Hello, I have been reading the stories you are writing for a long time and I decided to write my own. I am 22 years old, I have been dating a boy who works in Germany for three years and our relationship was as much a relationship. In those three years, he came only once and that's it. During this time, I met another man, a man with whom my day began and ended, a man who showed me what it is like to love and be loved. But we just can't be together. Now this boy came from Germany two days ago. One night we slept in them, but the next I decided to be alone in my home. Now he will stay here for a month and mine and his parents want us to get married and I don't want to. Several reasons stop me: 1. I don't know him well, 2. I don't love him as much as before, 3. I have a good job that I don't want to lose. 4. I don't want to go there with him. And my mother is so obsessed with him, for her he is perfect. And I don't want to rush everything. If you want to give an opinion, what do you think THANK YOU.
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Do not rush! Follow your heart. No one can tell you what to do. Marry when you want and for whom you want, and don't do it to please someone, even your own parents. Because then you will regret and neither you nor the people around you will be happy. From: A woman in a similar situation
It doesn't matter what your mother wants, it matters you! Since you are not ready for marriage, what are you for? Divorce in a year or so? Explain it to the boy, if he loves you he will understand you.
The listed reasons are enough for you not to hurry with the marriage. Also, you are not too old, consider the pros and cons well, so that you do not blame yourself later. Your parents are supposed to think well, but you will live with it. Winnie the Pooh
What do you think at all?!?! Is there any reason at all to want to marry him? Do not do it! This is something for life. You can't get married because of your mother. If YOU don't love him, does it matter what others want and what they think ?! There is no! Meg *
Off, this story is kind of a lot to me. Yours and theirs want to get married, and you don't even know each other, in three years, in your words, you've seen each other twice. And I didn't mention if he even wants to get married. hardly he knows you as much as you know him, and far from the eyes, far from the heart people have said. I see no good reason to marry, and neither of you is in love with the other. Explain to your parents that you have no common future and nothing will happen between you. success
the current boy you love - is he reliable? keep in mind that unfortunately marriage is not just about love. your mother is obsessed because she wants you to live well and one day not wonder how to buy medicine for your child. I have 1 girlfriend was in your position -1 to 1. Finally she chose this one from here, and now they barely connect the 2 ends, and they have a child. do not rush and think!
abe number 6 are you okay. and what is the guarantee that the one in Germany will be fine, but if he beats her he cheats or ........... or ....... you yourself have seen from your girlfriend that and when there is love does not happen sometimes, but what to talk about marriage without knowing each other and without any feelings on both sides. it is clear that love is not eaten, but it does not happen just by eating
How can I understand your words "I've been dating a boy for 3 years ....." and our relationship wasn't a relationship .... but what was it then ??? I don't love him as before and I don't know him well ..... Girl, you have not suffered enough in life to understand what is right and what is not .... When you fall in love strongly and truly ... you will answer for yourself .... SUCCESS ROSIROS
Clear. You wrote the answer girl. "both mine and his parents want us to get married. I DON'T NEED YOU" I DON'T NEED TO PLEASE YOUR PARENTS. YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY HIM AT ALL, AND YOUR PARENTS WANT. WHY DO YOU WONDER HOW NOT TO ANGRY THEM? THESE DECISIONS ARE PERSONALLY YOUR RIGHT. YOU WILL BREAK YOUR LIFE IF YOU GET MARRIED. YES. SHOW A LITTLE CHARACTER, WHERE IS HE? YOU WILL SUFFER IN YOUR LIFE FOR THIS. YOU WILL HAVE TO ASK US MANY MORE THINGS. TIGHTEN UP. NO SURPRISE AT ALL, I THINK YOU WILL MISTAKE A LOT. Good luck :)
Interesting :). I am a man, 31 years old, I live abroad. I know a girl of one year, this summer in BG we were boyfriends for 3 weeks. Also, my and her parents insisted on getting married, but a lot :). How can I marry a girl I don't even know? I personally can't. I returned abroad, where I live, we kept in touch only 3 weeks after I left. It was a miracle for me, I just couldn't stand it. text messages, calls and e-mails. Not only were there many, I had the feeling that several people were writing them together. So in my opinion, if you don't want to, you better not do it. It doesn't matter that it's from Germany. for "blade" both, you will part very quickly. First, get to know each other, then something can happen.
by the author Do you know my story will end like yours. He will also stay only three weeks and will leave, and I think that when the time goes there, they will separate us, people say, far from the eyes, far from the heart.