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I Fall In Love With The Wrong Person

By cocdiezle September 03, 2020 3 answers Last updated September 03, 2020

Hello! :) My story starts from the fact that soon my girlfriend and I started dating two boys. Nothing unusual until one showed a strong interest in her almost immediately. I have never been an envious person and I have always been happy for her and now it is, but I have very wrong feelings for the same boy mentioned. I would never try, because I can clearly see that they like each other a lot, but on the other hand I know that if they start a relationship, things will escalate for me as well, because I will see it almost every day. I couldn't tell her, because this would be a very big stove for our friendship. I'm really at a dead end and I don't know what to do, because I feel like my feelings will start to show more and more.

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andrewwhite03 answered · September 03, 2020

   I speak from experience because I was the boy in such a situation. You're right that your friendship won't last, but I think just wait, abstract yourself a little from the boy, don't make yourself think you're madly in love because you're not. In a month everything will be over. This is not love but envy, which is not a bad thing. We are all human beings, no matter how much we pretend we are not. Take a good look at the boy in a week, because now you are still under the influence of some primary attraction and see if you really like him or not, imagine a relationship with him, not just good moments but whether your characters are for each other and there is a high probability you realize it's not for you at all. Good luck. Sorry for the mistakes, I'm writing from the phone

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nz0502 answered · September 03, 2020

   You have to tell her to prove that she cares about her friendship as well.

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kelly_wayne answered · September 03, 2020

   Well, avoid meeting the boy in question, since your angels are so weak. There is nothing else to do.