Hello! I have a friend of 10 years. I am 25 years old, he is 29. We have experienced many things together ... We do not live together, but we are together non-stop. I only sleep at home in the evening ... BUT ... Some things bother me. As I was 15, now I am 25 years old ... We do not live together, our people do not approve of him, because years ago he attacked me, and they hated him ... In general, he is a poorer boy, my family is better materially. He recently received a legacy that is not millions, but still not small, and I do not know in which direction the wind will blow him ... I feel insecure. I was 15, now I'm 25, but tomorrow, when he fixed his life and I'm 30, what's going on ?? There are no guarantees for anything, but somehow I don't have security, I live day by day, and I don't know how the financial change in him will affect ... I'm afraid that in 5 years I will be 30 years old, and my father keeps repeating,
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What relationship are you talking about? This man BILLED you. If you lived with him, he would have a regular fist, and you're worried he'd dump you for a younger one. Don't worry, people like you become wives and everyday punching bags. You are a dependent person. You live with your parents, then you wait to live with your husband and have someone take care of you. You are addicted and you will get yourself into a much bigger problem than being abandoned at 30 - being married with children to a rapist, for example. At 30, a woman's life does not end, but begins. Well, if she is a learned woman, a woman with an income and a career, with friends, independent of a man. Think about it and catch up with yours first, live on your own and earn your own living and rent, because as you left ... you will soon end very, very badly and while the other 30-year-olds are living their lives,
Looking for development in this regard. And tell him. If things don't change - life goes on. You continue until you find the right person who can give you at least a minimum of security. 25 years is not much, but it is normal to wonder where you are going personally. * Syndrome
You better think about why you don't live together. I guess it's not just because of yours. Maybe he doesn't want to either? Maybe you don't know him so well, but he still touched you ... Why are you with him at all? Because of the lack of another or because you love him?
If you feel insecure, I don't think you have a future. And as soon as he touched you ... She decided for herself what kind of person you were standing next to