Hello. I have a friend for 4 months, a long-distance relationship, we haven't seen each other live, and we're both dying for each other, we've been through a lot in these 4 months and most of them are difficult times. Almost every day we fight over something, I am guilty of it, I make the same mistake, in the last quarrel I hurt him a lot with my words and apologies and promises no longer help. I really love him, I can't end everything just like that ... My question is how to stop arguing and how to prove to him that I have really changed and that he can trust me. Thanks in advance!
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This is not a relationship, I don't know why you even mentioned that you have a "friend" when you actually have a chat buddy. Virtual love is very insidious, because in most cases one of the two lies without a problem, the other is that he does not bother to prove himself, not least one of the two accepts it as a game that remains only in the virtual. Tip: Stop contact, otherwise you will hate love.
I got to "we haven't seen each other live" and he lost me.
Thanks for the sympathy. Now I feel even worse ...
* What may you have "experienced" in 4 months? How old? * The word connection, you can't define it that way dear. I don't believe in virtual "connections". We are not robots, but people who really need to have contacts, to have experiences. * You cannot claim that a 4 month virtual "relationship" has suffered more emotions than a 4 month real relationship. * If you are in puberty, you are forgiven for deceiving yourself and confusing each other, but if you are mature, stupidity is not forgiven. * I can't tell you what to do, because your life is yours, but please don't live in a world that doesn't exist. * Do not write about love, because 4 months is a small period in which you can truly fall in love, and to cover that you have not seen each other live, it is absurd. * For relationships, love and quarrels, you can talk when you actually have a relationship long enough. -Maryan
You don't have a relationship unless you've seen each other live. You don't even know him! It may turn out to be quite different from the one he pretends to be. He may be an old man, having fun writing to you, he may be married. Everything is possible. You now like a fictional image that is only in your head. See you live and then start a relationship. So far, everything is just a fabrication.
If you really loved each other so much and had such a strong relationship going through difficult times, what stopped you from seeing each other? Is it money? If you had set aside BGN 1 every day so far, you would have collected the money for several meetings. I personally do not believe that there is a future for you as a "couple". It can't be harder for you to break up with two people who have been together for months or years who have really experienced both difficult and good times together.