I have been in a new city for half a year, without acquaintances and friends in it ... I live with roommates who do not like me, and lately they clearly show the hidden malice and sarcasm towards me. There are days when there is no one to be with I say one word - the weekends are the longest, because everyone is at home and no matter how hard I try to find common themes and interests, they do not give me a chance. Isolation and loneliness lead me to a state of depression. I feel that I do not belong to either to the place I come from, nor to what I live in now. How can I regain my inner harmony and self-confidence?
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Are you a student or working? How old? If you are a student, it is easier to find friends among colleagues, even from other classes. Otherwise, it's best to enroll in a foreign language course or something else you like. Sign up for a gym. You will meet many people there. You can even go to the gym in different places to meet more people.
I went through almost the same problem. You will regain your inner harmony when you stop worrying that others don't like you. Why do you even care what they think? If they like you, they would do something to show that they want to befriend you. If they don't want to - the problem is theirs. You go home, do what you have to do, go to bed, get up, and you don't care about them. Whoever wants to be a part of your life, wants to be your boyfriend or girlfriend will do it. Just stay up to date and don't be rude when meeting other people. This way you can find real friends. But there is one more thing. I have noticed that the more attached someone is to someone and the more they fight for them, the easier it is to lose them. So don't put in a lot of emotions. If something has to happen, it will happen.
It is very important to change your accommodation and if you can be alone in a room in the new place, it would be best. Also start going to the gym or some lessons, as advised by number 1. At the gym you will meet a lot of guys, just try not to get involved - ie, evaluate your contacts, you better be alone, than with garbage. If you don't have money for fitness, you can go to the equipment in a school yard in the evening. I have an acquaintance who goes to the yard of the neighborhood school to train. There are other enthusiasts and I know that there are 1-2 good friendships. I wish you success!
Up to 3 - if it were so, a friendship is created in the gyms. Most to eat perdah, because gays go there to take down men.
I'm number 3. I never thought the boy was gay. Maybe he is, after all. However, what happens to him does not only happen to gays.