I will probably sound like a psycho, but I don't like the day. I hate the sun, I hate the hot summer when it gets dark at 9 or so. I don't feel good in daylight, as if I'm on display with all my flaws. Unfortunately, our regime requires us to be active during the day ... I always open the blinds and curtains at home. I usually wait until it gets dark, even just to go to the store or go out with friends. And when I have to be outside during the day, I often hide in sunglasses and try to stand in the shade or enter a closed room. Then my self-esteem is quite low and I am irritable and non-communicative. I also love underground restaurants because there are no windows to shine right in my face. At dusk or when it is gloomy, cloudy and rainy, it seems that my energy suddenly comes and my mood improves significantly. I love the months when it gets dark at 4-5 in the afternoon! In the summer, when I am free from commitments, I use the night and go to bed at sunrise. But this mode is abnormal, and I don't see options to love daylight. Can I solve this problem ... somehow?
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To some extent, I'm with your problem, but I don't hate the day. I'm also much more active when it's raining. The only way to love the day is to change your attitude towards it. Are you afraid of the day? It is best to seek help from a psychologist. * D *
God .. I think I just fell in love: D !! I'm a boy of 15 .. almost 16. And I'm the same. During the day I am one and at night another. I love summer, but not the light. Like you, I lower my blinds and stand in the dark. I don't even light the pear (it doesn't matter when or what time it is). I go to bed during the day so I can wake up at dusk so I can enjoy the nightlife. I don't think this can be solved (at least for me .. I don't know if it's the case with you) .. We just like a different standard of living. We are different ... and that's exactly what I like most about myself. We are hidden in the darkness and only observe others. Most people like us (of this variety "Night Birds": D) are more lonely. And for this very reason we have achieved a great deal of self-knowledge. As some people said .. "loneliness is a gift that leads us to self-knowledge" :)).
I have been like this since I was a child, I will follow the topic :)
Hi, I had a similar problem when I was younger. You're just a representative of people - owls who feel better at night. I don't think it's abnormal. For years I worked night shifts and slept all day. It was great. But there comes a time when you feel like you're losing touch with the normal world, you associate because most people just work and live during the day. I can say that I changed my regime only after 35. I found a day shift and now I feel much better, although I still do not like the sun to shine and I am happy when it is cloudy. My advice is not to worry about that. Everyone is different, there is nothing disturbing in the fact that most people are not like you.
Oh, this topic made me laugh: D. I will not criticize you, I will just tell you to take care of yourself. There is no way to avoid the day, and constantly wear sunglasses, stand in the shade and the like 0_o. What are you hiding so much from the sunlight?
God, it's as if I wrote this story ... you think just like me down to every detail. I'm very worried that I'm not pretty, I just wear a mirror and look around, I don't look at people while we're talking, I avoid their looks and I even avoid talking. I go to the solarium, to the beautician and to all kinds of procedures and I strongly hope that one day I will like myself and go out without worrying ...
Go to a psychiatrist - you will be satisfied! :)
You and I are "owl" people. The rest are "larks". We are just like that and this is not a problem. :) Ж27
This is an inferiority complex - you don't like yourself, you don't accept yourself. It is overcome by consciously changing your thinking and attitude.
This is how every zombie starts his career!
Number 11 moles !! : D
Aren't you vampires?
This topic made me a better and more informed person. Now I'm going to apologize to a friend because I thought he was the only one who prefers to wake up at night whether he goes out or stays with them. He even uses a line very similar to what he said about how flaws are on display during the day. :)
There are people-owls, there are people with complexes! It's nice to differentiate! The darker people are like that because of their understanding of the world, themselves and their peculiarity of loving darkness, often loneliness, melancholy. There is a whole culture of such people! They are more gothic type! While people with too many complexes (including number 7!) Just want to hide from themselves, hiding from the sun and need not a darkness, but a psychologist or growth!
I didn't know about owls ... Now I understand why I find it so hard to sleep at night. But still, if there is no way to change, I do not want this to be my normal state all my life. How will I work in time? The author
At first I thought that the author had symptoms of vampirism, but after talking about the shortcomings, I rejected this option. :) I'm just the opposite. I love the light because everything is seen better, especially the flaws. What is the point of hiding our shortcomings and after a while seeing them, to be disappointed and to fuck things up? It is clear that everyone has shortcomings, there is no need to complicate things by running away and hiding in the shadows, we better give a chance to be accepted despite the shortcomings. We better work on removing them as much as possible. I'm going to bask in the sun for a while - have fun. :)
I don't know if it will sound banal anymore, but I'm the same. I'm glad it's not just me, I feel like an oligophrenic when someone says "You're crazy, how can you not like this nice day ?!", because of that I have to go out brighter with friends. At school in the morning, when it is not so bright, there is someone to turn on the light, which drives me crazy and I feel uncomfortable. I can't do anything right during the day when it's light, I can't even fall asleep because then I feel like I'm crushed by a train. I always study in the evening, after 9 pm, just then my muse comes. This is also true of the shortcomings, I have the feeling that no one can hang me and that makes me feel good. Now in these heats that are coming I do not think how I will survive. I do not know a solution to the problem, I try to ignore it, but it is very difficult for me.
Sweden, the Netherlands, Iceland, Great Britain - pack your bags and run to your paradise!
And I'm just like that, I hate when the sun is hot and the day is getting longer. It depresses me somehow. I do not have this problem in autumn and winter, even for most of the spring. I'm talking about summer. Even when I'm at sea I stand and drink beer on the blinds while my company is on the beaches: D It's just that my energy disappears and I get rotten ...
Ole ... the same as you. I don't particularly like the sunny day, which is wonderful for everyone else. I like it to be cloudy and gloomy. Then I feel full and able to work. And whenever it's gloomy and I'm just adjusting, someone comes and turns on the lights and it drives me crazy. Or they find me a job and I can't walk ...
Do not seek darkness, because you will always remain in darkness. Seek God to understand why you need light. You are very deluded.
What is it for you to change? The only problem is that you will have to work one day and this will determine your regret, but just make sure you don't realize that you can't go out at all ... In time, this feeling of worry about the shortcomings will usually disappear. happens with the time after 19 years ... Somehow a person gradually begins to accept himself and does not care much how others accept him. As a teenager, I always sat at home in the dark, the light in my room did not come ... Over time, however, things change and you have to comply with her roommates (when you go to study), her boyfriend as you live together ... Already I am 25 years old. and I still prefer to be in darker rooms, I also don't like summer precisely because of the very strong and prolonged sunlight - I get very tired, I'm lazy, nothing is done to me and somehow I am uncomfortable ... And when it happens around 21. 00-22. 00 I feel as refreshed as I should be in the morning ... Always darker weather makes me more active, more active and overall I feel better in every way ... Other people feel the exact opposite and for them all winter is a drama, they get depressed, etc. That is, almost everyone is influenced by the weather - some of the gloomy winter, others of the summer .. It's okay and I don't think you should think so much and wondering how to change - there's no need just - life itself will make you adjust over time, but I'm sure you'll just be in the group of those who are better off in darker times. .. And those who call you to look for a psychologist or psychiatrist - ignore them completely ... this is nonsense - it's like telling almost everyone around me to go to a psychiatrist, because in the winter they always grumble and complain and are always depressed because of the gloomy weather ... we are the opposite of them - and what? should we all go to psychiatrists? !? !!
go to a psychiatrist - you have a BIG need !!!
22 - People like you make me burst out laughing, but that's how it comes from inside me.
Regarding the topic - I think this is not a problem to some extent. It's good that you don't imagine things like I'm a vampire and others. It is not important what you should be or what others want you to be, but how you feel. If you like my darkness be like that, I personally am against these things, if you say someone is forcing you, but in this case it's a little different I don't know. If you don't want to be like that anymore, then maybe I know you should go to a psychiatrist or a psychologist. Tell your parents about it will embarrass me a little. Maybe I don't know it's just something inside. number 22
I have bad news for you. Your entire hormonal system is failing - because first you have damaged your night's sleep, second you can't see the light - and these are the two most important factors for hormone synthesis. 100% due to lack of solar vitamin "D" your teeth are chipped from caries, and you can not go to the dentist because there are no dentists night shift;) Listen, you really pretend to be interesting, but I'm telling you the truth. As every plant and animal perishes without light, so do you. Don't be a freak, become normal.