Hello. When I was in the 5th grade, something happened that still bothers me today. I am currently in 9th grade. I'm sick right now, and I'd like to ask you for advice on what to do. I remember being on duty. It was the bell, and we had class. I stood at the door waiting for the lady. But a boy was coming and I think he was insulting me, but I'm not sure what exactly he was. But I didn't pay attention to him. I pushed him to go to his desk. Then I turned around. But he fell and broke his head. Then his father came, but nothing serious happened. We just peeled two or three stories about how it happened, and so on. But I don't think I pushed him hard, and he could have stopped before he tripped. This does not give me peace. I do not know what to do. I feel guilty. Please help me. What to do?
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Pay attention to your mental health! I'm serious. These are the so-called "obsessive thoughts". I have a cousin diagnosed with schizophrenia and he is constantly tormented by such questions. He takes his medicine, finds a job as a security guard in a store, but his torments do not stop. For example, he remembers once helping a mother with a baby in a stroller walk past the cash register. The cart hung slightly in the railing. And to this day, he worries about whether the baby was injured then and whether he is guilty. If he accidentally crashes into the subway, then he does not sleep for weeks and imagines how the man could have fallen on the rails and the train could have crushed him. He washes his hands ten times a day so as not to infect anyone. With what? No one knows! My mother, though not to such an extent, is the same and feels that she has a personality disorder. Ever since I was a child, she took me to doctors, because she always had some illnesses about me, and I had nothing. Once he didn't let me go to a classmate's birthday because ... someone could have stabbed me with a fork! A pimple comes out and decides that the end - it's a tumor. I avoid communicating with her for this very reason - one can go crazy for half an hour only. In your case, nothing happened. Two boys collided, one fell, hit his head, then passed and probably forgot about all the work and ran after the girls. I avoid communicating with her for this very reason - one can go crazy for half an hour only. In your case, nothing happened. Two boys collided, one fell, hit his head, then passed and probably forgot about all the work and ran after the girls. I avoid communicating with her for this very reason - one can go crazy for half an hour only. In your case, nothing happened. Two boys collided, one fell, knocked his head, then passed him and probably forgot about all the work and ran after the girls.
I don't think it's your fault. And if you pushed him a little, he may have stumbled somewhere. And don't feel guilty. It's been a long time since this case. The boy must be fine. And all sorts of incidents happen. If this will calm you down, everyone does such things. This is not so serious of yours. You didn't want to. In some cases, a fight ensues. And you just pushed him. You have to forget this case. It's over.
You may not have pushed him hard, but he may have lost his balance, stumbled, and gained extra momentum. Such things happen. It is very bad that you lose much of the story and are not sure about important details. I hope that from the whole incident you learned not to push people, even lightly (jokingly), but to put more emphasis on communication and furniture. Talk to the boy in question, not his father. Ask him how hard you pushed him, explain that it wasn't meant to hurt him, and apologize. At your age, you should be able to deal with such cases without consulting strangers and wasting a lot of time in unnecessary thinking. You pushed him, he fell, you feel guilty-> you talk to the boy, you explain to him everything you wrote here and you apologize.
Hello! The boy is fine, he runs after the girls, even until a month ago when we were building at school, he came, he even pretended that he could beat me :) Although he can't. But we're not in the same class anyway. And after this case we talked again :) I'm not sure if it was related to this case (because he was a bit problematic), but he had started to run even when he was talking to our class. I'm not sure if it was related to the same case. I think I apologized to him back then. From the author. Thank you for your words