I Don't Know Why, But I'm Ashamed Of Our Relationship

   Защо се срамуваш от връзката си???? Вие се обичате, а на любовта нищо не може да се противопостави. Няма смисъл да се криете, защото рано или късно ще се разчуе все някой ще разбере и слуха ще се разнесе така че действай. Представи си го така. Купуваш се една блуза, носиш я известно време, но след това тя става демоде. Забутала си я в гардероба и те е срам да я извадиш от там, защото някой ако те види обечена с нея ще помисли, че си зъдръстена. Ами ето какво да направиш взимаш блузата и я обличаш, отиваш с нея на работа, разкарваш се из главната, след това посещаваш роднините си, като им носиш котия бонбони ;). Ето, защо не направиш всичко това и с приятеля си, хващаш го за ръката и тръгвате зеадно без да те е срам и да те бъркат какво ще кажат хората. Нима винаги ще се влиаеш от тяхното мнение? Просто иди на гости на роднините си и го представи не ставай натрапчива, просто бъди себе си, пък после каквото искат да си мислят. Това си е твоя живот и ти си го командваш...! Хайде успех!

   Because you are afraid of disapproval.

   I'm ashamed to bear it, what advice do you want me to make him younger?

   Number 1, you don't seem to have read that he is married. Don't fool the girl.

   Number 4, where did you see him married ????? I read the story 5 times and such a thing is not written !!!

   Dear Kiki, if you are ashamed of him, leave him if you have such a difference in age, he can be your father.

   I understand. I am somewhat in your situation, because I also have a relationship with a man older than me (13 years old), we do not live together for a number of reasons. Although I am happy with him, I am ashamed and do not advertise our relationship. You are ashamed because you subconsciously feel that he is not for you. The age difference is drastic. From the simple calculation I made, it turned out that he is as old as my chosen one, but I turned 30 a long time ago, and you are only 22. After a maximum of 10 years, this difference will start to weigh on you. differences appear, you will be in the prime of your youth - and he - an aging man. I know it's not nice to hear it, but it's the truth, and I'm telling you, not to hurt you, but to help you see it. I think you are ashamed of the big difference, which would not be accepted with the approval of others anyway. You know, I think your main problem now is not this shame, but how you see your life with this man in the future. In my opinion, you have a future (happily) together only a few years from now, after which you will look at it with different eyes. If you have a child during this time, the porridge will be full. I hope you don't have such thoughts in your head. However, when this child is 20 years old, his father will be 70. How do you think? Well, it's true - there are no limits to love, and if you're ready and want to share your life with this man to the end, you can do it, but you have to be infinitely convinced of your feelings and free from prejudice (and you, as you can see, you have them). In general, you have to be ready to overcome many things! You should also ask yourself the question why you are happy with this man - he told you that it is not because of money. OK, at least you're not commercial, maybe it's because of good sex, or great harmony between you? Assess your possible future with him and make a decision about your life for years to come. I do not rule out the possibility that the better solution for you may be separation.

   Number 5- read the story a few more times and you will understand! Ashamed of him - find a younger man

   From №1 to №4: Well, I haven't read that He is married because He does NOT write it anywhere. You seem to have been mistaken in the sentence "his family knows about us" (it is about his parents).

   Number 9, How did you come to the conclusion that you are talking about his parents and not his wife and children?

   I don't think you know what you want, that's all. To know him is really married.

   From №1. Why don't we stop arguing about whether the man in question is married or not and ask the author. Here's the question. Would you tell us if the man you are in love with is married ???

   Could this 49-year-old foreigner be a bachelor or is his wife and children waiting for him abroad? Know that such cases are not uncommon for men who have several wives. Such are Armenians, Turks, Pakistanis, Montenegrins. But let's wait for the author's answer, although I don't expect her to write to us, or she herself may not know ...

   Hello I want to read I know his whole family his children and we even lived together. His wife left him for another man. I also did not tell you that we have been married for 1 year, but not in Bulgaria. we have been together for 3 and a half years. We are always inseparable together. He is a white Christian. It's just that my relatives don't know my country. And the people from the street as we are in Bulgaria. I don't know why I'm ashamed! I don't want to be thought of as someone who is with a foreigner for money! As I said he has no money even when I was there there was a period that I supported him and his son. Because his son is too lazy to get a job!

   People are not married! He is married to me! And yes his family are: relatives and his mother. and his children. If I knew he was married I wouldn't be alone with him! And if you ask, how would I know? Sooner or later it would be understood from 2005 we live together in his country.

   Look, I don't understand anything now .... №14 and 15, which of you is married, maybe to both, huh? One endured it with the other, they have been together for 3 years, but who is the author, write below "from the author" to know. After all, how many women does this man have?

   :)) Sorry a lot - the author of 14 and 15 is me Kimi :) I just do not know where to write answers. And I send them straight from here where it is for comment.

   The Bulgarian woman is ashamed only when Ibacha is a black Negro. Better to give my daughter to a Turk than to some bluish-black Negro. If not, refute me. Don't you have parents? How come you are only 18 years old, you start living abroad with an old man and on top of that poor. I know at least a few prostitutes and I know what they do outside. When they came to work, they studied. and they look to get into the boss's bed. The site is anonymous. Write the truth. It reminds me that you're some fat, in love with cuts. And I'm 49 years old. I've dealt with people younger than you, but I've never seen such a miracle for a young girl to want to feed me.

   I'm Kimi again! I was already 19. I fell in love with his character. because I didn't like him outwardly, but then it didn't interest me anymore :) I told my parents that I was visiting England. He came to visit because our people would not let me go somewhere without knowing this man. he kept coming to see me. and finally I decided to leave. he had a big company but his 3 partners got together and fucked him hard, but even after he lost everything I was still with him. This is the truth I know is anonymous and there is no need to lie. I want advice from people, I have no use in inventing! does it make sense? I'm not fat and he's not cut. And if you love someone, will you leave them if there is no money? As you say when you get married "in illness and health, poverty or wealth", etc., yes, I was learning a language and taking an exam at the same time.

   This story has deepened a lot .. !!! My advice is, since you don't mind the fact that he has no money, has children and is so much older than you and you want to be with him so much, just stand by him and be ready to take any criticism, blows, etc. .n. I do not think that instead of developing and educating and enjoying your youth, you should fight for someone and take care of him and his children, given that he may be your father for years, but the choice it's yours and so is life. One day you will understand, we all make mistakes, some are irreparable !! And now to number 18: My husband is black and black and American, and I'm proud of that because he's a great person and personality! It satisfies me sexually, as no white man can! He does everything for me and is interested in how I feel and how I am !!! Unlike all Balkans and Europeans in general (I've been to many places in Europe) who do not have a penny in their pocket and at the same time have big claims, big men, treat women without a gram of respect and not only do you have to pay them the bills, the shots are incompetent and miserable, but they also tell you what to do as if you were their property !! Poor people, in two words !! So No. 18 you are 'played out', in translation, you are simple, I forgot to add, you do not go, you and everyone like you, petrified, locked in the box of consciousness ..... Good health :))) well, they also tell you what to do as if you were their property !! Poor people, in two words !! So No. 18 you are 'played out', in translation, you are simple, I forgot to add, you do not go, you and everyone like you, petrified, locked in the box of consciousness ..... Good health :))) well, they also tell you what to do as if you were their property !! Poor people, in two words !! So No. 18 you are 'played out', in translation, you are simple, I forgot to add, you do not go, you and everyone like you, petrified, locked in the box of consciousness ..... Good health :)))

   From everything so far, I only knew that you love him. I consider this enough to be happy, happily married, etc. The age difference is a great illusion that is maintained only by young people. Even if a person covers himself with wrinkles, he still thinks like a young man, and often the older people around me behave more adequately than those at a younger and more mature age. You only need youth if you are going to study ballet, a musical instrument or a specific sport - only then the years matter. I have made sure of this from personal experience - I love a man who is 8 years younger than me and I like him, as he is. I want him neither poorer, nor richer, nor younger, nor older. To love means to accept the partner as he is. However, between the lines there is the shadow of unresolved conflicts - with parents, money, property status of the son and the father, life abroad. Try to work on solving problems, but do not discuss your love. And keep it.

   I'm Kim again! Thank you all very much for your help. I am very confused. I know that if I leave him I will suffer a lot and at the same time I am sure that I will find someone who will love me and we will create our first child together. But I just can't find the strength. As much as I love him, I know I have no future with him. But I know that day will come. And I have to go through it somehow.

   Of course, you will be ashamed of this age difference, he is already an adult man, and you are so young. No world will always be like that.

   You should not be ashamed. Just be who you are without being interested in the opinions of others. Love yourself, because love is the only thing that is real. And I'm almost in your position about my friend's age, but I'm in love and very happy. you have to trust your friend, love him and have the same direction in your life. do not be ashamed if you are happy and feel loved, because not everyone can boast of true love.

   Once you love each other, people's opinions don't matter, what you think and feel is important