Hello, I am writing this topic with great difficulty, I did not know that I would get here, I'm just crying. At 19 I am, and my friend is 24 years old. and we haven't had sex for sure in 3 weeks. In the beginning everything was correct, then once a week and finally once a month. We have been together for 4 years. There has always been passion between us, we love each other as in the beginning, everything is as before without sex. I feel unwanted, even ugly. Naturally, I started to think he was cheating on me, but I'm sure he wasn't. When we go to bed he says he is tired and falls asleep. I don't know what's going on, he doesn't say anything about it. People, I'm sick. I'm beautiful, I'm always by his side, he does everything for me and I don't see what the problem is. I have no words just how far we have come ...
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Don't imagine! The man tells you he's tired. and that's it. Sex doesn't always mean love, and love isn't always sex. That he respects you and supports you and is always by your side fully proves his affection.
You're obviously tired of him .. Don't be sure he's not cheating on you .. Anything is possible. Talk to him, ask him what's going on, what his opinion is on the subject. Don't be silent, as if nothing important has happened. The problem is serious and can cost your relationship if you do not resolve it in time. I wish you good luck!
You are very young to make such balances. What is happening, you did not mention whether this person works. He may be really tired. Why do you suffer. Talk about it. I'm sure you'll clarify. I don't think you have a problem that threatens your relationship. Success!
Thank you very much for your comments. Maybe I'm too paranoid.