Hello, I had a relationship with a man for half a year, but we have known each other for 2 years. and he liked me all the time. We were very close and shared almost everything. Suddenly he started moving with people who play mosquitoes and who knows what else they did and his attitude started to change, he pushed away a lot of his old friends, he started to play too and he was very stable with me and was rude and constantly we drove as well as with our parents. Anyway, I did my best to help him get out, trying to support him. The result was that we had a lot of fights, he even insulted me a few times, and there were some really disgusting actions towards me, even though I was with him in quite difficult moments. At the moment, his relationship with these people has broken down and he has allegedly stopped gambling, I helped him fix his relationship with theirs, and everything seemed to be getting better for him at last. The thing that ended our relationship was that he had been invited to a party, which he said he would not go because people were like that or like that. But on this day he suddenly tells me that he will go because many insisted, and only for 10-15 minutes after work (there was also the gathering in question) and goes home. After work he calls me and tells me that he went home to go to the toilet and that he did not go through the party in question and finally he calls me again to tell me that he is going there. When I asked him if there was a special reason for him to go back there. He answered "No", they just called him again and he owed them respect. What doesn't respect me for ?? Explain to me how he would only sit for 10-15 minutes for a maximum of half an hour and I "aha, good", "well, good", he told me that I had annoyed him and that he would call me when you left. He called me after 3 o'clock. During this time I called him once - he did not pick me up. When he called me, he shouted "well, let me tell you I'm home" and I said, "Well done to you, was your half-hour stay at the party nice?" "And he" what are you hinting at me ", I" I'm not hinting at anything, I'm just asking you ", he" What ", I" Fuck someone "- I know it's rude and it doesn't suit me, but I was terribly angry and full of doubts - he shouted "fuck me" and hung up. I stayed like a blast !! Did I deserve this after everything I did for him ???? I called him again and told him that he might not have shouted my answer and he "for what" and I "the answer to my question" and he "okay, say something else", I "was it good", he something else ”and I“ yes, I hope it was worth it ”and closed. We haven't heard from each other since then, neither he nor I called him. I do not understand why he does not call, at least to try to fix the relationship? Doesn't it mean anything to him, he doesn't care if I'm a part of his life or not? He used to tell me how much he cared for me, how much he loved me, how much I helped and supported and listened to him. Now that doesn't mean anything, it was all just a lie. He doesn't miss me and won't even call me? I don't understand, I feel terribly offended and betrayed by his behavior and attitude. Now that doesn't mean anything, it was all just a lie. He doesn't miss me and won't even call me? I don't understand, I feel terribly offended and betrayed by his behavior and attitude. Now that doesn't mean anything, it was all just a lie. He doesn't miss me and won't even call me? I don't understand, I feel terribly offended and betrayed by his behavior and attitude.
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I think he answered you on purpose because he was angry. he knew he would burn you when he told you he had slept with someone. then he understood from your reaction that he had succeeded and continued, saying that it was good. it is possible that he feels limited or that he is taught that you are limiting him. my advice is to save yourself such questions in the future. I tell you from experience - they only make things worse.
don't bother with him at all, even if he calls you, don't pick him up, he is .. he was with another, you will roar about him, her head is up
I'll be a little extreme, but: no, you mean nothing to him; no, he doesn't care about you; and he certainly doesn't miss you. The fact that someone does not respect you is not unforgivable. It is unforgivable for you to consciously choose to be with someone who has no respect for you at all. But from such things one learns in life. I am sure that in the future you will know what kind of man you do NOT need. And one day you will be grateful to him for acting like a real asshole and getting you out of his presence. One should always want the best for oneself in life (and here I do not mean material things at all), because he deserves the best!
You entered his personal space too rudely. Once you give him a problem about where he can go and where he can't, it's clear that he will dump you.
You were too good with him and on the night in question you could have made him stay with you instead of going to that party, there was no way you knew he was going to be late, but ... honestly I would like to have a person like you next to him, his action was not appropriate, as well as his words on the phone, and the fact that you asked him this question .. It is more than clear that you care more about him than he cares about you, and you care about him you know that, go on, he didn't appreciate the man next to him, sorry for him
From Author Number 4 I don't give him a problem where he can and where he can't go !! If he wants to go, let him go, but tell him, not explain to me that he would not go because people were corks and what not. And on the very day he will go because he owes them respect after work, but then he decides to go home to them specially and then go. What to think except that there is a special reason to change his mind. I didn't even have a single flower for my birthday. And as for personal space, I think that they would shuffle your bag and check your phone, as he did, breaking into it. Number 3 is not final because if he felt something towards me he would look for me or show it to me. I thought that after the things we experienced, I would receive at least elementary respect, I thought I was valuable to him even if only as a friend, but I obviously thought wrongly. I hope you're right and that in time it will stop being so insulting and sick. Thanks for your words. Number 2 weaves and I've decided, but I'm annoyed that he doesn't try. Thank you. Number 1 to know that he may have told me on purpose, but this is no reason not to call after that and clarify. It's been almost 2 weeks since then and he's not trying to mend his relationship with me, he's leaving me to believe what he said and I'm sick. The truth is that I am more angry at the moment than suffering for him and his presence (in this case, absence). Thank you for the advice and I'm really trying to kill all the questions I have in my head but it's very difficult. Number 1 to know that he may have told me on purpose, but this is no reason not to call after that and clarify. It's been almost 2 weeks since then and he's not trying to mend his relationship with me, he's leaving me to believe what he said and I'm sick. The truth is that I am angry at the moment rather than suffering for him and his presence (in this case, absence). Thank you for the advice and I'm really trying to kill all the questions I have in my head but it's very difficult. Number 1 to know that he may have told me on purpose, but this is no reason not to call after that and clarify. It's been almost 2 weeks since then and he's not trying to mend his relationship with me, he's leaving me to believe what he said and I'm sick. The truth is that I am angry at the moment rather than suffering for him and his presence (in this case, absence). Thank you for the advice and I'm really trying to kill all the questions I have in my head but it's very difficult.