Hello! I am a 23 year old girl and I have never had a serious relationship before. I can't understand how you can "get married" at a young age, and you can't look away, how you can be with the same person for months, years, even decades and he arouses you, given that you've seen him and sick, and in all sorts of conditions, and you have entered into some routine and routine. I can't imagine the same person attracting me for so long in all these circumstances, even the most wonderful one, but it is clear to me that there are no perfect people. I see how everyone "bonds" and it is perceived as immoral and wrong to look away because it is "infidelity". What if the person you're with isn't "your man"? In the future, I don't see myself as a married housewife and mother, but rather as the female version of "old bachelor" (" to experiment with myself and my sexuality, to have interesting things happen to me, and not to have to account to anyone who will want to control and criticize me. I know I'm crazy and maybe the problem is in me, but I don't want to change, and I can't want to. I even feel free that for fear of loneliness, scruples and prejudices I will not be enslaved by a pumpkin and live a life that I really do not want. to experiment with myself and my sexuality, to have interesting things happen to me, and not to have to account to anyone who will want to control and criticize me. I know I'm crazy and maybe the problem is in me, but I don't want to change, and I can't want to. I even feel free that for fear of loneliness, scruples and prejudices I will not be enslaved by a pumpkin and live a life that I really do not want.
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What do you have to understand, people are different. And if you don't want to, don't get married. It's better than tying a bastard and then cheating on him. And as for "experimenting with yourself," you will experiment while you are young and active. Then there are her intentions to "experiment", not her. Then what are we doing? Are we tying some bastard?
You are not "crazy", the description is different for you, but I will not qualify. I just don't understand what these pointless topics are about, if you want to get married, what we care about. There are people with problems who want to solve. You also have a problem, but you obviously don't want to solve it.
Empty talk, you have not yet decided to enter real life. It will be interesting to see you after 10 years. I know people like heaven when they were young, "hat on a stick," with thoughts like yours. They became about 33 -35 neither a child nor a kitten. Oh my God, the last train. They got married, gave birth to children and their husbands watched and gave reports, and what not. They just decided to get into life.
Honey, it's like reading for yourself! There must be women like us. I am sure that now many of those with the Balkan mentality will jump, but I don't care and Ned should care about you! Live your life and be independent!
Well okay. I'm OK with that.
And so the whores were born ...
If you're so crazy and free, you shouldn't care what the Puritans say, should you? Live your life as you please, I doubt anyone cares much, except yours ... possibly.
Do what you want. No one can judge you for such things. You choose your own life. Today you are in such a mind, tomorrow in another. Have fun because life is short and other people's opinions don't matter. Everyone has the right to live as he wishes, as long as he does not harm others.
If that's how you understand life, live it that way! If drinking and sex in all its forms are your interests - ok, does anyone bother you? I'm not going to tell you what it means to love, it's pointless, you won't understand it, nor is it my job to ask you for reports, as you write. So, go ahead, drink and drink as much as you can! The future does not think at all - and cats and loneliness God gave!
And what are you writing about here? Live your life, no one asks you if you approve of monogamous relationships.
Aha ..... We are sheep and you are enlightened. History to justify a whore's life. You will imagine that you are one of the heroines of Sex and the City and you will wander the roads in cheap heels and cut-out dresses, thinking that you are irresistible. You will have no worries or responsibilities to anyone and no one will need you. I wish it to you. Just one question. Who is napping?
The problem is that you put "to excite me", "to attract me" on the agenda. This is only a part of life and is especially relevant when we are young and free. But the truth is that this will not last forever. Now you have a great choice, but over time this will no longer be the case, and at the same time you will get used to the "rhythm" and the model. This will crush and depress you, you will appreciate the really important thing in a relationship - to care about someone really for you (it takes a lot of togetherness, time), you will enjoy a glass of water when you are sick, a simple gesture. You won't understand me now, because you're like most estranged women who think only of that job.
I don't see a problem in the lifestyle you want to lead. You just don't have to care about people's opinions, and you don't seem to care. :) The only thing that matters is that the people you have a relationship with are aware of this so that no one is hurt. Although there is no guarantee for this. Maybe one day you will fall for someone. :)
How many words did he write about the definition of "parysanitsa".
I like women like you. Free, naughty, thirsty for short-term adventures. I also prefer to have fun non-committal with 23/25 year old adventurers. However, if I decided to have a family, I would never have children like you. Family is a serious thing. It is built with a lot of love and desire for years and is not created with one-dayers of your kind.
My different people - different interests. You can live your whole life anyway. There is nothing wrong with this. The problem is if you change your mindset at 30, your biological clock starts knocking on your psychological door, and you will neither know how to build relationships, nor how to love, nor how to create a healthy relationship. If you live your whole life with the attitude and views you have at 23, there is absolutely no problem. But you are 23 years old and you have no real idea. Brother.
Number 15, what is this double standard, a kind of women are whores when they have fun, and men are very busy. That is why I despair of the Bulgarians and their point of view on life? Plus, we women weren't created to "watch" the man and give him reports. He will control me and get a middle finger in my nose. I am not the author, I am monogamous, but I am a feminist and I completely deny this Balkan stereotype of relationship / marriage.
15, and how are you sure that a decent woman will want a family and a child from A LIKE YOU?
Definitely at 23 there is nothing more normal and natural to be attracted to entertainment of any kind and to enjoy your freedom. If you do not have this thinking at that age, then they become a completely wasted time. Today's youth is so immature that there is nowhere else to go, and marriages between partners aged 20-32 do not get anywhere, and children born from such relationships usually live with one parent. So, you are the person who will decide if and when to commit. And bonding does not mean monogamy. But it is much stronger. instead of changing partners and not knowing their number, to be with one, and from time to time to get a dose of adrenaline. The feeling is different and much sweeter. I am a woman
Oh, and I laugh a lot at people like №15. How the author sweeps it, he just ruined it, because, you see, HE wrinkles his nose from such women, he would not give his priceless semen to such a woman. But surely all the ladies - both light and serious, are dying for him, so he stands on the high podium and curls their nonsense. №7
From the author: So anyone who is not a clone and has a slightly different view from the matrix and does not want to live dumb and be crushed by some Balkan bastard and enslaved with children, has a problem? : D Why am I not surprised ... It turns out that most people get together almost, not out of love, but because their biological clock is ticking and dying of loneliness, which also does not surprise me.
You explain to 20-year-olds that the famous watch would come to mind when they turn 30. And to 30-year-olds, when they turn 40. You are very funny.
Number 17, wherever you go men are not stupid. Just as the Turks come to Bulgaria to be with "independent" Bulgarian women and return to marry a serious, conservative girl, so the German / Bulgarian / English choose the same good / conservative girl for a family, and the independents become dependent on the truth that is theirs. hit. I will not even comment on this about feminism, obviously the Sorosoid media have a huge influence on you. Feminism is supported mainly by you as playmates and the like. They are its leading figures. That is, a woman who acts as meat and is rated 1-10 will fight for rights. Distorted understanding of independence and pride, distorted as your understanding. No woman graduated well thinking like the author. She was a feminist, a dreamer is the right description for you. Obviously you have no real idea what is behind such ideologies. The official description is never real, but these are too complex and profound things for a person with means of expression like yours.
Number 21, how do you like to change the status quo. Not to mention that the promoted understandings are exactly the ones he described. You are not against the matrix, you are its prominent product. To be enslaved by children, children are slavery ... are you serious? So anyone who doesn't want the government to be an example is Ganyo, why am I not surprised. And children are a natural continuation of love between two people. Or is love just sex? Smart people build, CREATE. Those in the matrix boast that they will not create anything. A product of your modern matrix when you think of yourself as a revolutionary struggling with morals and values. Proof of the groundlessness of the nonsense he wrote are the continuous qualifications without a real argument. "Children enslave," "I'm not for monogamy." You want to turn the topic into an argument yourself, people told you, that they are not interested in your lifestyle. But those who expressed a different opinion were immediately labeled. K ** you existed 1000 years ago, you will not be the first. At least they knew what they were, and you avoid the obvious with poorly structured nonsense. Such a low level of conversation can only appeal to other typical "fighters" for the freedom to choose to be rubbish, which, incidentally, no one wants to take away from you.
21, you with your misunderstanding and words of the type "matrix" to your monogamous the same. What does it matter if you want to be monogamous or polygamous? Just be like that. What is there to wonder about people and give them epithets that someone likes something that you don't? If you grew up in an unhealthy family and did not see love, it does not mean that there are people who grew up in a normal environment and want to have such a family as adults.
Author, you are 23 years old, you have no life experience, so it is difficult for you to understand things that are for life. Live your life and don't get into serious relationships if you can't with one person. There is nothing wrong with living this way, just avoid serious relationships, because you will hurt your partner a lot if he is not with your attitude.
24, what's wrong with me, I've only been with two and the second one is still my boyfriend ?! And yes, I support equality between men and women, because a woman is not obedient to a stinker, to cook, clean, wash and serve as if she is disabled, provided she is NOT! And let me tell you, I don't want any male blood that slept with any and to supply me with a venereal disease. Because men consider themselves big players by sleeping with many women? This proves that you are cheap too, and I don't want a man who has slept with every skirt. And you will have claims on the woman next to you. Go to an Arab country with a mindset like yours. I didn't study, I worked a lot and achieved something to tell me what kind of pickle to return at what time. When I tell my boyfriend that I'm going out with girlfriends, that's it. What we go, do, how far I get home is my job. And the opposite is true. I was not born to carry someone's shackles. And yes, I am monogamous, who wants to cheat very easily, but it is a fact that I do not want. You explained to me why a woman is a rag if she is more wild and a man is not?
And there must be people like you, author. But they must be a minority, otherwise humanity will perish from hedonism :) Everything is allowed, as long as you do not violate (significantly) the laws, and there is no law that obliges you to marry and not to cheat. Of course, it is very likely that in time you will think, as happens with many people. Already as a man of 33 I think about family and children, but when I was 22-23 such thoughts certainly did not cross my mind.
It's weird how you call yourself different (you're not a clone, as you put it), and nowadays the opposite type of girls / women is rarer. To shovel people like you ... Live your life as YOU see fit. The more years you are given, the more. The important thing is not to regret in the end.
With this "Balkan ganyo" the insult "complex" which was modern 4-5 years ago changed. Naturally, then, as now, this was used by various hens, without a gram of coating. It's funny when he sees a "feminist" and starts roaring - you want equality, BUT EQUALITY ?! Ok, go with your party to pour concrete and pave a little, not to fix your manicure in a mall. Then you can jump. Your ideology is so lame that if you dig a little deeper you will understand where, why and what it came from. But a brain is a must, and that's a luxury these days. As for k **** kata, as everyone correctly defined it - no one cares how you will live your life, but a gram. I, like most CONSCIOUS men, want only one thing - you and all of your kind to mark your forehead in some way, let's not get close to you that hepatitis, syphilis, full extras. No thanks! And I hope you don't lie to someone and lie to him "but I've only been with two" and let the whole city know you as Mara the Common! And if you think you're some kind of super cool and exciting 24/7 - no, you're going to shit too! At least these topics generate some traffic for you, I have no other explanation for posting a topic on an ignorant embryo!
28, are you last monogamous or polygamous?
I am 17 and 28 and I am NOT the author. And to you, sir, can I tell you that I make my money through the intellect and I don't see why I should pour concrete and asphalt? If you had studied, you would not have been a common man! Then where I will spend them is my job, because a man doesn't make them for me. Hide her somewhere! You are also Ganyo and a complex! The author is polygamous and I support her, and I am monogamous! Read a little!
What nonsense! If he wants to live like that, why not! And at 45 they want us young and old again :) For such experiences that the author wants. So this is not a problem. The problem will come in a few years, when all her friends are with families and on another wave. When there is no one to share. But now she thinks so, and falling in love happens unexpectedly and changes you ...
Number 28, due to the huge physiological differences between man and woman, for a man there is no such influence even if he had more, and for a woman it is always visible when she has had more. Supported equality. We have always been equal, but we are not the same in every aspect, which leads to inevitable advantages in certain things for the man, and in other advantages for the woman. Elementary, but not elementary. The best thing you can do is stop writing nonsense. K ** venstvo is a way of thinking, and in this case I was referring to the other k ** ve voivode, but you obviously recognized yourself despite only the two you were with.
I don't understand what your problem is, people, that the "girl" wants to go to bed with whom she returns and for the men to use her as a free sex toy that makes them happy in any way and without any pretensions to them? Even better, never have a husband lie to him and cheat on him and not produce his own kind. There is nothing wrong with pulling it. Disposable woman - e-esh and throw, as in a joke. Just be careful not to spread diseases.
to 33 Number 24 accuses 21 (the author) of being a whore. You answer him "what a whore is MI", but you are not the author. Are you the last author or not?
That's your value system. Such is obviously your family and upbringing.
People are polygamous and this has been proven by time with various events. Fact!
I'm back to you. Monogamous, decent, serious. Mother I'm not sure if I want to be, maybe yes, but a maid certainly not. F, 22
33, you have a mind but another time. Intelligence like a chicken does not count, otherwise you would see what he means 31. Oh drive, but at least try to make sense of 35, your man has ground it exactly for your level. And why always when you are told the truth you start with insults and with !!! . Should this respect what the idea is? !! There is a comic "Just a Savior" on Facebook. The author has also created an image of a feminist in it, very accurate. Take a look to see what you look like. And I see that 37 has revealed you well - but I wonder why the divisions of your personality are allowed here ....
Do not argue, people are different, for some it is normal to be polygamous, for others it is normal to be with one partner. I am watching my 6-year-old son, he and a girl have been friends since they were 2-3 years old and he is the only one looking for her during these years. Their mothers are friends and they used to walk them together with the prams. They say they want to get married when they grow up. He doesn't look for other girls, sometimes he even refuses to play with them. Nobody told him anything, and even at this age, talk on this very topic would hardly have much effect. It's just like that from now on. There are people who can't even fall in love again after their big and only love, for others like the author it is normal to change partners often or not to be with only one. If the author approaches her partners openly, there is nothing wrong. However, if someone lies about how much he loves him and how it is only with him, while at the same time shaking with others it is completely different. This is whore behavior, and hardly anyone would enjoy being lied to. I'm sure that even the author will not be happy if she finds out that she was lied to in this way by a man.
I fell madly in love with a young doctor, I can't sleep. My whole consciousness is occupied by her. Charming, polite, nice. But she is married. What you explain, you will never understand.
I'm number 33 and I'm NOT the author. I thought that the attack was directed at me with this "tell someone that you were only with two". And if I was more, what? I defend the author. And you, the men who differentiate between women and you just because some have a penis and others have a vagina, are very pathetic! Let me tell you that male blood is not wanted either. And the fact that a woman has changed many men does not mean that she was a toy for them. Maybe she played with them, looking at what kind of balaclavas you are. And all normal developed countries recognize equality, let the Arabs, Africans and the dumb Balkans deny it. Tell the Hollywood actresses that they are rags, but as far as I know they change young boys and even pay them.
You are now 23 and you do not understand these connections. However, when people understand and love each other, they get married or even without marriage, they have children and start a family. When you turn 50 and up and you are an old bag, all your girlfriends and friends are already married and have children, so maybe even grandchildren haha what then? They will gather as a family and you will be dragged here and there with this one? In the end you will be left alone !! Don't live day by day! Life is designed to create a generation, to leave something behind. The other bad thing is if you just catch someone to have a child with ... then comes the bad time for your child. You will introduce him to different men, you will confuse him because mom is not monogamous and does not understand these things. Nobody said that now at that age you have to get serious and have children. Think about the future. Keep this down you didn't find her on the street.
And so 46, let's get to the word. As soon as I saw your nonsense, it became clear to me that Hollywood was involved. The rags you are talking about are also rags. And the country in which your teachers, the American actresses, operate, supports exactly Saudi Arabia and others. animals. By the way, usually those like the author make their money there. How limited you are to laugh or cry. Physiology is not your strong point, and to explain it to you is unnecessary.