I am married, I have a child but I fell in love with someone else - I really want him, I only think about him! I don't know what to do anymore, I both want to be with him and keep my family and .... I'm going crazy with thoughts already !!!
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Keep your family, I was in your situation, but it turned out that the man who was in love with me deceived me, I broke mine because of my stupidity, and you don't do it either! Men many relationships a lot but family is one! Good luck........
I don't have much life experience to give advice, but I still decided to write. Personally, if I were you, I would try to be with the man you are in love with, and if I am not disappointed in him, because it may not work out, and only then will I think about how to deal with my family! Or maybe it's a better option not to try the other person at all, but to be a faithful wife! Good luck though! :)
Kill your husband and child before indulging in love action outside the home. Otherwise, they will feel more than killed when they find out about your antics. Tighten it up and look after your husband and child! / I tell you this with great anger / You will not find anything in the extramarital affair - only remorse, insult and disappointment. Do you know how to live with lost trust? It just never comes back. Come on, and smart!
Honey, I guess you can judge things soberly now .... Don't indulge in something uncertain! Save your most valuable thing - your family, because what will happen without him .....!
Be smart. Keep your family and live the love with the other.
You want it for what? For sex or a serious relationship. If you want it for sex do it then forget it, try not to let your husband understand. This is the best solution for me, you will both get what you want and keep your family! This is advice if you really love him and feel that you can't do without him. But you will do even better if you forget it or at least try as a result, which will save your family one hundred percent. The decision is yours! Good luck :))))
I think that if the other person's feelings for you are as strong as yours for him, there is no point in living a lie. If you are sure of exactly what you want, go ahead. The child will feel better when he sees that both his parents feel happy separately, so as long as you believe what you want, I think that whatever step you take, you will be satisfied. Be brave, reasonable and happy. Think carefully, look at the pros and cons and make the right choice .
I am in exactly the same situation as you and you know what I did, I have a relationship and I do not feel very well with the other because when I come home I feel remorse but what to do once I live I am sorry.
Experience what you feel. Life is a risk. Whatever you do, be discreet and don't be afraid. What you have to think is what you want from the other, as number 6 wrote. The comment on number 7 is also quite good. Experience everything when the time is right. Don't miss the good moments, because they are few. Do not suppress your desires for the sake of your husband. I know, it sounds quite rude and immoral to some, but how can you be sure that he will be faithful to you in such a situation. I wouldn't be. And the child ... Well, he will grow up one day and go away. Then you will start looking into the past and you will regret if you did not experience what was offered to you. The decision is yours, but remember that there is no man who deserves full trust (in fact, there is no woman;)
To number 3. We are not here to be vicious, but to help people. Follow your heart to the author, dear. Success.
Thank you all, I'm a little relieved! :) I think I'll listen to you № 9 :)
I was digging to find an article just like yours because I'm in your situation and I feel very bad, I love my husband and I don't want to ruin my family, but the other one attracts me terribly, I think about him all day long, I can't sleep I'm going crazy.
Yes, we are 1 to 1! I don't know what to do either! I also want to keep my family, but ... I don't stop thinking about the other one! Offffff just don't know!
I'm number 9. I am very glad that I manage to be useful :) One learns from one's mistakes. However, never regret the past. It does not return. Write what happened :) Greetings!
Author, from my experience similar to yours, I will tell you that when a person loves, another cannot excite him. Obviously in your case you do not love your husband, but also think carefully about what the other will offer you - security, love, passion, whether he will accept your child as his own, whether he will accept him in turn and how your life would develop in general. . This is from me. Be sensible, don't rely too much on this side "love" until you have experienced it in time.
What 15 says is 110% true. How are you sure that after the second sleep you won't be beaten by a jester? But it will be too late ...