Hi, I'm 17 years old Krasi and I feel like an outsider. I don't have friends, boyfriend, I don't have a lot of money, I'm ugly, I'm very weak, the girls don't like me, I don't talk to my father (ours are separated) and I don't talk to my mother much ... In general, I don't get up for anything. I really want to change but it is very difficult. I have a lot of acne on my face and my teeth are really bad because I eat a lot of jam from Depression and others. I stutter, but most of all when I see a beautiful girl. I am a true romantic and I respect women a lot. I've done a lot of romantic surprises for girls I've liked, but that's it. I feel very bad (out of place maybe) but I have goals and dreams: I play the piano, I do photography, I mix songs, I write poetry. I wrote a very beautiful song with a girl - "Beautiful Pain", but I liked it, I made romantic gestures, but she had a friend, and probably for fear of losing him, she did not speak to me now. I don't drink, I don't smoke and I don't go to discos. I really like Eminem, Yuli Tonkin, Slavi Trifonov, and not like the others: Crisco, Geri Nilol, the Payner team and other jokers. I think I'm older. And I don't know what to do anymore, I really want a girl to hug, write a song for her, etc ... If you can give me some advice I will be grateful!
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Slavi Trifonov and Crisco are a combination. Your argument is invalid.
There is one solution and that is to work on yourself - externally and internally - go to a dermatologist for acne, if it is very serious ask for Roaccutane (!), Start brushing your teeth with soda (it's bad at the beginning, but it gets used), I didn't understand if you train - if so, continue, if not, start. Once you fix your appearance, the hard part follows. Start going out, if you can still with other people, if not - alone. Let your hobbies bring you confidence and pride. Start stopping the girls and talking to them. Don't be shy, but don't be arrogant. I know this all sounds very, very difficult and almost impossible, but if you really want change, you need it. Success! And remember that we are many times more wonderful and valuable than we believe.
If you like Eminem, I will advise you with a quote from his song: “They can all get f ##### just stay true to you! "Stay the way you are and one day the right girl will fall in love with you.
2-If you brush your teeth with soda it will spoil your enamel, it is very harmful. Don't do it.
Maybe you should go out and talk to others. And with nice gestures, a lot of girls don't appreciate it (I don't know what gestures you did, but that may be the problem). Go to the mall and buy new clothes (in other words, change your style). Sign up for something that is group.
Don't change. Be who you are. I'm a girl and it would be interesting to meet a person like you. Know that you are unique in your own way and just wait for the right person. Your appearance does not matter as long as you are a good and kind person. Find your happiness.
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Hello! I'm also 17, a girl, and I've never had a boyfriend before. And I'm not one of the best, but I don't think appearance is a priority. The attitude of a boy is the most important and with him you win, with him you lose. Be who you are, follow your dreams, if you want to start playing sports, go to a dermatologist, but keep your good attitude towards girls. Learn, develop, follow your goals and the right one will please you precisely because of your heart. As for friends ... and I don't have much, most betrayed me, others decided they didn't know me anymore, so I learned to trust only myself and the fact that there are still boys who respect you and know what is loneliness. Because loneliness is very familiar to me. I wish you success for the future and upside down! I want to know you ....