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I Don't Want Him To Come To Me At 18

By melanielopezx October 18, 2020 24 answers Last updated October 18, 2020

Hi, I'm 13 (after 3 months I'm 14) and I don't have a cycle. My fears are that I will stay like this until I am 18 because my grandmother came to 18 I DON'T WANT IT TO COME AT 18 !!!! Am I crazy people It's just that everyone at school has a cycle, I feel like I'm the only virgin in college. I'm already depressed because I don't have a bust but NO and I'm tired of the boys ignoring me and I'm a cherry and I'm afraid that when I enter high school I will be the girl without friends and whose name no one knows and which the boys don't notice .... Not that they notice me now. Yes, I'm probably exaggerating, but I've already totally nerdy, I'm even bothering people on the Internet with my problems. I'm already like my grandmother now and I have to start singing opera and put on purple lipstick and I will be like her.

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clarafern420xxxx answered · October 18, 2020

   Do you understand the difference between a cycle and virginity? And calmly, when your body is ready it will come to you. To my grandmother? came in 10th grade, and believe me it developed quite normally. No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the suprise. The cycle is not a pleasant thing .. It comes to you every month, it hurts, etc. So be glad that you don't have it yet .. Otherwise, if you know what torments are .. Personally, it came to me at 9:30. I'm 14 now and I wish I had come later. Look at things positively. When you grow up you will not have any huge breasts to drag on the asphalt: DD and you will have normal tight breasts. Don't worry it will come to you :)

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khrystinausa answered · October 18, 2020

   Calm down girl, you're not even 15 and you're already crazy, there's time. Focus your mind on textbooks, not such nonsense. Death_Blade ^

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cdslut_101 answered · October 18, 2020

   Hi, Don't bother. I've been bullied like that before. It came to me at 15. It is normal. If after 15-16 it does not come, it may be due to problems, but it is not bothered unnecessarily. For some, it comes later and develops physically later. Like you, I was flat, not that I don't have small breasts now, but they are normal for my physique. Remember that if someone loves you, they will like you with small breasts. And rejoice that you still do not have all the unpleasant sensations that appear during a cycle. There is time not to be harassed.

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tscrushpleasebustnuts answered · October 18, 2020

   Oh, leave them to the grandmothers ... most of them just sprinkle nonsense ... that's hardly true in the first place. Do you know the whole intimate life of your teacher? The first time it came to me I was in 6th grade ... I wanted to kill myself and I was terribly depressed ... I didn't have a stomach ache, etc., but it was like I was in Hell. No one in the class knew, in fact, they think of me as the "backward" who will certainly not have a cycle, a boyfriend, or anything soon. I didn't want to brag about it, but I hate them when they become such =. = Don't panic so much ..

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joshdaniel7 answered · October 18, 2020

   First, calm down and don't bother your brain with nonsense like "I HAVE NO TITS AND MENSTRUATION - NO ONE WILL KNOW MY NAME IN HIGH SCHOOL." Maybe you're genetically predisposed to come a little later. If you still do not menstruate until you are around 16 years old, seek medical attention. Talk to your mother and go to the gynecologist. xperia

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haru_sasaki answered · October 18, 2020

   I know how nasty it is that it's from me, because I'm fine, I have a cycle, I'm busty and I'm tall, but still the boys don't notice me, so don't worry, with and without a bust and a cycle, it's one thing, but just to tell you that the cycle is not a good thing, it's awful, especially if it's like mine, you change bandages every 30 minutes - from the big ones, and so it's 7 days and it comes to you every 20 days - it's awful, he wants me be without a cycle! Do not worry!

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gracefields22 answered · October 18, 2020

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loflyby answered · October 18, 2020

   Wait ... What does the cycle have to do with being a VIRGIN ??? And I'm 13 and on May 1 I'll do 14, but I have a cycle of 12 years .... But you have nothing to worry about ... it will always come to you, the bust will also grow ... DON'T WORRY GIRL !! !! ;))

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sanakhan00 answered · October 18, 2020

   you nerd: D: D

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Big answered · October 18, 2020

   Abe won't come to you at 18, don't worry. There is time until 14.

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bogatyzadbany answered · October 18, 2020

   Don't panic .. I'm your age .. You won't be 18, you just develop more slowly. After the age of 16, it becomes strange not to have a cycle, so breathe. My grandmother came to 17 and what, my mother came to 5th grade, and my summer came 5th to 6th. Everyone is different, everyone develops differently, etc. And I'm short .. I've been complex before ... but do you know what's nice down here; e .. I love all 153 cm and I'm happy for them, I have breasts and ass and you will have ..! Yes, I have your problems ..!

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bayschuck answered · October 18, 2020

   That's enough, girl! Women want to have no menstruation, and you roar that you want to have. I came at the age of 11. and this is a living punishment. How many times have I anointed myself, how much have I been in pain and how many times have I watched my girlfriends go to the pool in the summer and I sit and shrink in pain. Everyone is different. But it is completely normal for it to come to you after 14, 15 and even more years. And as for the bust, don't be so impressed. All girls develop strictly individually. Here I give you an example of a classmate of my niece - she is in the fourth grade, and she is already wearing a bra, I don't know which number, but she has a bust. (in my opinion uncharacteristic of such a small girl, but what to do with them :) radiation)). My breasts grew only after 11th grade more. Before that, your situation was a living tragedy ... And as long as you were talking nonsense.

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CinthiaCrush answered · October 18, 2020

   I almost got 15, and what - I'm currently wearing a double D bra, so - calm down, all in good time :). in addition, the moment of anointing and pain better to slow down, enjoy life, dancing, white pants, etc. "bonuses". and your grandmother is a dude;), you will appreciate it later

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melikecengelcom answered · October 18, 2020

   Everyone develops differently, don't panic! The cycle is a terrible thing (as in comment number 6), and I change my dressings every 30 minutes, but it comes to me every 30 days. Rejoice that it did not come to you! You will save on bandages. Noood

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janiefffitz answered · October 19, 2020

   Well, I came to 19. The female part of my family was crazy that I was sick, etc. But he came to me at 19 ... Even at 19 and a half. Without medication, without anything - nature knows its job!

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pennva answered · October 19, 2020

   Don't worry about not having a cycle, it will come when it's time. I have personally heard that the cycle comes after the 2nd year after your breasts have started to grow. I also had such a problem that my breasts were small but now they are normal don't worry nature knows its job angela_dark

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adi.gillespie answered · October 19, 2020

   The later, the better. Don't be fooled at all, but to know how nasty it is! You don't have to understand soon! :)

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sexylovingchristopher1993 answered · October 19, 2020

   .. Yes .. A very familiar story ... And I think so, because I'm not one of the girls who develops quickly .... that I will come at 18, I will not come at all, everyone will make fun of me ... The others told me I had nothing to worry about. And one day it came to me! Before that I had a vaginal rash ... if you have one, then it is a sign that it will come to you! Well, it didn't come to me very soon a year later.

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10000viewsoncb answered · October 19, 2020

   I am 12 and it came to me at the end of August. Glad it hasn't come to you yet. Neither my stomach hurt, before, during and after. I don't know if I'm one of the few people who doesn't have pain or if it's like the first time. I don't have any problems, but I was quite stressed and cried and I was so stressed that I couldn't tell my mother what had happened and I had to guess, so I cried for 1 hour, after which I calmed down as if nothing had happened. :)

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latinaculo answered · October 19, 2020

   Omg -. - What fears is different for everyone that your grandmother came to 18 does not mean that it will be the same with you !!! 1;) and I'm 14 and I don't have anything to worry about when I turn 16 and I don't have it yet

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KittyPurrz answered · October 20, 2020

   Believe me, when it comes to you, you will wish you didn't have it again. You don't know how unpleasant it is to be in pain every month, to feel nauseous, to be under stress and to change bandages constantly! If there was no way without consequences, I would get rid of my cycle. I was very well until I had a cycle. As a child, I women didn't know what pain we went through with this female physiology of ours, and it's better that I didn't know. My mother did not share anything with me and did well. Live your life because then you will not feel so good and free.

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Aaliyah___ answered · October 20, 2020

   People, stop belittling the author's problem. Nobody wants to develop slowly. Nowadays you can't guess the age of a girl, because at 12 they look like 18 years old - they have breasts, they have a cycle, they have women's bodies and when they make up, you don't know what set they are. But when you are beautiful and feminine, they look at you and feed your self-confidence, and when you develop more slowly, they either ignore you or make fun of you. The author's worries are quite normal, because no child or teenager wants to be rejected. What happens to you in your teens is crucial to your future development, so it's not a problem to ignore. Author, calm down! Stop thinking about it and see how good it will come to you. You will remember and develop, sooner or later everything will fall into place!

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clary_curve answered · October 20, 2020

   If some of your relatives have developed genetically later, you have nothing to worry about! Especially if you are a gentle, fragile figure! However, at 17, if you do not have menstruation, go to a gynecologist to see if you have physiological problems. But once you've "thrown" yourself at your grandmother in figure and development, you have nothing to worry about. I am also slower and I am petty. But at 21 I look sweet and gentle, while my girlfriends are like aunts in both face and figure. So later development has its advantages - your face is more tender and teenage, your body is puffy and somehow sexier, you look like a girl-woman, not like 25-30 years old. With these hormonal and harmful foods, people have confused their development en masse. You are not abnormal, and the development of others is accelerated due to predisposition and harmful eating. Calm down and rejoice that you will look younger for a long time. Now you may not be sexually attractive among teenagers, but remember - at 19 things will turn around. Just patience.

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arctus75 answered · October 20, 2020

   I see that the story is from 7 years ago. So what happened? Was the girl without friends or did you realize that you were self-sufficient? :))