Hello. I'm 17 and he's 25. We've been together recently. After several failed relationships over the years, I had completely given up on the idea that I too would meet a valuable and sincere person. And here he appeared. We met at my workplace. We feel very good with each other, it makes me smile, it makes me feel happy, he is so kind and considerate to me. I just can't believe this is happening to me, it's too good to be true. He may be the only good thing in my gray life. I see that he really cares that he cares. But my parents are against us being together because he is Turkish. I told them to introduce them to him, to see what he was like, to give him a chance, but they didn't even want to hear me. I told them how good I felt about him, how he treated me and that he made me happy. They kept threatening to imprison me if we didn't separate, they found his father and told him to tell his son to stop seeing me. They only create problems for me and expose me. Tomorrow I will look at his father, he knows we see each other and he doesn't mind, I personally told him. I do not know what to do. I'm afraid he won't back away from me, just not to quarrel with my parents. I don't want them to decide for me who I will be with. I don't want anyone to stand between us. How can I show them that it is not what they think it is just and not to quarrel with my parents. I don't want them to decide for me who I will be with. I don't want anyone to stand between us. How can I show them that it is not what they think it is? just and not to quarrel with my parents. I don't want them to decide for me who I will be with. I don't want anyone to stand between us. How can I show them that it is not what they think it is?
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You're 17, he's 25 ... I don't think this job is good.
Look now, you're 17 years old. What were you looking for and what were you desperate for? I would also be against my daughter dating a Turk because I would be worried - especially if she is a Muslim. In my opinion, you don't need to meet them, and they go too far, there is a high probability that this is not HE, no matter how perfect everything seems to you. There is no point in convincing them, they are prejudiced. In time, if something serious really comes out, they will notice it, as long as he proves that he deserves it - whether it is with attitude, gifts or something like that. It's time for men to learn that they need to win their girl over, as well as her parents. Be patient.
Hello, you are still very young. They will be the first to face life. I was in your situation, and indeed my sister did not agree then. And he turned out to be right. I didn't listen. The big difference in thinking between the two of us turned out to be an obstacle, which after 3 years of relationship I had to end. But it turned out very badly. The man in question turned out to be the devil. He chases me and calls me every night in our country for two months. He fights with my parents. Then he met my mother and insisted that I call him. Many years passed, I was about to get married and he stood in my way again. I had accumulated so much for him since then that I shouted in the street for him to leave me alone. He was frightened by the reaction. I haven't seen him since. This is my ill-considered relationship. I was your age. Balamos kissed me and I believed him. Then he showed his real face. I don't want to go into details. I barely got rid of this guy. And I have developed a fear of persecution to this day. It's been more than seven years and it keeps me moist. You said nothing about this man. What does he do? What works, what is his family. How do you know they are good people. You are a minor and you have to listen to your family. They didn't find you on the road, you didn't branch on the lawn like a sponge. They think well of you. He eats beef, takes off your stars and you're ready to spread your legs. Who knows how many he has been with and how many infections he carries. Burn your mind. I tell you again, you have seen nothing in life. Youth relationships remain a mark for a lifetime. You may one day regret it. The decision is yours. Bye. What works, what is his family. How do you know they are good people. You are a minor and you have to listen to your family. They didn't find you on the road, you didn't branch out on the lawn like a sponge. They think well of you. He eats beef, takes off your stars and you're ready to spread your legs. Who knows how many he has been with and how many infections he carries. Burn your mind. I tell you again, you have seen nothing in life. Youth relationships remain a mark for a lifetime. You may one day regret it. The decision is yours. Bye. What works, what is his family. How do you know they are good people. You are a minor and you have to listen to your family. They didn't find you on the road, you didn't branch out on the lawn like a sponge. They think well of you. He eats veal, takes off your stars and you are ready to spread your legs. Who knows how many he has been with and how many infections he carries. Burn your mind. I tell you again, you have seen nothing in life. Youth relationships remain a mark for a lifetime. You may one day regret it. The decision is yours. Bye. Burn your mind. I tell you again, you have seen nothing in life. Youth relationships remain a mark for a lifetime. You may one day be sorry. The decision is yours. Bye. Burn your mind. I tell you again, you have seen nothing in life. Youth relationships remain a mark for a lifetime. You may one day be sorry. The decision is yours. Bye.
Turks are great people but there are many examples of how they change after getting a woman. This is their nature. Be very careful and think well and try it in different situations!
Your parents think well. One day when you grow up, you will understand them and appreciate their behavior. I hope you listen to them so that you don't regret it later.
Well, your little girl is right, and if I were, I wouldn't approve of such a relationship! First 7 years difference is not a little second second is a Muslim, and you know most of what is their attitude towards women. Now he may be nice to you, but then when you live together he will show you his true face and then you will regret that you did not listen to yours.
What connections for years? Aren't you 17? Something doesn't really sound to me what you're writing. Maybe your parents are against it not because he is Turkish, but because you are too arrogant and probably stupid. I do not think that ethnicity is a problem. My friend is also a foreigner, but that doesn't stop any man from changing to lose his original charm after we left. By the way, this is what all men do. From two sentences I understand that you are not ready for a relationship. You are guided by your "gray daily life", not by love or serious and deep feelings. You will not "miss" anything. Listen to your parents so that you do not lose your relationship with them - your closest people.
Instead of dealing with older boys who are of another faith on top of everything, focus on learning that the end of the school year is soon! She would have missed her happiness yesterday pickle - now you can hate yours, but if they turn out to be right for the boy, you will thank them!
You see, be careful not to get pregnant and judge for yourself after 5 years, you will only be 23 if you can live with this person. The Bulgarian is a racist, your children will bear Turkish names in which there is nothing wrong, but the Bulgarian is again not tolerant of this. Experience your happiness. Reassure your parents that for now you only have a relationship and nothing serious. Let them find you. In 5 years you will be much more mature in your decision. If things don't work out that way, but this person is all for you, go to a European country where no one will be impressed and you will be happy. In Bulgaria, things are still very rigid. There is no way to marry a gyakolya with a small age difference, rich, smart, Bulgarian and a bunch of other idealistic things that are in your head.
I know you haven't listened to advice, but you're going to get in big trouble. Don't deal with Muslims, of course his father doesn't mind. Ask his father how a Turk would react if his daughter had an affair with a non-Muslim. They will stone her. When everything is to our detriment, it is great for them, the children will be Muslims with Turkish names. It bothered me when I read another such story, I hope you get better, you are still very young, don't believe his words, now he's making fun of you and then it will become hell.
The difference in age for me is even small; I don't know what you're doing so hard, everyone doesn't seem to know what today's 17-18-year-olds are ... as for the ethnic group, I think there is a problem there. ... but you decide, don't let other people's opinion determine your future :)
From the author. I try to explain this to my parents as well - I will not start a family with him. We just have a relationship and I want to be left alone. I feel good with him. Nobody said we would get married, that we would have children.
Abe joke, joke, but if you burst your condom there will be something to learn about life. Such a number can be played by any number, even if it is not Turkish. Always keep one thing in mind, pretending to be very independent and self-governing.
You can try to explain to them, but they know that's how it starts and tomorrow you can serve them that you are pregnant and / or getting married. And from there there is no going back.
To n. 14: Bulgarians are intolerant, eh? And are the Turks very "tolerant"? Why, for example, should their children have Turkish names? Why not with Bulgarian, won't they be half Bulgarian and live in Bulgaria besides? And you, author, probably in your previous relationships you thought that you found "happiness", but no ... How are you so sure that even now you are not wrong?
Look now girl, for yourself you are right when I was 16 and broke up with my boyfriend I thought the world was over .. do not be angry with your parents after year 2 you will think differently .. honestly to you I am grateful that they forbade me various things, because now I am with the best boy and we are even engaged :) calm down
From the author to number 20. That's right. I can't be absolutely sure that I'm not wrong this time as well. And with the previous ones, I thought I wasn't wrong. But with him, his attitude and everything is somehow different. I really can't believe this is happening to me. It even scares me to some extent because "It's not very good" or "It's too good to be true". But I want to try it.
If my daughter serves me something like this, I'll throw her out on the street. I don't want janissaries and bashibozuzi in my house.
Girl, you're 17 with several former failed relationships !? You are immature and that is why you came across this Turk. I have nothing against the Turks or anyone. But !! There is a very big difference in life, morals, manners, which are definitely not in favor of a Bulgarian woman. The others are right - today you are just boyfriends, tomorrow you will be jealous that you are pregnant and in 3 years you will be divorced with a child, without education, work and money. Is that what you want for yourself? If so, go ahead! Hide from yours, lie to them, sleep with the Turk, there is nothing wrong. Love, what to do.