Hello. I found topics similar to mine. and it was written everywhere that it was most likely infidelity. I refuse to accept that this may be the case and seek your opinion. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 10 months, we have been living together for a year and a half. Since the summer we talk about marriage, children, etc. Things are more than serious, we get along great and we have no problems except the following - his desire for sex. Basically we do every day, but this year he twice in about ten days had no desire and erection due to stress, I will not go into details. Once the situation settled down, everything improved with his libido. Now, however, this is the third time this year and things have been like this for a month. He still had personal problems, when I asked him he said it was because of that. But that's all? He hugs me, kisses me, is very loving, helps at home, we go out and everything is fine. He just says nothing is being done to him, eh. it doesn't happen. Is it possible that stress affects him so much? Besides, I don't know how to behave anymore. Should I initiate something or not, should I ask him more. I just do not know!
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I didn't understand what the problem was. If you have such a wonderful man by your side, you don't need anything else.
Keep pushing him and you will stress him even more.
Abe is hardly an infidelity. I have had similar problems - at the beginning of the relationship great sex, and after a few months I become a type of "homemaker". I try not to do that anymore, because it's a bad joke. Try to arouse him with your hand or mouth. For example, one morning on the weekends before you get tired of the problems during the day.
If he had a mistress, he would have sex even more, even with you. You've probably stressed him out and he's not doing well.