I am a 16 year old girl. I met a boy a long time ago and he is about a year or two older than me and he started writing to me and I answered him he fell in love with me, the problem is that I don't like him and I don't want to break his heart and I do not know what to do. And I wonder how a person can be in love for so long that he seems to have been in love with me since the first day we met and about a year has passed. Please advice. Please let the editor release my story
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There is no easy way. You just have to tell him. And in the future, know that you have to be clear in your intentions from day one. To love you for a long time means that you gave him hope and did not tell him that he did not. Come on, he'll be more courageous in a week, and this should be a lesson for you in the future not to deal with guys you don't like.
Have you confused the years? You mean you're a 61-year-old woman and you've fallen in love with a man one or two years older than you, but he doesn't like you, and he doesn't want to break your heart, and now he's wondering how to deal with you. . I would advise you to forget it, it is not difficult in adulthood.
You tell him you don't like him that much. It won't be the last time he gets used to it. Your heart will also be broken at least once, so don't feel bad. It happens to everyone.
I don't think much can be done about it. Once he has fallen in love with you without any signals from you, he will have to fall out of love with you. Don't worry, it has happened to everyone. ;)
God, I read the comments and I wonder what kind of people there are in this forum. Girl, as far as I can see, you don't like him, but nowadays it's rare for a boy to love you for so long without giving up. You can start liking it too, but it will take time. There are two types of love, one at first sight and the other is built over time. Even if you tell him that you don't like him, he will continue to love you, he will forget you in time, but I don't see any sense in wasting love like that. You decide which is best, but I think you should try. :) If things work out and there is one happy couple more, not teenagers who just want sex. You will make me happy! :) W at 31 years.
From the author. There is no sense in number 5, even if we become boyfriends, as I do not feel the same, I will only mislead him and it will get worse and I will break his heart. Up to number 3 they broke my heart and I broke the hearts of other people. Up to number 1 and 3 when I tell him it will be very awkward because he still didn't tell me in my face that he likes me. And when I tell him, he can offer to love me, but he can go on.
From number 5: When you don't like him and don't feel anything, tell him that you have no feelings and that you just want to be friends. Or he may lose his temper over time or find another. Just be careful not to turn the seats over time, because it's even worse. :) Good luck!
From the author. Is a friendship with him possible? And when I break his heart, is it possible for us to be friends? I broke the hearts of a few boys and we remained friends only the first few days were awkward but then we got better. And everything was fine
From number 5: Apparently you appreciate him a lot if you want to stay friends so much, men are sometimes unpredictable and you don't know, but in the end I hope everything happens the way you want. :)