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I Dream Of Him, But I Don't Know Him. Does It Exist?

By binkyfelstead October 28, 2020 21 answers Last updated October 28, 2020

Hello! Please if you can, help me !! For several years (I am a girl of 19), I have been dreaming of a boy I do not know and have never seen. My dreams started for no reason (I was neither lonely nor missing anything, I was always surrounded by people and I did not lack male attention). So we rule out the assumption that they appeared subconsciously from the lack of something. The possibility of dreaming about it is also ruled out because I like this type of boys. On the contrary, it was only when I saw the boy in my dreams that I began to look at this type of man and look for that face. The boy has dark hair (black or sometimes very dark brown), white face, beautiful brown or black eyes, and most of all - his hair is broken, carelessly (not styled with gel, etc.) falls back, not long, but not short - carelessly falls past the ears. The strange thing is that as soon as I saw him in my dream, I experienced a feeling untested until now - as if we knew each other inside ourselves. As if from a past life (not that I believe in rebirths, I share an opinion that Deepak Chopra describes in one of his books - that there is no afterlife, no rebirths, and everything is an information field). But with this boy, only when we look at each other, in my dreams, we know each other! And ... we feel so close that we even understand each other with our eyes, we read our thoughts, we feel from a distance ... I know it's stupid, and I don't pay much attention to dreams, knowing that they are the fruit of the subconscious , and that they are a sign of desire or fear for / from something ... But I also know that some of them suggest a future. I've dreamed it so often, and what dreams, that I began to believe it existed. I wrote prose and letters about him. And I thought I was stupid, but ... I do not stop having the inner feeling that I will meet him. And I know that I have a strong intuition, and I have often anticipated many things. Does it really exist If so, is he also dreaming of me? How do I find it? After one of my dreams with him, I said to Evan. There is no such name in Bulgaria. What does this mean? And does it matter at all? Please, if anyone has something to say on the matter, share ... I have been trying for years ... Thanks in advance

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dashcam12 answered · October 28, 2020

   Girl - it's like you described me! Seriously, I have brittle dark hair, dark brown eyes, and a white face.

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rachel_spank answered · October 28, 2020

   Tell us more about your dream. Tell me in more detail what this boy looks like? Are there any distinctive features?

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sexy_girl_sarah answered · October 28, 2020

   Evan = Avon = Ivan Here is a hint: Try to talk to the boy and ask him where he is from, what he is like, etc.

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naruto answered · October 28, 2020

   I read that we only dream of people we have ever seen :))

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garagedog2 answered · October 28, 2020

   Yes, and I read that we dream of people only if we have seen them, so maybe you saw it, but it did not impress you, but you subconsciously liked it :)

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annapass answered · October 28, 2020

   You may not know this, but the people who participate in your dreams are always people who exist. There is no way your subconscious can invent faces, you can know them simply because they can be anyone you have seen in your life, for example the boy you saw coffee 3 years ago but you didn't really meet so you forgot you saw it but your brain really remembers and can recreate what it looks like, just the boy from your dream is someone you've ever seen, if that makes you feel better :)

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justboredreallyxoxo answered · October 28, 2020

   And years before I met my first husband, I dreamed of him without seeing him. There are no random things. We more intuitive people have such dreams. Well, just remember your dreams and walk with open eyes throughout your life! Then one day you may actually meet him. It may sound dumb, but maybe this is your soulmate. Believe in the good and pray to God. Pray to God both for yourself and for this Bulgarian people frightened by the earthquake!

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wildkittens1 answered · October 28, 2020

   Haha! With this description it sounds like my friend: e Try talking to him in your dream, it might help. Remember if you haven't seen it somewhere, we usually only dream of people we've seen. Look at all the people you pass by and look for him among them. This is from me :)

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lucianafusterg answered · October 28, 2020

   Thank you very much for the feedback! Well, I'm sure I didn't see him before I dreamed of him! In general, if someone has impressed me, I remember, or I certainly find a way to meet him. And I lived in a small town, where if I saw him once, I wouldn't see him again ... Or when I think about it - I remember a case (it was a year or two after I started dreaming about it) that I was walking along the canal in my city down to the center. I was wearing a tracksuit, shorter than usual, and sunglasses. I was talking on the phone and walking fast, but on the other side of the canal in the opposite direction a boy - with the same hair and image !! , together with another boy, they were walking and the person in question stopped looking at me. I kept walking downstairs, and he crossed the bridge with his friend, and he found himself on the same street I was walking on, but far behind me, turning into an adjacent street. It's just that - I was turning because I was shaking all over - it was as if he was the same as in my dream, and he kept looking at me. And I saw that his friend hid in the next street, and he stayed on this one, stopped and kept looking after me. That was very strange. Since then, wherever I looked for him, I met a lot of guys, looked around, wandered everywhere. But I never saw him again. Otherwise, in one of my dreams, I think I asked him where he was from, and the answer was - in a village near Pleven. I have relatives of my father there, but I do not know them and I have not gone. And how do I look for someone whose name I don't know? Ok, maybe you're really right, maybe Evand is Ivan. But how many people say that? That's not enough to look for it ... N 1 - you say you look the same? N 9 - does your friend look like that? So there's this type of people, but why haven't I seen one? My eyes are open to him all the time, but no one even looks like him! This is what I described. I can't think of other details or more distinctive features ... But I know - if I see it, I will recognize it !!

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amynta answered · October 28, 2020

   Trying to ask him a question is not so easy, it can only happen if he controls his dream, ie when the dream is realized, which means that she knows in her dream that she is dreaming. Try to learn to dream consciously, I think this is the only way to understand who this person is and why he appears in your dreams. Berry

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andreavaldirisos answered · October 28, 2020

   How to dream consciously? I've been working lately, I'm tired and I sleep less and I remember my dreams less palely. And I've had a serious friend for a year, and I think I rarely dream about this boy. Although at times he appears, but for a short time, only his image. I can't talk to him much, and my memories are more blurred. But somehow I know in myself that he has it. And I really need it. I don't know how to find it, but I already desperately want it .. :( I only feel full with it ...

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xmichelleastrox answered · October 28, 2020

   Isn't there a way to go to this village?

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scarlett_gram answered · October 28, 2020

   Chick, a few years ago (I was your age), I dreamed of a boy and often thought about him, but I had never seen him. He had told me in a dream his name and where he came from. There is no village with such a name ... To this day it is strange to me and I remember very well what the boy looked like and how he said "Find me" ... Maybe we will never explain some things, and maybe It should

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ZONATY_40 answered · October 29, 2020

   I am here and I exist. :-)

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multishow answered · October 29, 2020

   And so you have auburn hair to the place of your southena is thick and with brown eyes you are about 1. 60-1 tall. 70 well-shaped body and you have a tendency not to give in to anything, you also have a good complexion and I think your name starts with P

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niggago answered · October 29, 2020

   New fashion - seek your love through dreams. Drink some water and calm down. And those in the comments are mesmerized by what romance. I don't want to be rude, but every second boy looks like that. Second fact - you dream of people you have ever seen. Even for 1 second, even if you didn't focus on them. But how will you know his qualities? Your brain has given them to him. Not to mention that, as I said above, there are thousands of boys with this description, some have girlfriends, others are simpletons. If you think that's the way it is, you will find it and it will be the dream boy and so on. Don't do nonsense. Separately, what have you prayed to this God. Do you only hope that God will do everything for you? What's important to him at all, what were you wearing that girl? Watch your life, deal with the people around you. If someone comes to my door and tells me, that he dreamed of me I will laugh at him and close the door. Do you hear how stupid this is? I forgot to mention that I am a psychology teacher and sometimes I teach my classmates dream-related material. After all, this is a figment of your imagination, and if a cool boy reaches out and calls you to him, he's probably not there in reality and not waiting for you at all. Man exists, as we have all told you - every object of your dreams exists. Whether or not it impressed you. And please tighten up! He was watching you. That it and I look at people without seeing them. I don't pay attention to them at all, but I can still stare at them for 5 minutes. There's little chance he noticed you, you're just an ordinary girl. And the world does not revolve around you. God ... and how come you don't remember such a person and the next moment you remember so many details, that you can tell what you ate then, what time it was and what was in his bag. What is this nonsense, recover! And as long as it dramatizes ... prose, poems. God, God, protect me from this nonsense! I know you will immediately dispute everything I have written and you will be affected, but this is the truth. Create your life, don't look for it and don't do nonsense. May God protect you from such miracles as you ...

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tinkaa19 answered · October 29, 2020

   hello to me the story is the same one girl I dream about it often and in the same way I am best with her, I have the best and we understand each other a lot but I can't meet her yet but I hope that someday maybe it will happen. she has black hair cut in a very nice way, but I'm still hiding, but I hope to see you.

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Mrrrrrrrrruczka answered · October 29, 2020

   Well, I met years later with a man I dreamed of WITHOUT ever having seen him before and I say it with absolute certainty. We met in another country, he has never come to Bulgaria, and we have never been to another country at the same time.

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whatsthedealnews answered · October 30, 2020

   The same thing happens to me. I dreamed of the boy of 3 years and I still continue.

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Emilypussy answered · October 30, 2020

   That a man dreamed only of people and things he saw was an absolute lie. Consciousness creates the space-time in which our senses work, and Consciousness itself can direct attention to different points in the space-time continuum. I know that for traditional materialists all this sounds absurd to say the least, and I would think so before things started happening to me. I graduated in physics and mathematics and I have always been a materialist skeptic, and perhaps one of the most ardent. skeptics ... I was like that until I started having prophetic dreams. Most unexpectedly, I dreamed in advance of various small things that happened to me during the day. I had even started writing down my dreams in a diary to make sure I didn't "fix" things after the event itself. Well, I didn't change anything, because after the small prophetic dreams the bigger predictions began - for business trips to places I have never been, for a meeting with a person in a place (to the extent that he will be dressed) and others. Unfortunately, I can't control when and what to dream, I've been trying for a long time to adjust before dreaming to dream the outcome of an event. So the mass of people live in an artificial image of the world. Yes, everything is made of atoms, electrons, quarks and protons, but what are they? And one more thing - when we dream a dream (which is not prophetic) and identify with the character in the dream, what is the dream itself made of? I dare say that just as a dream is made by a "mind," so reality is made by a "mind." In Eastern religions this is a widespread thesis, there the reality is "Maya". - the great illusion that wants to make us believe that it is the absolute reality, but it is not. The mass of people live in Maya and do not know the absolute reality, which is beyond space-time. I am not saying that all dreams that seem or wish to be prophetic are prophetic. Over time, one can develop a knowledge of whether a dream was prophetic or not, as well as whether one can change the course of events.

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thibaultlenympho answered · October 30, 2020

   Go to an artist, explain to him what the boy looks like and have him make a portrait of you. Take the portrait and post it on Facebook, adding your story and making the photo public for everyone to see. Sounds crazy but I read the comments your story and this is the way you should act, you want to meet this boy. Act fight. Don't listen to what your mind can give you every case you need.