Hello! There is something that bothers me a lot. I will briefly explain about myself. I am a closed person and I find it difficult to let people in. I didn't have many friends at school. In my freshman year at university, I started moving in with a few other girls. I decided that I had found my environment, even though I still didn't talk and I wasn't very open. Three years later, things happened around a girl. I was not told that they would go to the place associated with this girl (I do not want to go into details). Another girl from this group, when we are only 2, is an awkward silence. It's like I don't exist. It's not like I fought with her. They talk and ask questions about the things in life. One time one of them didn't care about me even for these 3 years, even if I move with them, help with what I can, I'm just like some kind of furniture. As invisible. I do not understand why this is so. I am so good-natured and kind. What do you think is the problem?
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Hello In my opinion, the girls you go out with are completely selfish! Real female friends share even the smallest details of life. Try to find a friend with whom to be more intimate. Don't you think that in order to be too kind and kind to people in general, they must have deserved it at least a little? People like you are a rarity on the streets, most of them are thoughtful, sad, frowning ... I'm sure it's not easy for you, but have you thought about admitting a person to you for intimacy, possibly a relationship? M35
Get involved in their conversations or talk to them individually. It has happened to me too, just relax and start a conversation. People around us are not always to blame. In this case, I'm not saying you are, but you can see if you can't give something of yourself to deserve attention.
I'm in a relationship. The question is different. That it's not as if I don't exist, but when they need projects and a boom, I exist