Hello everyone! I never thought I would write a story here. So far I have only read ... I have a friend for 3 years. He loves me very much, I love him too. Or so I think ... Two years ago I started working as a waitress in the lobby of a hotel in Burgas and normally I met many different people there ... At first I did not pay attention to the manager, who is 28 years old. a man, quite well built, tall, charming ... I forgot to mention that I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is one year older than me. That in the beginning everything seemed like a joke with the manager ... we were joking, we were hanging out ... but I knew that he had a girlfriend of 5 years, I was also engaged. And I am a person who keeps the person next to me and I have not cheated so far. In the course of communicating with the manager in question, I seemed to begin to feel some feelings, he was not indifferent either and this was obvious ... The story dragged on a bit, I will give in a nutshell ... the manager broke up with his girlfriend, I also broke up with my friend. And we were together - 2 weeks. The most wonderful time in my life ... everything was wonderful with him, but he was very influenced by his mother and the people around him and broke up with me and returned to his 5 year relationship, of course! I also got together with my ex and things went very well ... all this time I was still working at the hotel ... but in the summer I was promoted and became an administrator at our site in Sunny Beach. And I stopped seeing the manager. I lived in a dormitory with my friend and I felt very good ... But the summer ended, I was accepted as a student and I returned to the hotel in Burgas as an administrator. Accordingly, almost every day I see the same manager again ... from the first day he started looking for some closeness with me, tried to touch me several times, etc. I did not meet his wishes, I am still with the same boy and we live together. But for a few days now I seem to have started to feel something towards the manager. I am very confused, I know that he still has feelings, because he shows it constantly, and it is obvious ... , but at the same time I want to be in control. It is very strange to me, please give me advice, what do you think about the situation at all, I hope you understand what it is about, because it seems to be quite confused. Thanks! that he still has feelings, because he shows it constantly, and it's obvious .. I don't want to lie again about anything in the world, but at the same time I want to be in control. It's very strange to me, please give me advice, what do you think about the situation in general, I hope you understand what it is about, because it seems to be quite confused. Thanks! that he still has feelings, because he shows it constantly, and it's obvious .. I don't want to lie again about anything in the world, but at the same time I want to be in control. It's very strange to me, please give me advice, what do you think about the situation in general, I hope you understand what it is about, because it seems to be quite confused. Thanks!
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Don't get carried away with this manager, because he has nothing to give you, unlike your friend! Nikolay-Burgas
Dude, I'm going to give you some advice from experience. I'd say stay with the person who really cares about you. If you think that this manager can give you everything you need and feel complete, take on this challenge, but if you think that it may be just a fleeting memory, you better not bother to throw away your serious relationship.
I don't know about the situation but ... If you ask me, don't commit to the manager. I think so because you shared that the first time he did not leave, and when you returned to your friend everything was fine, that is, you are not for each other (at least in my opinion). And think if you want to be with the manager, then will you have the courage to return to your friend, after all, he can't forgive forever, now he has given you a second chance, don't waste it.
Sit on your ass !!!
Honey, I've been in a situation like this and I'm definitely sure you should stay with the person you love and who loves you! Yes, the thrill of the new, the interesting intrigue in general overwhelms you, but you have already experienced it once with this person and you have convinced yourself that he is NOT the real one for you. The shadow of his girlfriend or your man will always hang over you. Just think if it's worth it? Success!
№5 is right! And you yourself say that the manager in question is greatly influenced by other people's opinions. Are you ready to go through another breakup with him? And does it make sense? Better, really, don't waste the second (and maybe last) chance your friend gave you. Good luck;)
Honey, dump the young man, let him enjoy life ... really. The "Manager" will give you everything you need, including the very comprehensive answer to your question.
Honey, don't be fooled, he only wants you for fun, just like he's tired of his girlfriend. Don't give in to false feelings because then it will hurt.