Hello people! Merry Christmas, I wish you all health and happiness, you and your families! So, in essence ... the problem is that I can't write in the chat, I write, for example, "hello, what are you doing", the answer is "nothing to you" or he says there what he is doing, and I accordingly ... iii to there. I don't have this problem live, I'm not the most talkative, but I can still speak calmly and without wondering about the topic of conversation ... while in the chat ... full of grief People are ashamed and can't talk to face to face, I wonder what to write in the chat, where's the logic bro hahaha but still ask for advice!
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There is a method with cards, write different questions and topics on each card, shuffle them and when you start writing with someone you draw a card and start a conversation on this topic. Observe people and listen to their conversations, so you will think of more topics for the cards, after a while you will sift through the effective cards and you will remember them and you will not use them anymore.
Merry Christmas to you, too. I used to write a lot on similar sites In a similar I met the girl we will marry. From which I will have a child. Imagine that you are meeting a person you want to get to know very well. What would you say? What do you care? What you do is weak, after a while it will not do. What is your name, you learn the name. I'm ... I enjoy it. You study or work, that's how you understand what he does. What class are you, you know about her age, you can't ask directly, it's not good. Tell me about your profession, what you do. I deal with .... You are interested in the person against you. And you give information about yourself. Usually many things are a mystery. And you want to understand them. I think we've come a little further than you do.
Ask other questions and talk to people more :)
The advice is to live your life! And chat is virtual life, real life is more important.
Congratulations! In the intense 21st century, you have managed to maintain the ability to communicate verbally, face to face with other homo sapiens. I just don't know why you're complaining? Now it is fashionable to do the opposite - in the chat super fun, smart, creative and so on, and when you see it live it turns out that one sentence can not tie. Don't do nonsense and go out a bit :)
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