Hello! I've been liking a boy from school for a while, and every time I see him I get really sick at the thought of him hardly feeling the same. Otherwise, I have always greeted him and been kind to him. I've been thinking a lot about him for the past few weeks and wondering what to do to get at least a little attention. I thought, we're in art school anyway, why don't I just draw it. And it's been about 10 days since this idea went through my mind and the drawing was ready. I made it on a tablet and showed it to a few of my friends in advance and they said that the drawing was actually very good and I couldn't help but send it to him. After some hesitation, I just sent it to him and wrote that I hope he likes it. He was really very happy and fascinated judging by what he wrote to me. The same day, in which I sent it to him, we were at school and I saw him, but I was so embarrassed to tell him anything that I just passed him without even greeting him. Today, when I came to the school, I saw him sitting on the ground in the corridor. The moment he saw me, he just got up and left. I thought he was angry that I missed him that day. I'm really sick and I don't know what to do. My friends say he's just an ungrateful idiot, but I'm so confused I don't even know what to think. I would be very happy if you have advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks! he just got up and left. I thought he was angry that I missed him that day. I'm really sick and I don't know what to do. My friends say he's just an ungrateful idiot, but I'm so confused I don't even know what to think. I would be very happy if you have advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks! he just got up and left. I thought he was angry that I missed him that day. I'm really sick and I don't know what to do. My friends say he's just an ungrateful idiot, but I'm so confused I don't even know what to think. I would be very happy if you have advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks!
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And why did you pass it without greeting? Super weird reaction after you sent him the drawing. I think he was offended by that. You better go talk to him, not wait for him to take the first step.
Your story reminds me a little of mine, in fact it is the same, only I did not send it and it will not happen. Be strong and don't show him that it hurts. He must see that he is not really so special as to avoid vanity. After all, you could draw anyone else, and you still can.
Go to him and start a normal conversation, don't mention your drawing, or attack him for avoiding you ... If, you want to invite him to go out after school with yours and his company, but it doesn't look like a date, you can mention, that you will drink beer in the park or whatever the young people do there, today ... being among their boys makes it easier to relax. Boys are afraid of romantic gestures, especially when they are teenagers and have no experience and do not know how to react.