However, she had returned after another disappearance only the day before. You can guess what happened. These boys set out to pretend to be musketeers defending the poor lady. There was a fight, and I went with my two-year-old son by the hand. The child got hysterical. I am a male boy and although I had surgery on my abdomen only 4 weeks ago, I resisted. She looked like a nasr. Anyway. This isn't the first time I've been bullied. We went home and what do you think. Surely I beat her!? Well, she was for a serious fight. I watched with what horror the child looked at me and hugged me, and I said to myself as if you were kicking a dead dog, and the child was just beginning to calm down. Of course, he doesn't dwell on this job either. Quite by chance, he met a famous bohemian and because she is a good actress and a beautiful young girl, the woman asked her to start working in perhaps the most elite salon without a competition. There, the girls only dream of starting a job and there are competitions for one place. She was infinitely happy to have started working there. He couldn't believe it was true, and he was in seventh heaven. I asked her to sit on the floor at least this time, and she said she had always dreamed of being in such a place. Something like a dream come true. I said to myself, maybe it will finally work out. I was also left with the impression that, at least recently, we have made great progress in talking directly and sharing without room for lies. She works there for exactly one week. Because again I was annoyed by the secrets and expenses with my credit cards, which you finally remember who should reimburse, and I put them away. We went to the option of refinancing with a loan with a lower interest rate to receive from another bank. Everything was moving and she stopped in the middle of the operation. I reacted emotionally, and she ran away again. Of course, he will never have the opportunity to work in such a top prestigious place. Now she is somewhere without money and I guess she has fallen into another mental hole again. This script is so familiar to me that I no longer want to play on it. I still love her. I know most people will tell me you're a fool. I have flaws like any man, but at least I don't drink alcohol, I've never even tried drugs, I'm not interested in football and Formula 1. I prefer to be with my family instead of going out with "male" companies. I used to think that the only allowed weakness of a man was to love a woman. Now I see that it is ruining me. After all this mental strain for so long, I became completely incapacitated. I couldn't mentally squeeze the "enemy" during the day and achieve what I want in business. Everything collapsed. I no longer made money. I sold the cars and then took a modest car, which only I now drive. Now we do not lead the life we led before due to the inevitable financial constraints. I have not given up fighting. I have ideas, but to realize them I need at least peace of mind at home. I adore my son and I want him to be well. When he was born, he had a serious health problem and barely survived. It was a real miracle. People rejoice when their son is born and gather friends to draw, and I couldn't even rejoice. I trembled for him and every day, climbing Pirogov's feet, my legs were cut and soft as plasticine. I barely made it to the last site of the intensive care unit, and I peered out of the corner of my eye in horror to see if it would be in his incubator or empty. I do not wish any parent to see their child so postoperatively hooked up the whole in systems that literally hide the little body. Perforated with systems wherever you can think of. Even on the forehead. For almost a month I did not dare to tell my wife the truth about how bad it was and how I was told that we were most likely to lose it, but not to despair because we are young and will have other children. I stopped thinking about myself a long time ago and I only think about what will be best for this suffering child. I know he needs his mother. He loves her very much and is very attached to her. She is only two and a half years old, but she already understands everything and finds it very difficult to go through those moments when she is gone. He is constantly looking for her in the photos at home or in the women on the street. Of course, he still can't understand why all this is happening, but he suffers in his own childish way. I want to end all this this time. I am already completely exhausted mentally. I have nowhere else to give way. My back is against the wall. I don't know if it's a solution to the problem of leaving him without a mother. I don't know if another woman can completely replace his mother. I don't know if another will be able to caress him in the same way. He is too small and needs it. I also know that it can no longer go on like this. I am also grateful to my wife's relatives for supporting me, although this is not of much use to me at the moment. I try to make the right decision and I know that in both cases the child will be a loser. If she leaves him without a mother, he will be upset every time he sees her. In any case, she will have the legal right to see him. If I grit my teeth again and take her home, she will continue to run away from any problem. I don't think it will change. At 22 is and seen from the side is an incredibly beautiful woman, but still mentally and is 15 years old. Several times I offered to visit a specialist or if she wanted to go alone to ask for a professional opinion on everything that was happening, but she did not want to do anything about it. I don't think it made sense to force her to go there, because in that case I can't force a person to talk openly about their problems. I know people have said that love is blind, and at least in the beginning it always is. Maybe it's all luck if a child is born quickly. It's easy to lose a person you only live with. It's hard to decide to do it when you have to think about a child, not just yourself. Now we are again in a period of infinitely difficult communication with SMS. I'm trying to at least get her to see a lawyer to find out about the child out of court. She promises me and then hides again. This is how these infinitely long days pass at the moment. I don't know what he is trying to achieve at the moment. I'm not sure he even knows what he wants. She texted me in response that she wanted to leave us because she didn't want to hurt me anymore. His childish job, but I also have a very small child that I have to think about first of all ......
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The problem is the big difference between you. It is best to just leave her now, because the child is small, but does not deserve such a mother. It is not too late to find him a holy mother for your child. Good luck and I hope things work out.
I read this 3 times and I don't know what to say ... when she found it ... she forgot. He must be a prostitute again. Unfortunately, brain transplants are not performed yet.
Divorce, women on the road and over the road. I know what it's like not to go home when there's no peace at home, nothing works. Better alone than with a bed next to you. There are many conscientious babysitters who will replace the mother until you find another woman. And until then, patience, not only will your son be a child of divorced parents, I would say that such children are stronger because life has sobered them up early and they have no illusions. It is better to be without a mother, but to live in a peaceful environment, than to have a family where scandals and violence prevail. If you take her home, she will suffer more, because she will not know when she will disappear again and for how long. Next time you choose a partner, look with the upper head, not the lower :))
Break up with her !!! There is no other solution. Precisely because you think what is best for your child, lose it! Because of her, your child is a witness to a terrible pain that is reflected in him ... Such a family environment is not for a child.
First I want to note that it is extremely well written-congratulations. And on the question - leave her to shake her head alone, not realizing what life has given her-ie-you. I hope you are sure that in the event of a separation, the child will stay with you and if so, act. It will not change and I do not think that this is due to the difference in age, as it says 1. It is the big difference that determines good cohabitation, because at least one in a relationship should be more settled and sane. As for whether you will find a real mother for your son, I doubt it. Few women accept another's child as their own, while men do not. And you love her too much to live with another, maybe just a casual relationship. I advise you to forget it. If you continue to forgive you will sink more and more. Think about whether the child deserves such treatment from his mother, and when he grows up he begins to understand and feel the lack and he will hardly love her so much. And last but not least, think about yourself - do you have to put up with her whims and pampering. Good luck and I hope you are lucky.
Dude, dump her! That she perceives you as a father she has missed over the years is clear. You can't expect anything serious from her at the age of 22, she hasn't lived her life. Don't make your son suffer, you may not be so in love with another woman, but you will live only for the sake of your child. In the end, you don't know what your luck will be, I'm a man
I do not agree with 5. Many women would be with you despite the child.
I'm number 5 to 7 - I didn't say there would be no woman with him. It might even be a lot, but for his money. I don't know if there will be one who will accept his child as his own, to embrace him truly, to comfort him, to love him - after all, the alien is alien.
Dear little soul, from everything I have read so far, my heart aches for your child. It would be really difficult for me to give advice on what to do, whichever way you take your son will suffer. Children need their mother, but not at any cost. It's bad for your son to watch scenes, to watch his mother disappear and come back when he decides, but also how he would live without her. At the same time, from everything written, I am not convinced how much she cares for her child, my son is a little older - 2 years and 10 months. and there is no force in this world to make me abandon it, for me it is the MOST IMPORTANT in my life. If you can build a calm, masculine world between the two of you, maybe the really good solution is to live the two of you, without lies, without drama. So gradually your soul will calm down, and this be sure is the best for the child. Children unmistakably feel the pain and bitterness in the souls of their parents, I am convinced of that! And a small child to become good, confident and calm must live in such an environment! Children learn what they experience! And really nothing is known in this life, it is possible to meet a woman who will truly love you both, I believe it will happen!
When I see something for so long I read it quickly and pass by ... but I reread this paragraph 3 word for word and somewhere in the middle of my eyes flowed from my huge and pitiful tears ... so much pain and self-trampling you have experienced and done everything I could advise you that I don't even know how you lasted so long .. you are obviously quite firm ... there are many women as everyone says .. but she is not like your wife .. but if she is not inclined to nothing .. and she is 22 it is not appropriate to behave like that .. I am 19 but the reactions are not tolerable for me .. I do not know..t and you are unique ... and I am sure that every unique person finds his unique partner in his life who is his support !! I wish you good luck and courage and I think that you will make the best choice for your child, I believe you are a great father!
I will be very or a little critical. 1. You had a long-term relationship with a woman on a family basis. 2. You stopped her and started a new one with a Barbie doll. 3. You entered the mind and made a child. 4. How old are you, that only after the birth of the child do you realize that you have a street whore, mutres or some kind of pampering next to you. You have to look for some guilt in yourself. In fact, you have two failed marriages. For example, I ask you: Which will be the third? For example, I do not believe that number 10 understands family life. Number 5, the great genius, where she only looks for spelling mistakes, says nothing about the purchased diploma and driver's license, about the German cars. Is that how you think to raise "Your gorgeous son" You say: I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't go to matches and Formula 1, I'm not a whore, I can have any chick, but I am the perfect one and I do not cheat. Well done dude. With your money, your bed should kiss your ass and wash your feet. You may be a lawyer, but the whore will take your child and blackmail you. Think about how you're going to fix the bat. And if there is a third, buy a diploma, a Mercedes and come again and complain about how good you are.
Men are so naive by nature! And the one who wrote this and the one who commented before me. The difference is that the first one is too good and is about to become a bastard, and the second one is already like that and as a selfish man he most likely goes to bed alone and watches sexy chicks only on the porn channel.
Men are so naive by nature! And the one who wrote this and the one who commented before me. The difference is that the first one is too good and is about to become a bastard, and the second one is already like that and as a selfish man he probably goes to bed alone.
I'm number 10 to number 11: where I said I understand from family life .. I don't even claim .. I'm just trying to give my opinion ... but you seem very angry to me ..
From the Author: Life is a series of lessons and I do not regret any of them. I am only 34 years old. and I think they are yet to come. I wrote this "story" not to complain, to seek sympathy or anything like that. At that moment, I decided that this was a painless option for me to tell my ex-partner what was happening in my life. We have an excellent relationship and yet it was difficult for me to answer the questions directly and what was wrong with me. I used this opportunity knowing that it regularly monitors the same sites. Here, a partner from Russia took me an hour to talk and I stopped thinking. My ex-partner, for whom the writing was intended, is already married and also faces the inevitable family problems. Nevertheless, it was difficult for me to share it in this light. This is not the woman I wrote about in the beginning, that I left to be with the present. The woman I left is currently a famous porn star in the United States. I had a 6-year relationship with her that I don't regret, but I felt she was exhausted. If I have to look at things positively, I have still been with a woman that many men dream of in America with a population of 300 million and only fight ....... while watching porn movies. This, of course, is within the bounds of good black humor, and I don't want to offend anyone. I think the idea for this site is good and I congratulate the creators. Guaranteed anonymity and the opportunity for truly free writing within a good tone are invaluable, regardless of the motivations of different users. I am writing this because I was surprised by the presence of as many as 14 comments about my confused "story". Thanks to the people who took the trouble to read through and leave a comment, because every different point of view is valuable in itself. I can say that number 12 is a good prophet because I'm already really acting like a bastard with my wife "getting through my nose" and the little she's already getting. Just like she treated me before. By law in the Republic of Bulgaria I am the only guardian of the child and I accept her only as a babysitter. I decided to give myself completely to business and not think about love and feelings. When it comes to sex, there are so many "working" girls that this is the last thing that worries me. In the end, purely pragmatically, paid sex is much cheaper in many ways. I wish everyone success in their endeavors and more sunny days. that number 12 is a good prophet because I'm already actually acting like a bastard with my wife "getting through my nose" and the little she's already getting. Just like she treated me before. By law in the Republic of Bulgaria I am the only guardian of the child and I accept her only as a babysitter. I decided to give myself completely to business and not think about love and feelings. When it comes to sex, there are so many "working" girls that this is the last thing that worries me. In the end, purely pragmatically, paid sex is much cheaper in many ways. I wish everyone success in their endeavors and more sunny days. that number 12 is a good prophet because I'm already actually acting like a bastard with my wife "getting through my nose" and the little she's already getting. Just like she treated me before. By law in the Republic of Bulgaria I am the only guardian of the child and I accept her only as a babysitter. I decided to give myself completely to business and not think about love and feelings. When it comes to sex, there are so many "working" girls that this is the last thing that worries me. In the end, purely pragmatically, paid sex is much cheaper in many ways. I wish everyone success in their endeavors and more sunny days. By law in the Republic of Bulgaria I am the only guardian of the child and I accept her only as a babysitter. I decided to give myself completely to business and not think about love and feelings. When it comes to sex, there are so many "working" girls that this is the last thing that worries me. In the end, purely pragmatically, paid sex is much cheaper in many ways. I wish everyone success in their endeavors and more sunny days. By law in the Republic of Bulgaria I am the only guardian of the child and I accept her only as a babysitter. I decided to give myself completely to business and not think about love and feelings. When it comes to sex, there are so many "working" girls that this is the last thing that worries me. In the end, purely pragmatically, paid sex is much cheaper in many ways. I wish everyone success in their endeavors and more sunny days.
Hello! I am 30 years old and after reading this story it turned out that with slight "cosmetic" changes it can become my story. In fact, first I have a question for the author ... Does your wife drink a lot or more precisely what addictions she has. I also have a 2.5 year old son. In fact, the reason we got married was him. She really deserves the reason - my son is the most beautiful baby on earth that exists and although he was born quite premature - a kilogram and three hundred pieces of meat - to knock on a tree, he did not have serious health problems. And my wife was drinking. I say he drank because I guess he doesn't drink now. Not that I don't drink - even a lot lately, but not like her - to faint. It's good that fortunately it's light because if you know how many times I've had to wear it. Imagine the following picture. I come home from work - we sit somewhere with her and the baby, which was brought by the babysitter from the garden, she drinks something and falls on the table. And then I have a baby and a cripple - I literally have to carry them both. But not just any disabled person — at least a disabled person — but a disabled person who, when he wakes up, starts behaving nervously and finding all sorts of reasons to get on my nerves. Of course for some small nonsense, such as why I dressed the child in one place or for example why one is in one place and not in another. At such moments, I also exploded and hit her. And honestly, in such a situation, I don't know what to do, but my nerves can't stand it. And then there is disappearance - somewhere where I more or less know where he is, but he does not want to take me, and a brutal binge begins, until she finally had to be sought by her mother and father. But unlike you, I wasn't that financially stable. Now, maybe with one idea, I'm better off from that point of view. Then, when I met her, I really wanted to be separated from my family and when she offered me to live together, there was no way she would not agree. Of course, there were some good moments, but now that I think about it, I think there were more bad ones. And so we lived from drunkenness, to taking measures from her mother, some treatment, stopping and then drinking again. I have beaten her many times and finally her parents decided to stop everything. He went to live with relatives with the child. Then I agreed for the child so that he could be with her, but he never got better. I thought half a year was enough and I could do it, but I didn't. Of course, I didn't have to. I got a girlfriend, however, the absence of the child cannot be replaced in this way. I suffered a lot during that time. I just really love her and I made several attempts to get together, but it always turned out the same - when we get together she gets drunk and in the eyes of her family it seems that I am the cause. Not to mention that this has always been stressful for my girlfriend. Anyway, they finally realized that it wasn't me who was the cause and now they sent her for treatment abroad. And I decided to take the child and watch it with my girlfriend. And what can I tell you - it's really hard for me - right now. Let's say he's been watched by his mother and grandmothers so far, of course. I go home - my friend takes the baby from the garden - she brings it and it starts - feeding, bathing, etc. However, something gets stuck in my throat and I feel crooked. After all, she is not his mother and yet he cannot treat her with such love. I know - maybe in time she will get used to it ..., she will relax, etc. And it is difficult for her, it is just difficult for us at the moment. And of course we start living as a family, but nothing is settled yet ... she's worried, I'm worried and we inevitably start arguing. Don't ask me what it's like for a child to say - mom, mom - for example, when you're arguing about something. I don't know what will happen, I don't know if we will work with my girlfriend. And there are a lot of responsibilities that need to be taken on while looking after a child. My friend is terribly hard-working, a good housewife, responsible, etc., and yet I miss something, and this thing seems to be from my wife. I'm trying to overcome it, but I still can't. I will try to be firm, ie. the decision has already been made and there is no end - there is no going back. What if my wife comes back - changed? And if I soften and we get back together ... imagine what an injury it would be for my girlfriend. What if we don't get together and my wife asks to take her child back. Let's say I can get it through the courts. What if I fail? She has honey. a testimony to an incident in which she was drunk and made me almost take her life. My act was wrong then - but even then I couldn't stand it ... I did something - I took my baby and disappeared. And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance! imagine what an injury it would be for my girlfriend. What if we don't get together and my wife asks to take her child back. Let's say I can get it through the courts. What if I fail? She has honey. a testimony to an incident in which she was drunk and made me almost take her life. My act was wrong then - but even then I couldn't stand it ... I did something - I took my baby and disappeared. And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance! imagine what an injury it would be for my girlfriend. What if we don't get together and my wife asks to take her child back. Let's say I can get it through the courts. What if I fail? She has honey. a testimony to an incident in which she was drunk and made me almost take her life. My act was wrong then - but even then I couldn't stand it ... I did something - I took my baby and disappeared. And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance! Let's say I can get it through the courts. What if I fail? She has honey. a testimony to an incident in which she was drunk and made me almost take her life. My act was wrong then - but even then I couldn't stand it ... I did something - I took my baby and disappeared. And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance! Let's say I can get it through the courts. What if I fail? She has honey. a testimony to an incident in which she was drunk and made me almost take her life. My act was wrong then - but even then I couldn't stand it ... I did something - I took my baby and disappeared. And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance! And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance! And then, on the advice of his parents, he obtained a medical certificate. I do not want to specify exactly what the act is. However, she does not remember at all when she was sober how many times she made me take her life. I will be happy if you give me some advice or comment. Thank you in advance!
I am the mother of a boy of 4. I read, I came back, I read. What you write angers me on the one hand, and on the other hand I am glad that the child has at least you. This little child needs love and family. He needs a mother. But from those mothers who hug, tell stories and when you are sick they do not sleep because of you. It's just that his mother is still a child. Or leave her and try to keep her away from him. Or he left her, but also allowed her to return to his life when he finally behaved like a human being. You're obviously spinning in a circle.
You look like an intelligent man, very intelligent. The fact that you fell in love with a beauty (there is nothing wrong with that, but couldn't you judge how much it costs as a person, or as if you decided to tie her up with a child so that no one else would grab her) and that was obviously leading criterion, speaks ill of you. In my opinion, things can be saved right now - while the child is small. If you manage to prove in court that the mother cannot take care of and raise your son adequately, he can stay with you. I am sure you will find a woman who will love and care for him. But ... be careful by what criteria you will choose it.
I admire you for trying to save your family. Very few men would act like you. You have experienced a lot and it is time to give a chance for a better life to yourself and your son. There are women who do not realize what they are missing. Don't bother anymore. You will find a good wife and mother of the child - I'm sure. It's just that men like you can't go unnoticed. You are a good father and I am sure you will find a suitable mother for your son. Moreover, you now have a bitter experience and you will learn from your mistakes. Success!
Q. how could you do that. Come to your senses before it's too late. The child is the most important!